Carolinas
Does anyone know about this organization? Is it legit? Is it fun? Have you ever been? Which is better - a hotel or their private area called The Estate. Is it possible to "watch" for the benefit of uninterested SOs? etc
Enquiring minds want to know. 
While The Estate is not the only reason I moved to Charlotte last year it did affect my decision somewhat. Almost all of my friends hang out there every weekend. You will also find me there more often than siping a cocktail and watching the people. There is lots of info on their website and I am happy to answer any questions anyone may have. Single men can attend on Friday nights only but if you need a date I am sure you could ask one of the lovely Carolina Girls. Please note that there is no hobbying going on or promoted at the Estate. Now whatever arrangements are made before you get there are your own business. 
Every time I visit Charlotte I usually visit the Estate with Leigha. I am so happy she brought me there! It is really fun and very legit...I don't usually go to play but more to hang out with friends and people watch. I usually end up playing afterward...