Hi all,

Apologies in advance for the almost certainly dumb set of questions that I am about to ask...I am visiting Boston from the UK next week, and while familiar with etiquette in Europe I am unsure of how things work in the U.S...

So, a few questions...

First one I guess is that screening/ references seem to be required, I'm pretty sure that I won't be able to fulfil the requirements for this (having looked at a couple of forms online) as I am from the UK. Is this a show stopper?

I can understand the not talking about money things and the process of leaving a charitable donation, but if no amount is specified, how, without asking am I supposed to know what would be appropriate?

I have, obviously, found backpage, but are there any other information sources that people would recommend?

Many thanks in advance to anyone who gets back to me.  

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About Screening, you will have to find a newbie friendly provider, and go thru her screening process. Not to painful, but may require showing some form if ID.  

Most ladies have their donations list their website, it might be under different name like Gift, Consideration, or something like that.  

As for places to look, I would stay away from Backpage, Granted some great ladies do advertise there, your most likely going to get sub par provider and not have a good time.

TER has an Ad page for all the cities, this is a great place to look, you will see who is available and if you are a VIP member of TER you will be able to see their reviews. All the info you need in one spot.

P411 is another good spot to check out, it will give you links to reviews and let you know if they are Newbie friendly.
Link: https://www.preferred411.com/

One other site is named after the Greek god of Love (hint) but that is another site that you have to be careful with.  

The one thing to remember is do your research.  

Hope this helps

Thank you for getting back to me, I really appreciate the advice.  

Looking forward to a fun time in Boston!

A

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I'm suspicious. Ladies should be careful.

Humble advice would be to check p411 for providers comfortable with newbies.

Beyond that, I think some providers will be more understanding than it would seem on websites, provided you are honest and transparent. I strongly recommend being both.

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I would reach out to several and explain the situation. If she's lost, move on. I would not wait until the last minute. Being that they're going to have to be creative, be prepared to get chummy with the lady who can screen you.  

Make sure that she has a good reputation, and go from there.  

All the best!

I'm craving so much to be with a European man! And the great news is, I'll be moving over there next month, so you can continue to see me across the pond