I didn't want to post this but have decided after three weeks and no resolution or restitution it's time to get the word out.  
Had seen Bella TER #281349 about 5-6 time beginning at end of July. My first impression was she was white trash but after getting to know here a bit she  wasn't fitting the stereotype.  Well, you know what they say about first impressions!  Anyway, on Tuesday Sept 2, 2015 she texted me and asked if I could wire her $150 via Money Gram. My first reaction was SCAM ALERT but then I analyzed situation, and made a judgment call. My rationale was this; she is a relatively new provider, is getting some positive reviews including one by me and she just got her website up so why would she rip off a "regular" for a $150?  Why burn a bridge from someone who is providing you a steady stream of income? Well, I was wrong, BIG TIME!  She received the money about 9:15 pm on Sept 2, 2015 and that was basically the last time I heard from her as she doesn't respond to my texts or vm.   See her to your hearts content but beware if she asks you to wire her money because if you do, that's the last time you will ever see her or your money!

Maybe she did really need the money... I'm sorry to hear about it, but that is pretty strange and one can only assume...

Hooktards... I swear lol.

Lia.  Keep trying her, since you've seen her many times.  She may just be embarrassed.  I've seen her and she has never scammed me.  Great shaped buns on her too.

With an appointment gone wrong...  Or you being ripped off at an appointment ...  

Have to agree... this is NOT a TER problem, nor is it a ripoff. All he had to say was NO.

Excuse me, but I don't appreciate you b.s  comments.  She said she needed  $150 and I not only sent it to her but went out of my way to get it to her. I originally sent it by Money Gram on the internet but because I found out after the fact that it doesn't take 10 minutes as advertised but it was going to take 5 hours  I cancelled that wire and went to a local CVS pharmacy  and wired the money from there.  I didn't have to do this but I did it because  I wanted to help her out.  So I do a good deed, go out of my way to get  the person money when they are in a pinch and you have the audacity to give me sh**?  Call me an idiot for sending her the money but attacking me as the bad guy in this?? Screw You!

Next time play the lottery.

No ones saying you're a bad guy that's your assumption ....  But to say she ripped you off when it was your choice to send her the money isn't right... Yes she's a classless Hooker whore for not responding to you but you blasting her saying she scammed& ripped  you off .... isn't right, you scammed YOURESELF... In your ORigibal post you said she white trashy... Did you ever think something bad might of happened to her?   Likely she's a fucking CRACKWHORE...... But It's BS to whine about something when you had total control in the beginning!!!

sorry this happened to you

Serena x

As the old saying goes, no good deed goes unpunished.

Re: sorry this happened to you

Serena, thank you for understanding. It appears other posters like this Gemma person and someone named Rayne or Rain or whatever seem to think I am the one who caused this issue.

So if a bank lends you money and you don't pay them back it's their fault for lending you the money? Nice logic.

This is just an unfortunate situation all around. From what you've said, it doesn't really sound like a loan, so I'm not sure what you were expecting or how she ripped you off... With that said, I wonder what has to be going on with her for her to feel compelled to ask a client for money?  

Maybe she took the money with every intention of making it right and then she just never had the money to pay you back.  Who knows.  

Very true words Freya, without a hidden agenda.  Refreshing on these boards!  

What you did was a very nice gesture & for most hookers you would be an ATF STAT but to blast her saying she scam you isn't right, this situation has nothing to do with being a Hooker, it's between you & her on a personal level...  And comparing it to loans in "real world scenario" is irrelevant....  This had nothing to do with an appointments or her performance as hooker but everything to do with her as a just a bad human being..... When someone is blasting SCAM OR RIP OFF, it reflects on this business...  Most of us hookers are pretty fucking fabulous humans... Who are selling our pussies to better our lives financially with goals to achieve.  Not CRACKWHORE, thieves, ripper offers, scammers!!!

If a bank were to lend money with no recourse, and no collateral to someone they already knew was a bit "white trashy" and they didn't get their money back, yes it would be their own fault for being dumb.

Well now you can see why nice guys finish last. Just by the 2 ladies and their comments, they don't care about you just getting the money. How do you stick up for someone who purposely deceived someone? That just tells me how they run their business. Remember not all women in this business are like these 3. Good luck and lesson learned.

There are a couple of women who come right onto TER regional boards begging for handouts.  

I was thinking the same thing, but I'm not clever enough to come up with a snappy two-word phrase.

You are taking this situation and attaching my comments to every escort including yourself! THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU OR ESCORTS IN GENERAL!  I am referring to her and only her. And by the way I didn't attack her as being a hooker.  
So, what do you call a person who takes money from you and disappears?  
What I find truly interesting about yours and other comments is that you cover BOTH sides of the fence. Let's say she reached out to me and I turned my back on her an told her to go fu**  herself, I'm not giving her a dime, I could just read the words "How could you turn your back you cold, heartless SOB!!!! WHAT TYPE OF HUMAN BEING ARE YOU???  
Instead, I did give her the money and you've got the other side of the fence covered; "What were you thinking?" "You should have just said no, it was under your control and you decided to send the money so it's no ones fault but your own"  Either scenario I'm to blame and it's my fault  
 I was trying to warns other about what happened to me and that she had ripped me off.  I wasn't "whining" as you put it. Man, that pisses me off! What happened is coming from MY PERSPECTIVE. Pardon me for not taking her perspective a perspective you readily took on because after all your both "escorts" and on the same team, and I'm just some client who should be understanding and caring because who know what her problem is. I was UNDERSTANDING AND CARING! Please just let it go. I realized what a huge mistake it was to even to have posted this.
All I can say is I am glad I never called you to set an appointment as I had considered many of times. I have learned all I need to know about you from these posts. Look at it from my perspective.

Thanks for enlightening me, and I'll make sure to remember your words of wisdom, Yakamoto! Hope you get ripped off real soon, now.

You lent it to some girl you met in a PAID ILLEGAL context. Let me put it this way... the rules and boundaries here can only protect you if you follow them. No one put a gun to your head... you did it, live with it. She ripped YOU off... the real her and the real you, not the hooker and client so bringing this dumb shit to the boards is just stupid!

Yes, I have learned a valuable lesson. Don't help people out. I'll make sure to remember that.

There is a difference between someone who doesn't say "thank you" and someone who says you're going to get something and then steals your money.

If the girl needed money wired, then something went wrong with her and she asked. If she asked for it in exchange of something else than thats one thing but you just said you thought why not she wouldnt rip you off. Did she say she would keep it as credit for another time or she would count it towards your next session?

Just "Can you wire me money"
and "Yes."  
*wires money*

Move on Ahole! I get the gist that everybody on this board is a bitter POS!

Tell you what, would you mind just dropping it. I made a mistake making the post in the first place. I've learned all I need to about the people that post on this board and their mind set. I cannot do anything about that. The lesson learned wasn't the money I gave to the provider but realizing doing a good thing for someone is viewed with such disdain and disgust. I could understand people ridiculing me for sending the girl the money but the complete lack of recognizing the goodness in the act of helping out an individual but rather  how I am at fault to expect to be paid back.  That the comments are aimed at me rather than the person they should be aimed at.  I mean suppose a man goes into a bank to cash a check and a bank robber comes in the bank and shots him. The way this board would respond would be something along the lines as to  why was the person in the bank? What the heck was he doing there?  Boy what an idiot, for being there because banks gets robbed and this person should know that before going into the bank.  The posters on this site, especially you, Gemma, Ga Gambler and many others are cynical, mean spirited and totally vindictive individuals. You lack basic core empathy and consideration and only see things from your point of view. That is truly sad. I may have been stupid for going OUT OF MY WAY to help this girl and yes I did expect to be paid back. The money was to help her get by for the time being.  Excuse me for not having clarified that this was  a "loan" or whatever you want  to call it. I can't even think straight with how this whole things been twisted out of control. And so what if I told her "HEY THIS IS A LOAN, I still wasn't going to get paid back.  But be that as it may be, I know what I did. YOU DON'T . I know that in my heart I helped her out as I have conscience which is something you and the others lack! SO if you don't mind, I'd rather not have to read another one of your fu**ing diatribes. I've learned my lesson to never post anything controversial with cold blooded sharks like you out there ready to twist, rip and shred anyone that shows one ounce of compassion!

After the Bank gets stiffed by this lendee, does the bank have the right or even moral authority to take out an advertisement in the local paper calling out the lendee for being a reprobate or ripoff regarding the lendee's personal occupation?

1) As stated a few times above, small loans (however you define that) should be privately treated as gifts.

This isn't a problem that has to do with hobbying, she didn't stand him up, she didn't rob him at her incall.... She asked for help & He chose to send her money.... That's a personal level... My original response to this OP is he can't call her a scammer or a rip off hooker when he chose to send money... Did you actually read the OP??? It had nothing to do with an appointment!!!! That's fucking point!!! He's blasting & calling this hooker a SCAMMER & a Rip off, he should of post this in the hobbyist board instead he broadcasted it!!! What if she was in an accident, hurt, can't get to a phone ( unlikely since in the original post he called her WHITE TRASHY)....   Btw I'm not sticking up for this HOOOKER...  She's prob a cracked out whore who getting her next fix but pulling this shit..... PEOPLE STOP WITH THE DAMN PMS about this stupid POST!!!!....... Ugh...

So I think that's why people are answering differently.

Your really are a total a-hole! I have moved on and so should you

Okay I get the picture- Had I known I had steeped into a board that was nothing but shark infested escorts... oh fu** it I'm glad I posted what I did. And you know what, I'm glad I pissed people off.  Pardon me for pointing out someone who RIPPED ME OFF!  Take you self righteous b.s and shove it where the sun don't shine you classless aholes!

Amen, and just quit replying to posts about it if you don't want to here more opinions.

There is nothing wrong with lending someone money, or just giving someone money.  

Somethings "off" about YOU!

Lose weight!

Thanks, not a big fan of skank!

Who said I  wanted to hear more opinions? I made my point and stand behind everything I said. This whole thread represents a microcosm of mob mentality.

Really?  I show someone some compassion and understanding and your retort is I got off easy? Here's a novel idea. READ - THE-ORIGINAL-POST!

London, before you decide to join the masses and hang me in front of the entire board, would you be kind enough to read my original post? And from that would you please explain why exactly I am a total nut job.   Follow the story from A to B and elucidate exactly why I am a total nut job? Oh, never mind you've made up your mind....and the wolves are hungry and they haven't eaten for a while. I would hope that there were some people on this board that still have common sense and reason or is that asking for too much?

Actually holding my own quite well. Thank you.  Before winter arrives try and get some exercise outside. It will do you good.

Well said !

You look great to me 😛

Thank you. And in my photos, gentlemen don't have to add ten or more lbs in their minds before they see me. I am as advertised.

You have bad decision making and you're blaming on people... Please stop hobbying, people like u give hobbying a bad rep....  Christ over $150.00 bucks... My ATFs have given me 20x that much & don't fucking whine!!!! But then again I didn't ask they just gave out of generosity!!!!