Guys- What are the top 1 or 2 things you look for in a provider?  

If I'm not attracted to her, there is no point in wasting her time.  My 2 deal-breakers are no DFK or BBBJ.  If those things are not available, I move on.

Are among the things that make a perfect date.. Perhaps physical qualities may be important too but there is nothing more attractive that a man that can carry an intellectual conversation and seduce you with his mind...

It's the uncomplicated joy of just being myself and having a man who let's me know how much my company is enjoyed. Affection would be top on my list of must have's .....  

can't get excited then there is no need to schedule a date. Second has to be the connection or chemistry factor. There needs to be a mental click as well as a physical click in order to totally enjoy my time with the provider I have chosen to spend time with.

great breathe! and good hygiene showers are always available tho when you visit me.

Chivalry can go a long way

I enjoy the company of a gentleman who likes to have a stimulating conversation. Let me know your likes, dislikes and fantasies  

Cleanliness.

Cleanliness is important, as is stimulating conversation, but I find that the chemistry is either there or it isn't.  I have met a wide variety of gentlemen of many ages, types, backgrounds, etc.  I usually know within 5 minutes if the chemistry is there or things feel awkward. I can't explain it exactly, but 90% of the time things go great and I am left with a smile on my face.  The other 10% of the time, I am left wondering if he liked me...did I say or do something wrong?  Was I chattering too much or did I not talk enough?  Just a feeling like something just didn't click.

Physical appeal
Compatability