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JonathanAppleseed 2066 reads
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1 / 73

So I had yet another bad experience with a provider today.  This one's reviews had a bunch of 9s and 10s with nothing lower than a 8.  Walked in and not only was she shorter and fatter than the pics, her face was a 6 at best (drunk).  What is wrong with you guys???  

She was maybe 3 inches or so from being a midget.  And she had that compact, midget-like appendages.  You know what I'm talking about, dense arms and legs.  WTF??  And her rates were ridiculous to boot.  On top of it all her Incall was lacking let's just say.  The only thing that saved the day was that her BBBJ technique was decent.

 Can we get a rating for the face and body as well as personality???  I think some of y'all are factoring personality into it.  This girl had a shit personality to boot, but some of you clowns apparently like that.  I say that, because I can't imagine you are rating on looks.  Maybe a lot of you have poor eye sight.  F*ck it all.

artificial_intelligence 1174 reads
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2 / 73

which is "9" per TER standards would be at least 5'8 ".

Look at top 10/10 providers, who claim they "deserve" their 10/10 are around 5'3"  

Playboy's "Super Models" my ass .  

So over this shit...

But this is  RO board material.

RussianWithLove 709 reads
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3 / 73
ROGM 1027 reads
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4 / 73

If this girl looked so bad then why did you go through with the Session? You should have just walked out.

JonathanAppleseed 822 reads
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7 / 73

Of course I followed through.  I don't want to be a jerk about it, despite the false advertising.

JonathanAppleseed 933 reads
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8 / 73

I don't do walkouts.  A deal is a deal, and I do appreciate what the ladies have to go through.

swedisheyes83 See my TER Reviews 907 reads
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9 / 73

There are plenty of shorter ladies that are "model material" it doesn't necessarily mean they are runway height.  A lot of print models are shorter than the standard 5'7".  It's a guideline and yes I too think it's quite flawed but unfortunately it is what it is.  Always read reviews and do some additional research if you are leery.

Westside5659 684 reads
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10 / 73

I often "follow" reviewers that appear to share my tastes and are dependable.  Some reviewers have a bias toward greater or lesser ratings.  In addition, providers who are pleasant, smile and do not rush will typically get additional points when the reviwer sits down to draft a review.  In contrast, if a provider declares at 61 minutes into a hour appointment "Hey, dickhead its time to leave" her rating will likely suffer a reduction.  Of course, there is a major difference between reviewers who prefer GFE types over what I call "raw" sex providers.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 1078 reads
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11 / 73
Terrapin911 71 Reviews 882 reads
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12 / 73

lol...  luckily some of us really really get off on 2's if we are using the height rating system ;)

TP

JoeAverageHobbyist 771 reads
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13 / 73
RussianWithLove 939 reads
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14 / 73

2?  You're 200 baby.  No scales can stand up to that exuberant personality.  You're a god damn walking sex bomb.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 968 reads
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15 / 73

Posted By: RussianWithLove
2?  You're 200 baby.  No scales can stand up to that exuberant personality.  You're a god damn walking sex bomb.  

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 826 reads
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16 / 73

Posted By: artificial_intelligence
which is "9" per TER standards would be at least 5'8 ".  
   
 Look at top 10/10 providers, who claim they "deserve" their 10/10 are around 5'3"  
   
 Playboy's "Super Models" my ass .  
   
 So over this shit...  
   
 But this is  RO board material.
-- Modified on 6/11/2014 9:17:48 AM

random456 16 Reviews 699 reads
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18 / 73

If height is so important to you, perhaps you should look what the TER profile lists for height. The ratings on looks are a subjective combination of many factors. I find that the anorexic looks of some fashion models are downright unattractive, and I'm not going to pretend that I find a provider attractive just because they look like some skin-and-bones fashion model even if the TER guidelines say that a 9 = model material.

If the TER profile listed her as 5'10" when she is really 4'11", then you've got a real complaint. But, if the TER height is accurate, then you've only got yourself to blame for this.

JoeAverageHobbyist 479 reads
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19 / 73
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 699 reads
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20 / 73

Yep. He must have done his research and stuck with it, then blamed her because she wasn't 'his' model type.

Advertising = attracting guys who thing YOU are model material. I don't advertise to attract guys who want a 5'9" + VS model, and I'm not going to magically turn into one because some dude books me lol. The guys who book me like a little cushion for the pushin and a little ass to pop through the fabric of the form fitting dresses. Not a clothes hanger, (which is very hot, just not me).  

And you, my friend, need to go to lunch with me. Are you going to the party in July?
Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Do ur f***ing research.... Ugh ....

GingerRose See my TER Reviews 707 reads
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21 / 73

Maybe the gentlemen were into that look? Although, I dont understand her sscoring if u claim she looks as she does.  I had a hobbyist text me recently that when they tried to give me high scores. Ter wouldnt let them. Im not claiming to be anywhere near supermodel, but maybe the hobbyist really felt I deserved being rated higher.

Posted By: artificial_intelligence
which is "9" per TER standards would be at least 5'8 ".  
   
 Look at top 10/10 providers, who claim they "deserve" their 10/10 are around 5'3"  
   
 Playboy's "Super Models" my ass .  
   
 So over this shit...  
   
 But this is  RO board material.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 654 reads
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22 / 73

I dated someone who gave off the vibes that I wasn't his "perfect woman". Even in little comments. I picked it up because those things are very hard to hide when you're around the person you despise all the time. He also bitched about his multiple exes, and I wonder what he is saying about me. Their deformed tits, their bad habits, and other useless picky things. I now cringe at the thought of meeting this guy's friends or future girlfriends because of what he might have said about me.  

I was responsible for not leaving the situation. I despise him for staying around when he knew he wasn't into me. (But I think my skills in the sack were what kept him around lolol.) Looking back, I felt like a fool knowing he wasn't into me, but said he was.

No matter who is to blame, some people don't see their side of the coin and blame it solely on the other person and anyone else involved in the situation. Good intentions don't make a person in the right. Sometimes you have to use the brain and the gut.

Let's turn this around to this situation. You followed through on a paid appointment with a girl who was clearly not what you expected (based on your minimal research). Like him, you are bitching about a lady you knowingly had sex with under the circumstances you are talking about. That means you knowingly made a mistake and are blaming her for it, with no name or opportunity for her to tell her side of the story.

When I advertise, post, and put up pictures, (obviously at angles I look best,) I advertise to attract the guy who will think I am an 8-10 in looks. Since I cannot read minds, I have seen some who may not think I'm what they expected. But they also neglected to fully research 1. who was seeing me and giving me the good scores, what those guys felt was attractive, (short, curvy, bubble booty, tits, humor, and oral skills.) and 2. My blogs, posts, rates, pictures, and style. (I had one think I was blonde when my TER profile clearly stated I was a short haired brunette???)  

If they did not think they were going to enjoy their time, they should simply leave.  

I ask, if i'm not your type, but I am a bucket list check-off, which I have been, don't expect me to go out and buy stilts so I'm 5'9", and get lipo right before our appointment.

The internet has so much information, and if it's that important that you have to blast that someone didn't live up to what you think is model material... it's YOUR fault. Especially if you put your money down and followed through, knowing you would be upset about it later.

This may not sound respectful, but disagreements don't mean disrespect. I'm mostly respecting the lady in this situation.

The only information we have to go by is your OP, no pictures, reviews, or research to do ourselves to properly answer. So I'll go by the OP.

You have your pointer finger pointing at a woman and everybody else, but forget that there are three pointing right back at you.

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 11:27:11 AM

Arovet 62 Reviews 775 reads
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24 / 73

So your rant is under an alias but you'll PM me to call my judgment of a provider's looks into question?  And you were this pissed off but you did the appointment anyway?  I won't out you but you also didn't walk away from a B&S with a provider 20 years older than advertised, so I think your biggest problem is a lack of testicular fortitude.  "A deal is a deal" my ass and not when the service is not as advertised.  I'll be looking forward to seeing if you grow at least half a pair and post a review of this young lady with a 5 appearance score.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 841 reads
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25 / 73

But I can judge that 1. because I've met you, and 2. I like girls lol

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 11:15:56 AM

RussianWithLove 711 reads
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26 / 73

I'm dying to know what 3. is.....

JoeAverageHobbyist 681 reads
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27 / 73
ziggy440 84 Reviews 519 reads
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28 / 73

Not any reviewers.

First off, the numerical ratings are meaningless. There is no reason at all to think that your definition of a 9 for looks or performance is what anyone else will be using. Each of us have our own scales, and for most those are more than a little situational. A lady who treats me like a king and has wonderful skills in bed is going to end up looking a lot more pretty to me than one who treats me like crap, even if she is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. It is human nature.

Second, to use any reviews you have to do a little homework on the reviewer in order to understand his reviews and the scores he gives. A 9/9 from a guy who has done 50 reviews with scores ranging from 6 to 10 means a lot more than one from a guy who has only done that one review, or someone else with 20 reviews, all of which are 9/9.

Lastly, what is written in the review, you know those word things, is the most important part. That is where you can get clues as to what the guy liked and did not like, what was important to him, and whether there is something special in that meeting that may have colored the review. Not that anyone would give a lady a crappy review because he got stuck in traffic and she was not able to let him stay a full hour when he got there 45 minutes late, or maybe he wanted some greek which she does not do, or perhaps he wanted a tall woman, and made a date with someone who is very short.

We all have bad dates, but most of us try to learn from them and screen better next time.

Or we can bitch about the review process and reviewers and keep doing what we want to do despite the crappy results.

You choose. Maybe if you do something different, own your decisions, you will not have to write this again so soon  "So I had yet another bad experience with a provider today"

Or maybe it is all someone else's fault.

zig

1718324 46 Reviews 801 reads
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29 / 73

I am 6'4 and I have always dreamed about women under 5 feet. And, it is very hard to find a provider under 5 feet.   Life goes on...

600153 2 Reviews 947 reads
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30 / 73

BBJCIM? I think that always adds 2 to 4 points to their appearance scores.

Posted By: JonathanAppleseed
So I had yet another bad experience with a provider today.  This one's reviews had a bunch of 9s and 10s with nothing lower than a 8.  Walked in and not only was she shorter and fatter than the pics, her face was a 6 at best (drunk).  What is wrong with you guys???    
   
 She was maybe 3 inches or so from being a midget.  And she had that compact, midget-like appendages.  You know what I'm talking about, dense arms and legs.  WTF??  And her rates were ridiculous to boot.  On top of it all her Incall was lacking let's just say.  The only thing that saved the day was that her BBBJ technique was decent.  
   
  Can we get a rating for the face and body as well as personality???  I think some of y'all are factoring personality into it.  This girl had a shit personality to boot, but some of you clowns apparently like that.  I say that, because I can't imagine you are rating on looks.  Maybe a lot of you have poor eye sight.  F*ck it all.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 723 reads
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32 / 73

Even in the king of provider towns, Las Vegas, this happens. You wonder who these guys are that write reviews. Is it their first sexual experience? And they're just grateful someone let them have sex at all?? Even if they DID pay for it??

I know what you're saying.  

If you want a guarantee, go to Vegas. The women there are predominantly hot and meet the standard of their scores. Especially the younger ones. Omg. Anywhere else and it's a crap shoot...and usually comes up craps if you ask me.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 689 reads
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33 / 73

And by leaving, you mean "after you pay her the agreed upon fee", correct?  

Ok Alyson. Seems like he did the gentlemanly thing, in what can hardly be considered a gentlemanly series of acts overall. Venting on an anonymous message board is hardly degrading to her. I don't recall him naming her.

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 626 reads
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34 / 73

...doesn't mean that SHE doesn't know who she is.  This doesn't have anything to do with public humiliation; it has to do with common decency.  This should have at least been posted on the RO boards, not on a public board.

There are  all sorts of ways to confirm a lady looks like her photos, is the height and body type you want, and offers the services you want.  Ads on various websites, the provider's own website should she have one, and the provider profile that's here.  These are tools.  If you use them correctly, you end up eliminating providers that don't meet your criteria.  

Coming to the boards and complaining about someone being listed as "model material" who isn't over 5'7" is ridiculous.  Number scores are arbitrary. The OP has VIP, so has the ability to read full reviews as well.  

Now, I'm all for being upset about a true bait and switch. A bait and switch this is not. Getting upset about how someone else scored someone on a review is pointless.

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 2:47:46 PM

RussianWithLove 770 reads
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35 / 73

but as a cubs fan, you should be used to disappointment.....

MrTwister 3 Reviews 625 reads
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36 / 73

I think you're missing the point he was trying make. And I know exactly the point he was trying to make because I have been there.

You do all the proper research, website photos, read the reviews, etc....and the chick is NOT a fair representation of what you saw during your research. I know for a FACT that some of the website photos and photos posted on this site are 5 or 6 (or maybe more) years old. The woman doesn't look the same, has gained weight, maybe lost weight, has added tats, wears her hair differently, maybe a different color even. The list is endless. We're visual creatures and we make THESE decisions largely on the visual evidence. And when you walk in the door and the person doens't look like what you expected, based on all of the information you gathered..it's deflating!! Especially since you looked really forward to the experience.  

Is it shallow? Is it unrealistic to expect the fantasay to match the reality when you come face to to face? Sure? But I know the feeling too. You want that person to be a fair and accurate representation of what you signed up for. And even if the difference is not that great in the overall scheme of things...as the person building the expectations, that difference can feel WAY larger than it might actually be. And that's a disappointing feeling. It's the nature of this 'hobby'.  

I can tell you this much. After having a few like this person, then having them actually meet , or exceed, your expectation..wow. That is the complete and opposite feeling..so it goes both ways.  

Clearly by his actions and what he was conveying he isn't intending to hurt her feelings. And if he did, I bet he is regretful of that. That's my impression, right or wrong.

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 607 reads
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37 / 73

You know, I can understand being disappointed after all the research was done; fact of the matter is that the OP clearly complained about height, and the provider obviously has reviews as well as a profile stating her height here.  "Model-material" does not mean "tall".  

As for trying not to hurt the provider's feelings, regardless if she were mentioned by name or not: that's not possible. He's not concerned with the provider's feelings, he's concerned with venting and feels vindicated in his venting.  the language he used to describe the provider was horribly rude and politically incorrect. I get being disappointed, but hiding behind an alias and talking like that about someone who really cant even defend herself? I mean really.

The OP is clearly unhappy with someone else's rating of the provider when the OP should have realized that numbers are arbitrary to begin with. Not to mention, the OP had the nerve to berate another hobbyist for his review of the provider, as if that review was the OPs "make or break".  

But really? Why do this in public? Unless the OP doesn't have access to the private RO board, no need

Foodyguy 29 Reviews 598 reads
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38 / 73

that would be like always coming up short.

His complaint is the opposite.

1192967 45 Reviews 547 reads
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39 / 73

had recent changes to your profiles those gents could have given you 10 in performance because you qualify for a 10 in performance based on TER review guidelines. Your profiles say you do bbbj, kiss with tongue, and really bi. Those 3 qualify you for a 10 in performance. There are no guidelines for appearance rating so TER would not have required the guys to lower the appearance score they wanted to give you. TER would change it if you didn't qualify but you clearly do. They had no reason to change it. (Again I'm basing that on your present profiles and TER review guidelines.)

 You can check the Review FAQ's yourself to find that information.

-- Modified on 6/11/2014 6:38:47 PM

RussianWithLove 867 reads
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40 / 73

Guy does absolutely no research on provider.  Reviews clearly state her body type.  Shows up, pays, and goes through with it anyways.  Mentions nothing to provider.  Comes to a public forum with an alias and shows how classless he is by berating her.  Also, cowardly attacks other reviewers.  Doesn't post actual review. Confirms why no woman will sleep with him unless he pays.

LucasHood 779 reads
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41 / 73

Right. Yet here you are. Trashing her. Shut up and do your homework.  

Posted By: JonathanAppleseed
I don't do walkouts.  A deal is a deal, and I do appreciate what the ladies have to go through.

1718324 46 Reviews 645 reads
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42 / 73
DannyGold See my TER Reviews 792 reads
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43 / 73

I totally appreciate the respect and sentiment here.... However, you are paying for a service! As with anything, you should get what is advertised. I really do honor your sensitivity for what we have to go through.  

There are a couple key points I will make:

- Us ladies who are properly representing have to jump through hoops to let people know we are real.

- Women who misrepresent give a bad reputation to the business as whole, driving hobbyists out, and ultimate hurting business for the rest of us so they can get people in the door.

- I don't GET the strategy in misrepresenting! There are hobbyists looking for all types of women!  Not only are you being dishonest, you are having your visitors not enjoy themselves. that hurts them, your self esteem, and ruins your chance for repeat business.

Say the provider you saw was not completely misrepresenting; you still have a right to leave if you aren't feeling it. As providers, we expect the same courtesy, yes? If we are uncomfortable, we have a choice to call the "deal" off. So do clients.

I would recommend that if you happen to run into this issue again, to tip her for her time, and delicately say you aren't "feeling it." I think that is the most responsible approach for each of you as individuals and the "hobby" as a whole.

DannyGold See my TER Reviews 762 reads
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44 / 73

I think I agree with your point about the common factor here if it is a usual occurrence!

However, I think it's hard to know exactly what happened in one isolated instance or who's "fault" it is.

I stress to both providers and clients that it is really important to ask the necessary questions and provide accurate information ON THE FRONT END.

That way people don't end up running to the intrawebs and whining about an experience that could have been avoided and attacking an individual that may not deserve it.

DannyGold See my TER Reviews 593 reads
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45 / 73

And also seriously distracted from the OP's issue.

Ratings are not a measurement of height, models come in many shapes and sizes, height does not determine the skill or quality of a provider...

Also, stop it.

DannyGold See my TER Reviews 648 reads
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46 / 73

Agreed.... I offered some tips on how to handle it responsibly.

This is the non-confrontational immature way to handle it.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 773 reads
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47 / 73

determine if she was hot enough for you?  Don't go by the ratings--read the reviews and look at the pics to see if jr. gets excited.

FatElvis 23 Reviews 753 reads
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48 / 73
Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 782 reads
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49 / 73

Lmfao...  

Yes we do need to do Lunch soon...  Text or call me I'm here til the 18th then I go on a mini tour...  

No to the July party-I like my discrete life... Lol ..... I have lots of parties already on my schedule for June/July/August in my civie life... Before I go back into academic mode!! 😘😘😘!!!

MrTwister 3 Reviews 695 reads
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50 / 73

Go back and read the start of this thread. The FIRST responder used the model/height terminology. The OP did NOT. All he said was she was shorter than advertised. AND he didn't say he needed someone 5'8", the first responder did.

Again...his research and the fact didn't line up. It happens. Then disappointment ensues. There's plenty of variations of false advertising on here. Plenty of smoke and mirrors in what is basically a marketing game. The ad board is proof of that.

JoeAverageHobbyist 620 reads
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51 / 73

TER does not change appearance scores, so either the reviewer was mistaken about what score he entered or else he made up the story to prevent provider backlash.  I'm thinking its the latter.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 583 reads
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52 / 73

Gyu does no research: You're assuming that. he said he read reviews, that's some research.

Reviews clearly state her body type: uh huh. And those are always accurate? One man's skinny is another man's fat. I have seen provider's whose website pics and reviews don't match their in-person body type. I have seen providers who are shorter, and taller, than stated in their website. There are degrees of lies in the marketing process.

Shows up, pays, goes through it anyways: He clearly stated he wasn't the type to back out of a deal. I agree with him in principle. He seems to have owned that his research didn't work and he still booked a date and he owed her the compensation. He clearly stated that in a later post. How can you argue that? We're not talking about a blind date. Wtf? You made an appointment with a stranger to have sex and pay them for it. It's a black market contract and he honored it.  

by berating her: hard to argue he probably went too far and what he said was likely hurtful. I don't think that makes him a coward, just insensitive.  

Attacks other reviewers: didn't pay attention to that while reading the thread, but if you're attacked for a post, it's human nature to attack back. Not sure if that qualifies as cowardly either, but maybe that's a semantical issue.

Doesn't post actual review: bad reviews rarely, if ever get approved. Unless there are aggregious acts involved, doesn't happen. Why bother?

I don't know, but i totally get where the guy is coming from, while I might not agree with the style he presented the issue with, I don't disagree that false advertising leads to disapointing experiences. The advertisement doesn't always match the reality. I know that for a fact having experienced it first hand. Women in the business who have websites they have used for years and haven't necessarily updated and their appearance has changed by it's not reflected in the site and also not reflected in the reviews because some guys seem to discount the physical qualities during / after their meetings and that doesn't get reflected in their 'rating'.  

I guess I am coward and a jerk and a douche bag for agreeing with his premise. I accept those monikers if that's what my shared opinion with him makes me....because I don't care if my opinions aren't popular, just that they are fair to the situation and the facts. Now how you state your opinion....well that's another topic...

JoeAverageHobbyist 730 reads
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53 / 73

You'd be surprised at the number of providers who would not be happy with an 8/8 review.  I recently got pressured for an 8/9 score because she expected a 10/10.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 652 reads
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54 / 73

"Her face was a 6 (drunk)" but she was good enough for him to allow her the honor of having his uncovered cock (that was somehow hard, despite her apparently hideous looks) in her mouth?  
   
 Maybe I'm in the minority, but I'd much rather someone walk out, fee and all, then let me be that intimate with them while they're quietly hating how I look and then read about it in crass, insulting terms the next day.  
   
 

What an interesting couple of comments from a provider's perspective. Hmm. I wonder how many providers after they accept the cash in the envelope in the bathroom continue with the acts of sex despite their basic disgust or lack of sexual desire for the person that paid them? Are there not TONs of instances where you ladies find yourselves providing services to guys you find unattractive, unappealing, etc...yet you still take their money and perform the services? Why is this different? Might not be what you meant, because that happens....but this seems hypocritical from a general sense of this profession as it relates to taking/giving money and performing the acts without a commesurate level of physical attractiveness included.

Odd response.

RussianWithLove 560 reads
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55 / 73

There's a difference between someone using pics from 8 years ago, like I dealt with once, pretending they are recent, and what the OP is expressing.   He is calling into question the providers integrity but also the reviewers who have posted uninformed or simply wrong opinions on what is attractive and what a good personality is.   First off, he says the pics are not accurate height wise.  I don't know how the hell you fake being tall in a picture.  I'm pretty sure the girl isn't wearing stilts.   Secondly, the provider's profile has a height range of two inches, not created by her, but by OTHER REVIEWERS who have seen her IN PERSON as recently as TWO MONTHS AGO.   The height issue is indeed an issue of ignorance brought on himself by OP.  

The guy then proceeds to reproach both the reviewers and the provider which is classless and cheap.  It's one thing if the reviewers have elevated her ratings maliciously and its another when they are simply expressing their opinions.  Judging by the reaction of one of the reviewers, who mind you was harassed by PM by OP for his review, it's clearly the latter that is the case here.  

Back out of a deal?  A deal, at least to me is, I bring A for your B.  If B is not what you represented it to be, than you don't get A.  I'm pretty sure that's universal in business in any situation.  You mention that its different when it's illicit.  Sorry but I'm not going through with purchasing a gram when somebody represented it as a freaking 8 ball!  I'm pretty sure that's the dumbest reasoning ever.  

The premise you are agreeing with is the premise of disappointment.  Well guess what, life can be disappointing.  Everyone experiences it.  What separates the decent folk from the barbarians is the way in which they handle disappointment.  And the way in which OP handled it was absolutely appalling and created nothing but drama and resentment.

Arovet 62 Reviews 783 reads
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56 / 73

And I'll add that he didn't just PM to ask why I thought so highly of her when he didn't, he was a dick about it...subject line was "Really dude?" followed by a mini version of his board rant.  Yes, "really dude" and I enjoyed myself immensely with the lady...and I don't feel the least bit sorry that he did not.

MrTwister 3 Reviews 683 reads
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57 / 73

The premise you are agreeing with is the premise of disappointment.  Well guess what, life can be disappointing.  Everyone experiences it.  What separates the decent folk from the barbarians is the way in which they handle disappointment.  And the way in which OP handled it was absolutely appalling and created nothing but drama and resentment.  

That's exactly what I said. He expressed disappointment, because he was. How he expressed that was not that great.

I agree with you

MrTwister 3 Reviews 671 reads
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58 / 73

I don't see this exchange, or that subject line ("really dude"). Which post and response are you talking about?

artificial_intelligence 810 reads
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59 / 73

But, without Aldo's photoshopping,  you are 7 in real world. Maybe 8 with good make up, hair done and heals.  

I like your self confidence, btw .

MrTwister 3 Reviews 693 reads
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60 / 73

So you're most upset that he shamed her in a public forum. Ok. I can see that. If she reads these forums and is prone to being more thinned skinned about a bad review, especially based on her appearance, then that shaming must have hurt. I wonder how a person with thin skin makes it in this business. I liken that to an average actor reading their movie/play/tv reviews and feeling hurt when they're bad. Seems like part of the business.

I don't really get , or agree with, who stands on the moral higher ground by accepting, or giving, cash when there is no physical attraction, though. That really doesn't wash for me. His paying her and going through with it despite his lack of physical desire for her, absent the public shaming , is no worse than accepting money under the same condition

artificial_intelligence 672 reads
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61 / 73

Performance -  yes, if menu does not permit.  

Go to "Submit Review" and read the rules.

Arovet 62 Reviews 774 reads
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62 / 73

The PM that he sent me basically blaming me for things not being as he expected

MrTwister 3 Reviews 805 reads
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63 / 73

Got it. There's a layer here I haven't gone to...you must have reviewed her....and then he PM'd you "really dude". Ok. Got it.

Obviously this is more personal to you, so, sure... makes sense.

I have no idea who this provider is, which you guys all seem to...but if she has guys who like her then maybe that's all that matters.

1192967 45 Reviews 673 reads
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64 / 73

...my imagination. But I see it here again. How'd you do it?

-- Modified on 6/12/2014 5:13:15 PM

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 530 reads
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65 / 73

Even if it's not true. The OP sounded, honestly, like a female, and I wonder if it is a female fake reviewer feeling threatened by competition in the area. (or a BP pimp or agency owner who reviews their women, white knight, whatever.)

Here's the deal baby cakes. A person that writes that is not thinking or they are drunk. A person who reads that, if they don't feel anything, thick skin isn't a problem. They're calloused and have no desire to please anyone.

We all want to feel beautiful. Especially women. If I jumped online and started bashing a client for physical flaws, oh my god would that hurt anyone I had ever seen, because all my clients would be emailing me like, "Were you talking about me Courtney?"

You know how I know? I've written things online as a joke, without thought, and had numerous clients email and ask if I was talking about them. (And it wasn't even anything about physical appearance.) Does that mean they have thin skin and shouldn't be in the hobby? Nope. It means that words affect people in specific ways, which is why we have language and communication in the first place, and we aren't grunting at each other with only two noises.

Guys tend to have thicker skin, but we all have egos.  

And regarding thin and/or thick skin being a determining factor as to whether or not we should be doing this. IF you or anyone thinks that we should have to put up with the shit in the OP, especially if properly advertised, that person is not someone I ever want to see. Or talk to. Or even get an email from.  

Complete BS.

I'm going to get off my soap box, but listen to the words above. Think.  


-- Modified on 6/12/2014 5:35:59 PM

RussianWithLove 641 reads
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67 / 73

So you are only allowed the highest points if you perform certain acts?  At least for me, its not the individual acts but the manner in which they are acted.  Are you passionate or are you just doing them to do them.   It's ridiculous that I can't give a 10 based on MY IDEA of what a good performance is.  What's next?  Ala carte pricing?

GingerRose See my TER Reviews 559 reads
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71 / 73

Exactly.  Mine also came to me with the issue. I honestly dont know who reviews me unless they r like 'oh hey my ter handle is so ans so'. And this has happened with 2 seperate hobbyists

Posted By: AlysonParker
No, he came to me with the problem, I didn't bring it up with him (why would there be backlash about an 8/8?).  
   
 

1192967 45 Reviews 572 reads
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72 / 73

...a review with indications the performance score didn't meet review guidelines. I doubt they took issue with the looks score. Though stranger things have happened.

Alyson's situation of TER saying because the reviewer was a newbie they wouldn't allow him to give her a 10 even though she qualifies makes some sense. He hadn't had enough experience to judge. Though they don't have that criteria stated anywhere. It's their site so they make the final decision.  
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bobafouts 10 Reviews 639 reads
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