Performance 8????????

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But I do believe the score is based on the profile, isn't it?

Checking the rules once in a while does not hurt.

helping those still learning how to count to 10.

So she WAS eligible for the 8 thanks to her profile.
But did the text of the new review read like an 8??

Are you incredulous about the score being too high vs. the juicy details or too low vs. the juicy details?  I couldn't tell from your 8 question marks.

To high. I'm sure most understood me.
I over did the question marks?
I apologise.

who don't put stock in the arbitrary number rating system here. Unfortunately, most providers eat, sleep, and s*** by those scores. And some will do very mean things to get high scores regardless of what the narrative reads. At this point, the scoring system is so skewed to the high end, the numbers mean almost nothing and the only the narrative tells the real story (maybe).

I can't seem to remember it..  

First, you did your best to stay in a lousy situation because you feared the power of his review. Most guys here would agree that while we may look at the outlier review, if it's a one-up and all the other reviews are excellent, it's pretty reasonable to conclude the guy was doing something wrong. Providers like you with good reputations don't screw up appts for no good reason. We can see through this and most of us throw out the highs and lows anyway. Where it becomes difficult is when they're all skewed high. No one can be at the top of their game every day, we all have stuff going on in our lives that affect our ability to do our jobs. Maybe I should make an exception for Eve though, lol.

I think providers care way too much about scores because they think hobbyists select them based on scores alone. While there may be guys who look only at scores, most of us know the scores are skewing higher all the time and we no longer trust them. Those providers who think pages of 10/10 scores make us want to see them are smoking something. Long-term reputation goes along with the scores so someone here with the initials EA might have tons of high scores but she has the reputation to go with them. Then there are the 10/10's that are forced by coercion and threats and we know who those girls are as well. Rest assured those 10/10's are doing them no good.

From most men here?

I can't believe people pay that much to fuck.  Imagine how many starving kids that extra 500 could feed.  I do believe you guys should be compensated properly but ffs 1000 for an hour?  I could have a 6 some for that amount and still have enough left over for takeout to feed all of them.

This is why I don't review.  Never have, never will.  No one is going to have the same experience as me, good, bad, or inbetween.  So it's silly to think I might have the same experience as someone else whose review I'm reading.  All I care about is if the photo's are recent and accurate.  The rest is truly up to me and what I bring to the table.

YMMV--truer words were never spoken. I had at least one truly bad experience with a very highly rated provider and a number of amazing experiences with poorly reviewed inexpensive (actually downright right bottom cheap to be honest) providers. It all depends on your personal chemistry with the providers, as well as what you want and like. Details are important. For me, for instance, a covered BJ is a deal breaker as I simply don't enjoy it. And I generally prefer a bigger woman to a thin one. But different strokes for different folks.

With the $500 per appointment you saved, how many starving children did you feed?

tip her $100!

and if I took you out, with your tastes, it wouldn't last the night..... lmao

I like good company over overpriced food. And I wish I could have charged $1,000/hour... but... maybe in a few years lol.

Years ago, 8's were the norm. Nowadays, giving an 8 is almost considered an insult.

That Irish sausage is the wurst

I agree with Alyson, the numerical rating system is totally subjective. The actual text of the review seems more important in my mind. Sure, while all providers would be flattered to get 10/10 every time, it's no longer so flattering when every provider that gentleman reviews receives a 10/10. I'm more than happy to receive a 9 because technically, per TER's language, a 9 for looks is "model hot". Less than 5% of the population are models, so by that, I would theoretically look more attractive than 95% of the population. The number is only one piece of information.

Chsssssssssssssh!

I have heard this, but since I'm not there, I really can't say anything about it. BUT, the amount I have heard it is ridiculous from all angles, and it's scary.

And I'll probably be attacked for saying this, but BB is more common around here than it used to be. Either that or we're just hearing more about it. But...the fact that known BB providers keep coming back here tells you there are guys in Chicago looking to play dangerous and liking it. NYC is the worst and from what providers tell me, there is no mid-tier there anymore. It's either high-buck BBFS or low-buck BBFS off of BP. The safety girls have all but disappeared in NYC. Is that what's happening here? Probably to some extent and you might be on to something about why it's so slow. Providers also tell me they get a LOT of calls requesting BBFS. It's not hard to figure out why this is happening.

If you get slapped in the face, endure cannings, choking and electrical play... I don't see how 750plus is a problem. The more interests you have the more $ you should receive. It's hard work and sometimes requires lots of props and clean up. There is more to it...I stay at hotels that set me back 350+ a night and have to buy special wardrobe often. I even buy nice wine/champagne and sweets for every playdate.  

That's really presumptuous. I don't offer BB for any hole. I do however take an aggressive choking, nipple torture amongst other things. I think some of us who charge more based on our interests.  

I keep all my sausage wrapped in a bun. I keep the sausage loving the wrapped bun by keep things very interesting....Public play, dungeon visits etc...

...mean you have to give it. Though I guess like appearance performance could be in the mind of the reviewer. As you can see below I don't consider this an 8 performance.

I just enjoy it. You keep it.

Um...  When you say dungeon, what exactly do you mean?  Do you mean like dungeons and dragons we pretend and pull some cards, roll some dice and make shit up or........

NO. Not true! I've been to many BDSM workshops. I've watched demonstrators literally have a intense orgasm from some of the below mentioned. It's not violence if its done right. If you have a high tolerance for pain, which many do like myself you an turn it into pleasure. I'd suggest you research more about it before assuming its domestic violence.  

No, I mean lifestyle dungeons. Not sure what I mean... check out kink(dot)com  

So it's your assertion that when a particular lady is not up to your personal standards of what constitutes a 10/10, yet many others have found her to be just that, that's proof positive that she offers BBFS? I agree with Bree, that's egregiously presumptuous.  

Russian with love!

Definitely NOT my cup of tea and I sure don't want to read about it. No thanks.

It's the reality of what this hobby is turning into. You misread the point of the post and inferred incorrect conclusions as a result. Reread the third paragraph carefully, it states MATURE providers (45+) who are getting many pages of 10/10's and charging exorbitant rates. I was NOT talking about 20's or 30's or even early 40's for that matter but you zeroed in on the 30 age group for some reason. Maybe you missed the part about some older providers falsifying their profile ages by as much as 10-15 years. The ones doing this also happen to be known BBFS providers and have many pages of 10/10 reviews that they don't deserve while charging $700+/hour.

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Variety is great. If you never experienced then you can't hate on it. It's not what you think.  I'm not here to convert you, but no needy to be so  harsh.  

I'm hating on the violence - kicking, hitting, punching. There's nothing sexy about those things, they turn my stomach. I can watch guys get beat up on TV but I can't watch a woman take a beating. That's the way I'm wired, sorry for being plain vanilla. All of us have our limits. I have to wonder about the clients you see who find this stuff a turn-on. My guess is they won't find many providers who allow them to be violent... you may very well be the only one. What you're describing seems to go way beyond BDSM which itself is of no interest to me. Yeah, I'm boring..

You have to realize that there is a difference between what you see in commercial films/tv and BDSM. Think about this way in the art of kung-fu you are taught to channel and center your energy so you can take intense hits. BDSM is sorta like that, but more more sensual. These acts help aid in channelling and centering sexual energy to lead to something out this world. It's hard to explain... this is about the closes comparison.