Does anyone know about this organization?  Is it legit?  Is it fun?  Have you ever been?  Which is better - a hotel or their private area called The Estate.  Is it possible to "watch" for the benefit of uninterested SOs?  etc

Enquiring minds want to know.

Legit, Its safe and fun.. No I have never been LOL...!!!!!

Go and have fun.. It is what you make of it..

I went the first 3 or 4 times and just watched and had a grand ol time with just me and my SO..

While The Estate is not the only reason I moved to Charlotte last year it did affect my decision somewhat.  Almost all of my friends hang out there every weekend.  You will also find me there more often than siping a cocktail and watching the people.  There is lots of info on their website and I am happy to answer any questions anyone may have.  Single men can attend on Friday nights only but if you need a date I am sure you could ask one of the lovely Carolina Girls.  Please note that there is no hobbying going on or promoted at the Estate.  Now whatever arrangements are made before you get there are your own business.

While I've never been to visit the Estate, I am a lifestyler and have several friends that have been there. From what I've heard, it's a pretty snotty crowd who shuns newcomers who are not upper-class enough. But of course that's just hear-say.

Marie

Every time I visit Charlotte I usually visit the Estate with Leigha.  I am so happy she brought me there!  It is really fun and very legit...I don't usually go to play but more to hang out with friends and people watch.   I usually end up playing afterward...

In my personal experiences, it's been quite the opposite.  The regulars there were very welcoming and warm towards me.