Personally, I hate setting up appointments only via email with no phone conversation. I've had clients with whom I conversed for over an hour more than once before meeting. I'm a talky person, and having that kind of chemistry before even meeting ensures an amazing appointment.  

That said, some women literally are too busy. Maybe they have roommates that don't know what they do and would question them having long conversations with strange men. At one point, I did. Maybe they're very high volume and always on their way to or from an appointment, or their civillian job is demanding or they just don't like talking on the phone. I wouldn't say you're incompatible with these women, but, if they're unapologetic about not being able to provide what you prefer, it may be best to move on.  

You're definitely not the only one, though. I love clients who call to shoot the shit when we have time booked, especially before a first time meeting. I'm not always available but I am more flexible than most.

I have found that many providers require a telephone conversation.  Typically, it seems that they are trying to assess if you are an oddball or worse.  I prefer a conversation myself and if I hear the ever popular "Huh" or classic "Fuck" I can make my own assesment.  On the other hand, providers may want to limit their time on the phone since that's not a profit center.   I imagine some guys get clingy.   Consider, if her rating is an average 8.5, do you really care she is not a conversationalist?  Good Luck.

IMHO here you should have specified that you would like to talk for a few minutes before you set up a time with her just to make sure you mesh.  I require this as part of my personal screening just because some are not a good fit personality wise for me or vice versa but not all do.  Many prefer NOT to talk to you.  Like Bebe for example, she likes stranger c*ck so she doesn't really want to talk till she is done the the 1st round.  For her that is extra hot, and for many men it is as well.  You just have to put it out there before setting your time, if you have already set it there might not be modivation to do as you ask because your time is already reserved.  If you cancel she may consider you a time waster and not wish to visit with you in the future.  So take that for what it is....  A grain of sand, in a huge beach

I absolutely hate talking on the phone. I see where you're coming from, but personally, I love doing everything with e-mail and/or text. Part of the problem is my auditory memory isn't great, so if someone is trying to give me directions over the phone to their place I typically forget half and have to call again which tends to annoy people. If I have email or text, I can read it and it just sinks in better for some reason. I think I've developed a phobia about the phone because of this. I'm friendly and outgoing in person but I'm a stammering idiot on the phone.

So yeah, the phone sucks. : ) I tend to see providers who either share my dislike of the phone or are comfortable sticking to e-mail and/or text.

You mention you texted a ton prior to detailing your plans.  Sounds like enough to me?  I would just wait for the magic to happen, or not.  I play this game so I don't have to partake in trivial pageantry like an uncomfortable call.  

Wow. What are my thoughts? I think it was rude. Well, first let me preface my statement with, I have only read the first post.  

But- if you make a date with someone and it is set up and confirmed, and for WHATEVER reason the provider has to cancel if she doesn't call and inform you, it is down right rude. All the time, ladies talk about how irritating it is when a guest no call no shows, and it is just as bad for a provider to do that to a fella. Either way- it is common courtesy to let someone know when you are going to cancel an appointment.  

Really, I don't know how ladies who practice that kind of business stay in business. I mean I guess the lady may be in high demand, but after she does it to enough people, it will get around. I always give the exact same courtesy that I expect to be given, so if for some reason I'm unable to make an engagement, I MAKE SURE to let the other person know. But- I have noticed this isn't everyone practice. Just from doing doubles, I often witness how little some care about being punctual. And no matter how many times I see it happen, I am still shocked every time.

Vocal communication is important.....

Don't u want to know whom you're inviting into your private area?  I never would take an appointment if the hobbyist refuses to call to talk via phone.....  But if she's telling you she's Pre-Occupied, give her time to get back to u...  It's really annoying when the phone goes off when I'm entertaining a client.... Also it's annoying for the client cuz he's paid for that hour/hours for that gals attention.....  

Happy weekend everyone!!! I'm off to Confess on the DANCEFLOOR!!!! Woo whoo!!!

can be confusing. Seasoned hobbyists like CTP, however, appear to have a firm grasp of the differences and seem to temper their conduct and expectations accordingly. I can't speak for one, let alone a whole industry of providers. Yet, I can't help but believe that they are continuously faced with a delicate balance between creating a positive, enticing, and erotic experience for a client, while at the same time maintaining an appropriate emotional and personal distance so they can function in their private lives. You can't escape personal communication during the actual session, but I would guess that communicating via emails and text messaging outside of the actual physical encounter is simply a mechanism to ensure that they keep that requisite distance. Just my 2 cents.

Snake, here's my feeling on what you've described. Do you go through all this the first time you see every lady? So you texted a ton before you booked the session. And before doing that you probably did your due diligence to make sure this is someone that you wanted to see. So is it really necessary to need to continue to talk with her if you've already decided to see her? And if she does call you and you don't like the sound of her voice, are you then going to cancel the appointment? If I was her I would be wondering ' what the fuck is up with this guy? He's bugging the shit outta me.' This is the type of stuff you hear from guys when their girlfriend won't call them back, not a provider. You're sounding like a controlling boyfriend, not a hobbyist. Just chill out and look forward to the upcoming appointment.

To be honest, I really despise the phone and much prefer to book sessions via email or text.  I'm often times not in a situation where I can talk on the phone; for me personally, text or email always works best, and I'm always prompt in responding to emails.

Now, with the phone, I don't mind having a small 5-10 minute conversation before a booking to chat/build rapport/etc.  I don't discuss the content of sessions on the phone except very, very briefly; I have a history of callers that like to get too explicit on the phone and simply looking for wank bank material.  Most questions you'd have about session content and questions like attire requests are very accessible and easy to find on my website.  I always take time before the session begins to discuss wants and needs with my client; I want to make sure we're on the same page so that everyone has a great time.  

Also, sometimes I'm not so good at the phone.  I'm very expressive and non-verbal cues are my weapon of choice.  This doesn't translate over the phone for me, and perhaps she's got the same issues.  

I doubt that she's hiding anything. She probably IS really that busy.  She may have things going on in her life like school/family/etc that takes priority over your conversation.  I don't blame you for wanting to talk to her briefly before a session, but realize that the phone just might not work for her

If a client specifically says he wants to do a call . .

I have no problem after he is verified and good to go . . I always respond in a timely manner and ask what day and time and then we set it up . . that's the professional thing to do in my opinion

Most providers prefer low maintenance clients

I woke up to a bunch of explicit messages this morning from a client I was  supposed to meet later on today. It def made me uneasy , although I do fully understand and appreciate an eager client, its sometimes enough to make a provider pass.