Given all the discussion about increased rates, have you changed your approach on tipping? Have you lowered your % or stayed the same? What % seems reasonable in this current market?
Ladies, have you noticed a change in tipping from your clients?Honestly, I've never tipped, especially with prices the way they are these days. I'd rather spend the extra for more time.
Well, there is an exception to this - I have been seeing a lady for over 4 years on a pretty regular basis, although less regular for almost the past year since she moved to the opposite coast and only comes in about once every three months.
Beginning of this year she raised her rates - not by a whole lot, only $50 an hour. One time before I met her I noticed the new rate on her P411 profile and I reached out to her and said something like "why didn't you tell me you raised your rates? I would have been embarrassed if I showed up with the wrong amount so it's a good thing I caught that". She responded by telling me "oh no, your grandfathered at my old rate" and it seems like that will be for the foreseeable future because she never mentioned it again.
I have always found her to provide a great time and I enjoy our sessions and look forward to them. Every once in a while I'll throw an extra 100 in the envelope and she always emails me a few hours later telling me how much she appreciates it. I've never done that with anyone else.
I have never been a tipper. IMO the provider is getting 400/500 or even 600 for 15/20 minutes of action for an hour long session. In my experience those who require 90 min or 2 hr minimum will just talk your ear off for 30 to 45 mins anyway so the tip is built in.
According to any lady I have asked, the best tip is repeat business.
I agree with this 100%
Last providers I seen did have condom and need me to bring them, then sits on me bear back what the hack. So at end of season Is said I was suppries you wen bb on me and told he had a box smash in my pocket. I gave it to her.
I just payed 400 for her service. And I should pay more. If she sucked do I pay less?
This comment leads into the often asked, "Do you tip your lawyer? Do you tip your doctor?" There are always disagreements about whether one should tip those providing professional services as compared to those providing more basic services. (chef vs. waiter; car mechanic vs. gas pump guy; etc.)
I just payed 400 for her service. And I should pay more. If she sucked do I pay less?
Lawyer - when there no money no but a lawyer that win million suit you give him every hour undisputed and his top rate.
Docker - should maybe there won't kill me very slowly and real make it better, biggest rip off there is if there don't fix problem I have to go back.
Waiter tip more part of bill, it like this her boss just don't pay her so she don't get paid if don't tip but as long as boss paid you not going to slammer.
Where I work it seem some cleanest best smell guys like leave a $1 to $5 tip in shower where I have this guy comes in there with his mother with no legs, then his 30 years big boobs daughter seeks in there all take shower leave tread everywhere marks steal a towel there never tip it the difference from feeling entitled and generous.
In hobby I don't tip because Carrie exter anything on me and part of allies glad when I driving home.
my regular meeting is 400 to 600 mostly 600 especially in vegas .. the only time i give any extra is to cover her valet parking or uber costs and we are only talking like $20 to $40
and very rare any girl i have met that asks for a tip. i guess if a girl's rate was under $200 maybe those girls ask more often.
my rates are pretty much the same, except for the hour rate. I did an increased for one hr meetings for in calls. (outcalls is my "old rate" since I dont have to get the hotel. Just tolls & parking in some cases.
Tips is a personal decision, it is appreciated but not obligatory. Repeat visits are always ++++++
Veronica
Tipping is a judgement call. Sometimes, if my socks are knocked off or I am seeing a favorite, I will tip for an hour session.
One lady, and you know who you are, I give Starbucks gift cards cause she loves Starbucks.
Once the donation is up to the $550-$700 mark I do not. As rule of thumb I never go that high unless it is a two hour session or a threesum.
It really is an individual choice.
I cash tipped an agency girl. Since I knew she'd have to split her earnings. I haven't tipped independents. In civie life I tip minimum wage workers (servers.) But not professionals.
I do pretty much the same. Agency gal -- yes. Independent - no. However I do often bring small gifts or give a smallish gift card to some.
a PERSONAL service. That includes a Vegas Maitre d' making $250,000 a year, as well as a bootblack, barber, manicurist, masseuse, porter, driver, maintenance people (plumber, electrician, HVAC repair, gardener, painters, etc.) making a lot less, and . . . . . . . providers. What could be more of a personal service than putting your dick into a woman?
Come on Mr. Big Spender its time for the BIG reveal.
Is it true that for your typical bargain basement entry level ($250/hr.) K-Girl provider, you THROW another BIG $25 in as a tip?
Only people of incredible wealth like you CDL that can throw money around like that.
I have not noticed a change in tipping. I did have a gent recently leave a tip that was double his envelope that was unexpected and very well appreciated. And he will be very well-rewarded for every visit in the future.
There are other cities I travel to that gents never tip and there are cities where I always get tips.
For me it depends on what city/state I am working in.
I have many clients who may not always tip during a session but later one will send a giftcard for bday or as a thank you.
I do appreciate the gents who do but it is never expected.
As far as I am concerned........Tipping should not be an obligation (Just like anywhere else that a person may work at.
I really like ACSs, for whatever reason. I think it's because I like to pay a girl what the over 300/hr girls are charging, but have a large chunk of that be the tip. I object to the idea of somebody charging me a flat price of over 300, only to leave feeling I've gotten better service for half the asking rate. It only happened once, it irked me, and that's that.
On one visit, the girl finished me off on top, ruined my O, and I still tipped her (I hadn't warned her I have long Os). I saw her again by mistake a few months later. Once I realized who she was, I reminded her of my previous visit and that I had tipped her anyway, and what she did for me, and let me do, to make up for it made it all worth it. I get a hardon thinking about it. I wish she hadn't left the area.
I never tip, I GO BALLS DEEP!!!!!
For a while, for new gals, I'd bring something simple like a Starbucks card. (~$25)
For someone who I feel a chemistry with? I've bought heels or even flats. Nothing overtly sexy, rather I choose classy.
One of my old ATF's loved that I brought her simple black flats one time as she said that she really needed them. What gal doesn't need everyday flats? or classy simple heels that she can wear outside the "dates".
We're not talking Louboutins or anything...
I send my clients a simple $5 Starbucks card on their birthdays. It has always gone over well, as they all say that no one (outside of their families) ever gets them anything, but an occasional mailed birthday card. Nowadays, most only get a mundane Facebook, HBD!
It doesn't hurt to distinguish yourself from the pack.
I have never asked client to tip me. But if they offered me extra cash as a tip then I'd accept.
Because I have tipped. Of course, it depends in a lot of factors... if the rate was on the higher end, I might not be able to... or if payment has to be on cash... but I tend to repeat, and once I'm comfortable with a provider, I tend to round up, specially if I'm allowed to pay with an app.