I always get a contact # and call them the day before to confirm or uncomfirm any possible appointments and  book the sure thing  over a might be.....I have learned you can only count on yourself so I live my life  and if they finally do call and I am busy their loss

oh yuck that really sucks!

You don't deserve that kind of tight squeeze, unless, of course the dude were to have shown up.  

Bottom line - major lack of sensitivity about your time constraints, or lack thereof.  Hey, you missed out on other clients and friendship time.  He should pony up for your wasted time, energy, and disappointment.

Just my .02

XXX-Giselle

Its because he gets off on the communication itself, and it costs him nothing. When it comes to plunking down the 300-500/hr, he just doesn't want to do it.

Something very serious may have happened to the guy.  The list of what could have happened is long.  Maybe not serious at all....maybe his computer crashed and still has no way to email you back.  I know, it's a stretch, but possible.  He could be laid up in a hospital bead.  Until you really know the reason, we can all only guess.  Worst case; he could be living in his car because his wife found out and access to a computer may be the last thing on his mind.

Serious issue or not, one day he at least owes you an explanation based on the emails and planning that was set up.  

Unfortunately, if he was kicking tires, you'll most likely will never hear from him again.  

What I don't get, you can kick allot of tires in this sport, you can talk to a girl, email a girl, but no reason to inconvenience or deceive a girl.  

If you NEVER hear from him again, he's dead or a tire-kicker.

Just my 2 cents.

this happens quite often.  Last week I was waiting for someone to respond and I wasn't at my incall (was an hour away).  Was getting closer and closer to the time we were supppose to get together and I still hadn't heard from.  Decided to start heading to my incall.  'After' our scheduled time he called me and apologized.  Fortunately he said he would reschedule and reimburse me for some of my drive time (two hoursound trip).  This is actually unusual this happened this way, usually I never hear back from the person.  At least this getnleman was kind enough to get back to me and offer to reimburse me a bit for my drive time.

I usually don't head to my incall but thought I'd take a chance, will never do that again.  Keep in mind, this guy did not say he might be able to get together...he said he could and gave and exact time as to when he could get together.

The unneeded stress and worry, the disappointment at having to tell other gentlemen "no," the feelings of resentment that can damage an otherwise lovely friendship when your unconfirmed friend finally says he isn't going to be able to make it (assuming you know him and he actually follows up eventually at some point). These feelings were dragging me down, sucking away at my energy and thus affecting my ability to excel both as a companion and at my personal life. Sometime in the early part of this year, I finally said "to hell with it" and stopped chasing my tail.

There will of course be a handful of gentlemen out there who due to their hectic schedules simply cannot commit until last minute. And, that being the case, if a day they requested some days or weeks ago is still available, then I am more than happy to connect with them. However, I have ceased placing myself in the position of stressing over "will he or won't he" by choosing his maybe over another man's confirmation, should a confirmed request for the same day come up. This way the "maybe" folks are free to operate in teh way that works for them, and it does not impede upon my time or emotional well being.

We cannot change others, but we can change our own behaviors to solve just about any issue!