...thanks for the help guys and gal's.

It was one guy requesting all appointments under different names. Time waster.

Glad I'm set for the month!

Looks like my 'career' is ruined because I tried to help a provider.

No mercy here or in the real world.

Yes, melt down. Sorry

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Your are FINE girlie call me I have your back!

xoxo,

Steph

Glad to see the support, I lend mine in spirit as well.

men don't flood up my emails with multiple names, ID's, and PM me with multiple aliases.

I will keep track of them and email them to you to show you what is going on. The BOARDS isn't the problem. I am being seriously harrassed via email and yeah, I kinda' broke down a bit and had to go to the hospital today to see wtf was wrong with me.

Drama? Who's causing the drama? I look like it now, but if y'all saw the emails being sent to me, you would understand. (...but a lot of you DID email or PM AND pass screening, some of you, scheduled a couple false appointments, and had other false appointments ready for screening via no approval.)

Someone is going into my TER email and my regular email and deleting them. I delete some, but not like this. I cannot keep up with these guys who are fucking around with me.

End. Have fun ranting away to a woman who did NOTHING to you. And if I did, man up and say it instead of fucking around. I do listen to 'constructive' criticism said in heart, not harsh insults.

FUFU

That's about all ya can say! Listen Miss Courtney this is a buisness just like any other the only difference is folks here will try and screw with ya anonymously just because they can or because they don't have the balls to do it in person. In my business I've been lied to, cheated, had other contractors tell bold face lies about me, ask for my bid price to undercut me etc etc. Ya know why they did it? They felt threatened by me delivering a superior product. Same for you just a hunch but you've made someone jealous with you're new found success. Hang in there and this bad time will pass. Karma is a bitch it will come back to them. By letting it stress ya out they are winning. On the flip if its not a jealous woman then it's some dude who don't have the balls to do anything else but mess with a lady for whatever reason only he understands. Either way fight through it you're career is not ruined. I remember a story about a provider who was busted and was saying all kinds of crazy shit about aliens and stuff, saw a new review for her last week. I'm sure you'll be fine!!!  There's always a way to work through whatever is going on I don't know enough about y'all's side of the biz to be any help but you've got at least one good gal in you're corner that can help ya out.

Honey we are not necessarily here on the boards to make friends. We make our friends in private and we cherish them for what ever reasons. Not everyone on the boards who replies to your post is your friend

 
I say what I am saying in earnest. Don't take it too hard.  

We're here to get what we want and keep it moving.  

We dont give a rats donkey if you're booked for the winter or you have one appt for the whole year.  

 
You handle yours. We handle ours.  

If someone is tryin to Fk with you it's working because you're upset and ranting about it on the boards.  

You let them control your emotions and feelings.  

It's a sign of weakness to some which causes you to look bad, pathetic, desperate or emotionally overbearing.  

Less is more sometimes.  

The ladies who are doing well don't need to make their presences known.  

They have a reputation and amazing friends who through back channel brag on them, etc.  
We build our reputation in the very beginning and no matter how much you may improve your first impression can either be a beautiful aroma or a lingering stench.  

Let your reviews speak for themselves and your clients speak for you.

Do you think us ladies haven't been bothered and harassed before?  

We have. But we don't let it affect our business or emotions.  

Suck it up buttercup. Because tomorrow's a new day.  

 
Best  
Aria

I'm responding to you

just know I'm new to a business that has been drilled in my head as extremely dangerous... emails led up to more emails over the month, then alll of  a sudden in one day I received tons of emails in one hour, and I have nine to check since I've fallen asleep a few hours ago in my PM's right now. I had just gotten a PM a week or so ago telling me "Not to mess with the big agencies" and all of this started happening. A story was told to me about what an agency did to a girl (in a different state) and seriously, yesterday, I got extremely humiliated.

Not good to fill up someone's inbox and cause them to schedule an entire trip to another state, (possibly, only one had been scheduled so far, but a few had been requested,) and then leave them hanging losing money on flights/hotels, etc. which is non refundable.

P.S. Many PM's throughout the months talking about swearing to me, encouraging me to do it. I swear, yes, on here. Probably not good for business, but really, not in real life, and not again on here. (That's a reply to your subject).

But I can't read more than the beginning sentence. I just want to explain what happened. When you see these girls have meltdowns, they're being messed with by a group of people behind the scenes, I suspect, manipulated via email beforehand and on the boards, to believe everything is going as norm. Encouraged to post and talk more.

Anyone who is 'amazing' at manipulating people on the internet like this should be proud of their awesome capabilities. Bravo.

letting it fill up and not looking at it.

from lvpur****** at gmail.

sexy bitch. say the word and I will come and massage you to sleep

Sad to say but it's just like when we were kids some asshat knows he getting to ya they won't stop. Two choices ignore them and don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they are getting to ya or to put it in common terms "whoop someone's ass" since ya don't know who it is just ignore. I promise they are watching this unfold here publicly and probally jerking off to the fact they are getting to ya!! I know it's easy for me to say this since I don't deal with the things you do but it will die down if you ignore it. Maybe stick to known friends for a bit if ya can.

To get 'em off... guess it's working!

your profile says indy, but you've posted several times about the 'agency' that you work for. so which is it? you need to change your password on your accounts every so often, and if you worked for an agency and decided to quit, no wonder. some are ruthless.

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Yup, I got an e-mail today from some fucktard saying that my reviews were" no longer available" on TER and "what were my services?" Definite IDIOT! Block time for sure- Spam Folder! (BTW- My profile and reviews are viewable, right?) I'm 99.999 percent sure they are. Sigh..........it sounds like that idiot needs to pay to see reviews or go bother someone else, for sure. That really pissed me off and was stupid of him! Grrrrrr.......! SPAM FOLDERED!

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