Honey we are not necessarily here on the boards to make friends. We make our friends in private and we cherish them for what ever reasons. Not everyone on the boards who replies to your post is your friend

 
I say what I am saying in earnest. Don't take it too hard.  

We're here to get what we want and keep it moving.  

We dont give a rats donkey if you're booked for the winter or you have one appt for the whole year.  

 
You handle yours. We handle ours.  

If someone is tryin to Fk with you it's working because you're upset and ranting about it on the boards.  

You let them control your emotions and feelings.  

It's a sign of weakness to some which causes you to look bad, pathetic, desperate or emotionally overbearing.  

Less is more sometimes.  

The ladies who are doing well don't need to make their presences known.  

They have a reputation and amazing friends who through back channel brag on them, etc.  
We build our reputation in the very beginning and no matter how much you may improve your first impression can either be a beautiful aroma or a lingering stench.  

Let your reviews speak for themselves and your clients speak for you.

Do you think us ladies haven't been bothered and harassed before?  

We have. But we don't let it affect our business or emotions.  

Suck it up buttercup. Because tomorrow's a new day.  

 
Best  
Aria

I'm responding to you

just know I'm new to a business that has been drilled in my head as extremely dangerous... emails led up to more emails over the month, then alll of  a sudden in one day I received tons of emails in one hour, and I have nine to check since I've fallen asleep a few hours ago in my PM's right now. I had just gotten a PM a week or so ago telling me "Not to mess with the big agencies" and all of this started happening. A story was told to me about what an agency did to a girl (in a different state) and seriously, yesterday, I got extremely humiliated.

Not good to fill up someone's inbox and cause them to schedule an entire trip to another state, (possibly, only one had been scheduled so far, but a few had been requested,) and then leave them hanging losing money on flights/hotels, etc. which is non refundable.

P.S. Many PM's throughout the months talking about swearing to me, encouraging me to do it. I swear, yes, on here. Probably not good for business, but really, not in real life, and not again on here. (That's a reply to your subject).

But I can't read more than the beginning sentence. I just want to explain what happened. When you see these girls have meltdowns, they're being messed with by a group of people behind the scenes, I suspect, manipulated via email beforehand and on the boards, to believe everything is going as norm. Encouraged to post and talk more.

Anyone who is 'amazing' at manipulating people on the internet like this should be proud of their awesome capabilities. Bravo.