What are your thoughts about using during a session?  Do you feel they add ambiance? Tea candles or regular?  Scented? None at all, you just wanna get on wit it?

...scents should not be too overwhelming...and those that get caught in the flickering flame...be careful...

i have had only two providers who loved candles..regular and non-scented..that is what they feel comfortable with..i think it sets the mood for them in their own particular way..as far as i am concerned..once we are into the session it really doesnt matter..she could have tiki torches lit and i wouldnt notice..

Problem is in the throes of passion stuff gets tossed around and OFTEN results in a fire.  Had to replace the sink in my bathroom at the incall cause of that.

okay I am lovin THAT idea! drums too! I WANNNNA!  I WISHHH I could have fucked in Haiti.. that would have been SO prefect there!

everyone pretty much agreed they can be dangerous sometimes, especially when right next to the action.  I even had a client set the donation right next to a tealight and it burned my gift and I was left with nothing  I had another client bump into a tealight and burn his ass and we spent a lot of time picking candle wax out of his butt hair!

I stick with only the large glass encased candles now - much safer.  But all in all candles are nice to have.  It sets the mood I think.

XXX-Giselle

The safer answer

I enjoy candles.candles create a delightful ambiance for the session,for those that are more into the sensual feeling.on the other hand they can add adventure towards a session,as candle wax play is a fetish.i agree medium-big candles are alot better than tealights.xoxo

Admitting it was almost as painful.

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BEEB...LMAO

it is dripped on those very sensitive parts.....

And I think YOU know just where I would probably be dripping it on YOU

And sure...they're also nice to have on in the darkened room!

I like the red scented ones

OMFG, I'd have died from a heart attack. How did you explain the new threads when you got home?

Not about the lost donation but the guy who got his ass burned. LOLOL... So what does burning ass hair smell like anyway? On second thought, maybe we shouldn't know. LOLOLOL.

Your rear end burned out?
I can't lie that is a classic !
Still laughing!

At the time I wore a lot of kaki pants, one brand particularly and pinpoint Oxford shirts with button down collars. So We were close to the mall and I knew the right store to send her to. Since I get up early and leave home before my house gets started no one knew what I was wearing except my office. I explained  at the office that an ink pen burst in my shirt pocket hense the different shirt. I never said anything at home but my wife quit usung the cleaners accusing them of losing my silk shirt.

It really does help to set the mood along with some soft sensual music. Of course, I keep them away from the action so we don't have any accidents! I almost learned the hard way when I was doing a double with a now retired provider at a hotel in the burbs and she had tea lights on the night stands. Pillows move, towels get thrown (as do clothes/lingerie!), and land in the worst spots. Almost had a pillow catch fire in the middle of a session thanks to her decision while "tipsy" to put them so close to the bed. Now, candles only go on a dresser across the room or some other out of the way place.

The only thing that should be on fire during a session is my performance

XOXO
Bella

Yea I was going to mention this!
Soy candles have more smoke too!
I love candles but be careful how and which ones you use!

I have a large  candelabra  and I set it where you wont be walking . Candles are generally in a glass holder so I know they will stay put and are not in my way on the nightstand . I arrange them so that
they are scattered throughout the  path to my room . The best kind are the ones that liquify and
burn themselves out . When I am not at home I look at the furniture in a hotel and put candles
on top of the tall hutches in rooms and bathroom there is always one on the top of the toilet
tank. I figure if someone can't see that first they are blind.Scented is my choice but I have had guys ask
me to not have scented due to allergy or concern of it getting on his clothing . Setting the mood is an
important variation  .

Angela