...scents should not be too overwhelming...and those that get caught in the flickering flame...be careful...

candles

i have had only two providers who loved candles..regular and non-scented..that is what they feel comfortable with..i think it sets the mood for them in their own particular way..as far as i am concerned..once we are into the session it really doesnt matter..she could have tiki torches lit and i wouldnt notice..

Problem is in the throes of passion stuff gets tossed around and OFTEN results in a fire.  Had to replace the sink in my bathroom at the incall cause of that.

everyone pretty much agreed they can be dangerous sometimes, especially when right next to the action.  I even had a client set the donation right next to a tealight and it burned my gift and I was left with nothing  I had another client bump into a tealight and burn his ass and we spent a lot of time picking candle wax out of his butt hair!

I stick with only the large glass encased candles now - much safer.  But all in all candles are nice to have.  It sets the mood I think.

XXX-Giselle

The safer answer

Candles....

I enjoy candles.candles create a delightful ambiance for the session,for those that are more into the sensual feeling.on the other hand they can add adventure towards a session,as candle wax play is a fetish.i agree medium-big candles are alot better than tealights.xoxo

Admitting it was almost as painful.

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I like the red scented ones

It really does help to set the mood along with some soft sensual music. Of course, I keep them away from the action so we don't have any accidents! I almost learned the hard way when I was doing a double with a now retired provider at a hotel in the burbs and she had tea lights on the night stands. Pillows move, towels get thrown (as do clothes/lingerie!), and land in the worst spots. Almost had a pillow catch fire in the middle of a session thanks to her decision while "tipsy" to put them so close to the bed. Now, candles only go on a dresser across the room or some other out of the way place.

The only thing that should be on fire during a session is my performance

XOXO
Bella

I have a large  candelabra  and I set it where you wont be walking . Candles are generally in a glass holder so I know they will stay put and are not in my way on the nightstand . I arrange them so that
they are scattered throughout the  path to my room . The best kind are the ones that liquify and
burn themselves out . When I am not at home I look at the furniture in a hotel and put candles
on top of the tall hutches in rooms and bathroom there is always one on the top of the toilet
tank. I figure if someone can't see that first they are blind.Scented is my choice but I have had guys ask
me to not have scented due to allergy or concern of it getting on his clothing . Setting the mood is an
important variation  .

Angela