I’m sure you are all aware of where I stand in regard to tipping. I’m a firm believer in using it to encourage people who provide a great experience. Others completely disagree.

If I did regularly, the recent price spike/surge in the bay without quality uptick, would make me not tip.

earlier today the first response was: "Oh" and an attempt to hand it back as she though I had mistakenly included it. When I said "No, for you." She smiled and said "T.I.P., . . . tip" -- her English is not the best and I thought the spelling it out was really cute.

I like that you pointed out it was a “small gratuity”. I follow approximately the same tipping guidelines that have been outlined several time by CDL Though if there is a “special service” that is different, I think.

I was tipping during 2020.  I was hearing so many girls complain about not being able to make ends meet because customers were not coming to see them due to Covid, so I helped as many girls as I could, and tipped as much as I could justify.  Now I have settled back into my normal tipping range from pre-Covid days because the girls I see all tell me business is back to normal and for some, even better than before.  I also became close friends with a lot of new Kgirls that I hadn't seen before.  They always remember the good tippers.  You can stay away two or three years, during which they may see 2-4000 other guys, depending on their popularity, but they will still remember those who tipped a little more than most guys do, and you get just as good a session as if you were there last week in my experience.  

Look it up.  "Mr. Generosity" sees girls that charge $250, not much more.  All these years he's been tipping a big $10.  Its actually an insult.  Now he can brag that since Covid he has increased his tip by 50%.  Sure they remember him.  Oftentimes they throw the $10 back at him (and he stuffs it back in his pocket).  

I feel the the girl deserves the extra cash! With a session price range from $270 to $300 and, if I understand correctly, $100 going to the booker/Org, that knocks her down to $170 or $200! Pretty low in my book to get for what they do in a session!

If you only saw them a few times before not seeing them for 3 years and the only thing that made you stand out was that you tipped well, I promise they won't remember you. It doesn't count if you have to ask them first if they remember you, and the only thing they say is, "Yes".

Great link!

Its a body slam for Mr. Big Tipper, CDL.  He brags that they will remember him for a few extra bucks...and they see hundreds of clients in a week!

Ooops, I meant to say that to CDL. lol

CDL is a total bullshit artist.  Its easy to expose him.  The best part is that he is so fucking stupid he will be back here posting and trying to lie his way out of his stupidty.  Pushing it back at him puts him one step closer to giving it up.  

I would fuck ALL y'all for $1,700/day plus a free apartment!

other reason they are remembering me after a long layoff.  I always thought it was the tipping, but now you have me thinking.  Remember me they do.  I had one Kgirl that I hadn't seen for 22 months and as soon as I walked in, she started jumping up and down and telling me she was so happy I came back.  Even with her, I thought she remembered how much I gave her for a two hour session the last time I saw her.  Son of a gun.  Maybe I need to rethink my strategy?  Maybe not if its still working.  The test would be to gradually lower my tips and then take note at what level they don't remember me.  

But if I saw her only a few times initially when she was younger, I probably wouldn't be going back again when she's three years older, would I?

makes you significantly more memorable to a kgirl, I believe. But, since I’m generally not a one hour kind of guy, I don’t have much data for comparison.

like that, it makes you look a little desperate, but its still a valid point.  LOL

You reviewed her when she was young.  You wouldn't go back because she never saw you.  You have been banished from this place.  There's nothing else to discuss.

Perhaps, but that defeats your argument, because that's recognition based on familiarity, not from tipping.

that knew who I was when I walked through the door because they heard about my generous tipping from other Kgirls I had seen before them.  I am easy to identify based on a verbal description be one girl to another from some unique physical attributes that I have.  Sometimes the booker would give the girls a heads-up about who I was.  Never underestimate how informed the Kgirl network is.  

"Sorry, bro, you tee it up like that, I gotta take a swing.  LOL"
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/if-youre-worried-about-----976255?frmSearch=1#976255

Yons8, are you associated with Yonsei?

I had actually written, "but its not a hunchback"  when I wrote that sentence, but then decided to take it out. so while not that original because we both thought of the same thing, and probably others, too, its still funny.  

Few people know that he used to have a twin. Sadly, the twin fell out of the tower and died.

Im sure she has tipped to others, but curious is it to everyone or just certain people.  
Before I left she handed me a red envelope with small cash i was like wth? why, she said im a good luck customer.

I always think when you ask to see a girl, the PO informs the girl first if she knows you and if shes ok to see you again or ok for a new customer then maybe shes going thru her notes to remember and if your a yes your booked Then on the following time of your appt. shes gathering her notes about you, if any, to remember you . All this is while your walking to the door. If she remembers, then once you open the door its like omg its you, i miss you lol

I've asked a few of the girls if the booker ever tells them about the client or shows a picture if they have one. Or, on a repeat if the booker says who the next appointment is.  

Used to be that the girl would generally know my name even if I didn't tell her. Not so much anymore. Not sure why.

I've said it before and I'll say it  again.  Tipping  is  for low income workers i.e. waiters, busboys, taxi drivers, etc.  Anyone making 150 or more per hour doesn't work for  measly possibly $15 or $20 tips. If you want  to impress a sex worker, K-girls  in this case come up with some Benjamins or  stop deluding yourself as to how your tip will improve the service. I never tip and you can take this to the bank. I get as good service as possible. The best tip is to return and spend another 250 to 300 to see that girl again. That will help get better service.

So, I’m guessing your answer is that you haven’t changed your tipping practices in any way, correct?

what the Kgirl scene was like 15 years ago.  Ask ANY Kgirl if she would rather have tips or repeats, and she will answer emphatically . . . .   BOTH!!   You must be caught in a time warp.  Nobody tips $15-20 anymore.  The girls I have talked to say that the average tip these days is $50-60.  Some girls say their regulars tip them $100.  I know one OC girl who has a regular that sees her once a week, and brings her a gift card on the first session of each month for $500.   No wonder you can't get an outside date.  LMAO.  

Anyone who tips these Kgirls $20 should be ashamed lol.  Should be at least $50-100 to make these girls even consider you a good customer.  I dont tip normally, but I do tip if I request anything and she agreese, depends who I ask and what kind of requests I figure how much it was worth it. Normally $50-$100, I never gave more.

Could you expand on the "request anything" bit?

I consider my tips for either #1 or #2. Like I stated in my post, I feel it's just extra $ to show my appreciation! That's my reason, I'm not doing it to be considered a good customer or for any kind of recognition!

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For me a tip is generally a tip. In other words, #1 above. But #2 can increase the amount.  And there are times when I don’t tip at all. Very rare. But it has happened a couple of times in the long distant past.

confusing because he actually refers to it as a "fee" which means he recognizes it is not a tip, so it might be suggesting that if she agrees to an off-menu service for a fee, then he would ALSO tip because she agreed to do it in the first place.  

Well that was included because I was trying to understand just what the other poster meant with:
"I dont tip normally, but I do tip if I request anything and she agreese, depends who I ask and what kind of requests I figure how much it was worth it. Normally $50-$100, I never gave more."

We just had a discussion about tipping that was actually illuminating rather than it devolving into an argument with “one hour, no tip” guys.  

she said you were a "good luck" customer, its most likely the Asian custom connected to the Lunar New Year celebrations.  They believe that if they gift people who they consider to be good luck or a positive influence in their lives during the New Year celebrations, whatever they gift to you will come back to them many times over.  

Agreed.