I recently set something up with a fine young lady via email... We texted a ton before the date was set and time was confirmed.   Since everything has been confirmed, I've tried calling her and I've text her asking her to call me and I have not heard from except ONCE saying that she's been real busy and she'd call me later.  She never called and that was two days ago.  OK, I understand and I get it... Kinda... Your SOOOO busy you can't find 10 mins of your life to call a client back (and let me remind you that we have time booked)?  I know if I didn't cater to my clients I'd have no clients. That's why I'm asking if I'm the only one...

Personally, I hate setting up appointments only via email with no phone conversation. I've had clients with whom I conversed for over an hour more than once before meeting. I'm a talky person, and having that kind of chemistry before even meeting ensures an amazing appointment.  

I have found that many providers require a telephone conversation.  Typically, it seems that they are trying to assess if you are an oddball or worse.  I prefer a conversation myself and if I hear the ever popular "Huh" or classic "Fuck" I can make my own assesment.  On the other hand, providers may want to limit their time on the phone since that's not a profit center.   I imagine some guys get clingy.   Consider, if her rating is an average 8.5, do you really care she is not a conversationalist?  Good Luck.

No offense Snake but you come off as a needy client in your post.  I totally understand requesting a quick phone call just to re-confirm everything.  But, based on your post, you are asking a lot for someone you have never met.  These ladies have lives outside of the hobby.  You don't know her situation.  

IMHO here you should have specified that you would like to talk for a few minutes before you set up a time with her just to make sure you mesh.  I require this as part of my personal screening just because some are not a good fit personality wise for me or vice versa but not all do.  Many prefer NOT to talk to you.  Like Bebe for example, she likes stranger c*ck so she doesn't really want to talk till she is done the the 1st round.  For her that is extra hot, and for many men it is as well.  You just have to put it out there before setting your time, if you have already set it there might not be modivation to do as you ask because your time is already reserved.  If you cancel she may consider you a time waster and not wish to visit with you in the future.  So take that for what it is....  A grain of sand, in a huge beach

I absolutely hate talking on the phone. I see where you're coming from, but personally, I love doing everything with e-mail and/or text. Part of the problem is my auditory memory isn't great, so if someone is trying to give me directions over the phone to their place I typically forget half and have to call again which tends to annoy people. If I have email or text, I can read it and it just sinks in better for some reason. I think I've developed a phobia about the phone because of this. I'm friendly and outgoing in person but I'm a stammering idiot on the phone.

You mention you texted a ton prior to detailing your plans.  Sounds like enough to me?  I would just wait for the magic to happen, or not.  I play this game so I don't have to partake in trivial pageantry like an uncomfortable call.  

Wow. What are my thoughts? I think it was rude. Well, first let me preface my statement with, I have only read the first post.  

Don't u want to know whom you're inviting into your private area?  I never would take an appointment if the hobbyist refuses to call to talk via phone.....  But if she's telling you she's Pre-Occupied, give her time to get back to u...  It's really annoying when the phone goes off when I'm entertaining a client.... Also it's annoying for the client cuz he's paid for that hour/hours for that gals attention.....  

can be confusing. Seasoned hobbyists like CTP, however, appear to have a firm grasp of the differences and seem to temper their conduct and expectations accordingly. I can't speak for one, let alone a whole industry of providers. Yet, I can't help but believe that they are continuously faced with a delicate balance between creating a positive, enticing, and erotic experience for a client, while at the same time maintaining an appropriate emotional and personal distance so they can function in their private lives. You can't escape personal communication during the actual session, but I would guess that communicating via emails and text messaging outside of the actual physical encounter is simply a mechanism to ensure that they keep that requisite distance. Just my 2 cents.

No where in his post does he say that the provider NCNS or cancelled the appointment.

99.9% of the time when a guy expects a bunch of pre-meeting chit chat (especially those who expect a "tease" of sorts), they're going to flake. They tend to be in the same vein as the guys who want extra photos and what not. Furthermore, we are compensated for our time, so to demand that we spend time "teasing," flirting, etc. for free is just unreasonable and, quite frankly, might make me change my mind about seeing someone. Nothing is more off-putting than neediness (and I think I speak for both sides of the transaction on that one).  

I would prefer all text after a "set the date" email. I like the mystery. Also easier for me to text when I have time other than be on a phone.

Snake, here's my feeling on what you've described. Do you go through all this the first time you see every lady? So you texted a ton before you booked the session. And before doing that you probably did your due diligence to make sure this is someone that you wanted to see. So is it really necessary to need to continue to talk with her if you've already decided to see her? And if she does call you and you don't like the sound of her voice, are you then going to cancel the appointment? If I was her I would be wondering ' what the fuck is up with this guy? He's bugging the shit outta me.' This is the type of stuff you hear from guys when their girlfriend won't call them back, not a provider. You're sounding like a controlling boyfriend, not a hobbyist. Just chill out and look forward to the upcoming appointment.

To be honest, I really despise the phone and much prefer to book sessions via email or text.  I'm often times not in a situation where I can talk on the phone; for me personally, text or email always works best, and I'm always prompt in responding to emails.

I have no problem after he is verified and good to go . . I always respond in a timely manner and ask what day and time and then we set it up . . that's the professional thing to do in my opinion

Most providers prefer low maintenance clients

I woke up to a bunch of explicit messages this morning from a client I was  supposed to meet later on today. It def made me uneasy , although I do fully understand and appreciate an eager client, its sometimes enough to make a provider pass.

I get calls from  many guys that want to talk to the provider, when that is the point of the GFE session.  Making the connection during the session.  Sure some guys get clingy (some providers too), but that is the point of a good session and having a good service to act as a buffer.  Make your provider your fantasy that you partake in during your session.  That is what it is for. The phone is just to schedule the session.  If you really must connect prior, perhaps scheduling a paid video conference would help.  Remember, their time is their business and must be compensated for.