With the massive work overload I’m past overdue taking the wife out on the town. We are thinking of getting a hotel room downtown for the weekend and visit some bars and night clubs.

Anyone can recommend any good bars / night clubs  frequented by swinger couples in the downtown area or close to? We might want to extend the fun to the hotel room if we meet the right couple. Preferably upscale place with nice modern décor, some good dance music for the wife and frequented by under 40 crowd.  

Thanks for idea

You have a hot wife under 40 who likes to swing and you're asking US for help??  Sorry, dude.  Just the jealousy talking. I'd wish you good luck but you already got it.

I figured the members might be active in that scene as we are new to it.

I have to say she is a good looking girl with a tight swinger body but no she is not in to swinging, at least no yet. We are working on that part The farthest we got was same room. She expressed interest in the possibility so figured it is as good time as ever.  

I have no idea how big the scene is in Chicago and we are for sure not going to go to some private clubs. I guess we will try a few night clubs in the area and maybe let the wife flirt in the hotel bar.

Still any ideas for good spots are appreciated!

Well, now I can offer helpful advice. There are any number of lovely ladies who could "happen" to meet you at a bar and join you and your wife for some fun.  You just need to find out her type. If she fancies a young coed give Jamie Solo or Brooke Logan a call. Slim and sweet - Victoria Solena.   If she wants MILF compatibility try Courtney Ova. Likes smart edgy girls? Tobi Telford or Savannah Rain. Want to play rough and dirty - Holly Berry or Bebedoll. So many flavors just waiting to be sandwiched together the list is truly endless. One night with any of these ladies and she will be hooked for life.  And now I'm jealous again.

+1..

Yes thats good advice. I was actually thinking about a setup like this and would love to watch the action and maybe join in if wife was ok with that. She does get approached by females all the time and gets complements on one thing or another so it would not be unusual for her. Although she might prefer it was a male as she is not Bi officially although did express some interest in the past and I think given the right circumstance might go along. As to what type should wold prefer its anyones guess

IF your woman is NOT really into the swinging scene...then perhaps you two should join a swingers site online...and browse the sites and pick a couple to meet for drinks and dancing.

Your woman IS BI, correct?  She does want to enjoy being with another woman & guy, correct?

Swingers clubs are erotic.....yes, you have to start out slow.....be a voyeur, then slowly partake by NOT being shy...talk to those your attracted to.....go watch them/or have them watch you...having sex......
then slowly join in with the other couple/s.....

There will always be the *clicks* of swinger friends at every venue.....it's about not joining them..but making intimate friends of your own and enjoying some of the sweetest unadulterated pleasures.

So find out what your woman truly wants.......A happy wife...is as they say..a happy life!