I would never set up another appt with you if you intentionally set me up that way. Plan B, and another provider suggested this? well isn't she conciderate of my schedule. If she is that unreliable that she suggests you have a back up plan I think you should skip the chance at a gamble and go for the more sure thing. Everyone is replacable, that tells me shes not worth the risk, no matter who it is.
Now, I don't know where you saw that, I read her thread and didn't see that anywhere, I might have missed it but I don't think so. Sounds like you are reading into the thread what you want to.
Besides you are suggesting or asking if its ok for you to ncns a provider because your first risky choice didn't ncns you?? its ok if you do it? Thats rediculous.

yes I just reread her tread and she DID suggest a Ms Plan B.
Unbelievable.
Some of us book even just one client a day at times, and I do not want to waste my time. Well I would be pissed if I was your Plan B its disrespectful of my time. I don't appreciate it nor do I appreciate another Lady suggesting it. If she is that unstable that she can't keep her scedule straight she may wanna get over herself and try and be a lil more reliable, and stop expecting someone else to mop up your mess when se ncns a client by being your ms Plan B.
Good luck with that.

maybe everyone who books with me should book Ms Rahnah as their Ms.Plan B and when I Don't cancel with you...since thats very rare for me, you can cancel with her an hour or 2 before your *back up appt*  since its perfectly fine with her.
Mess up her schedule some she won't mind she'll just fill the spot no worries.

Raynah responded as diplomatically as possible to an unecessary baiting question on her ad.

Did it make sense? No- her responses literally never do.

Neither does the decision-making process of some clients (usually hobby veterans who knowingly book appointments with providers who are notorious for certain behaviors and then complain about it or insist on the correction of it).

Raynah is an excellent provider - I would rank her as literally the best I have ever worked with in this business in terms of performance.  I feel a little twitch in my vagina typing just typing the girl's name right now.

There is enough information about the difficulties of scheduling an appointment with her though that anyone can make an educated decision about whether or not she's worth an attempt.

My friend's quote "You can't embarrass a whore on a message board" rings true for this one too-
You can't shame her into changing her practices.
Redundant questions and peripheral threads about her responses serve absolutely no purpose.

Stop asking questions you already know the answer to for the purpose of baiting Raynah and people with experiences with Raynah.  

No, no provider likes the practice of double-booking.  Does the fact that she suggested that after provoked (by someone who already reviewed her) make me want to give some overblown bitchy answer about double booking?  
Come on providers- don't fall for it, address what is REALLY being said/provoked here.

Can TER Boston members come up with some topics more interesting than the endless drama re-runs?

From the males perspective (at least this male)  my time for an appointment is not very expansive.  I can not plan a date and a back up position (provider B) an hour or two later on the chance that A was a no show or cancellation.  I can only plan for a finite amount of time to be "out of the office".

Therefore my time is planned for a provider A that is very apt to be on time and available when she says she will be available.

Just my thoughts!

and frankly I couldn't care less, I don't worry about what anyone else does with their schedule their time and so on. I just worry about me.
Yet she chose to suggest Gentleman double book us incase she decides to ncns and that we are capable of just wingin our schedules at a whim.
I don't appreciate her speaking for how anyone but herself on matters of whats ok and what isn't.
Now if she shows ncns cancels That has nothing to do with me the Plan B aspect is what this post is about NOT her tardiness. Her lack of respect for others in that statement, other women aswell as other Gentlemen. That is all.

I totally agree.

But for me it would be a call to a trusted agency to book a last minute appointment.  It's happened to me once or twice...

Now, in all honesty, the last thing I would do is tell a lady that she was my "plan B" girl and there is really no need to.  A few years ago my fav had to cancel on short notice and I decided to try and contact a local gal that I have been curious about for a while.  I apologized for the short notice and was pleasantly surprised to find her available as she had also had a cancellation.
We met, had a great time for a couple of hours and that was that.  She's no dummy, she new why I was calling but, trust me, I was not treated like a plan B guy anymore than I treated her like a plan B date!  

There is really no need to get hung-up on this sort of thing. Booking with the likely intent of canceling is not a good idea.  Having a back-up plan is.

When asked how a gent can be assured he'll have a got time if he books with Raynah, she suggests below that, in order to ASSURE your steamy fun, you should book a "Ms. Plan B" in the event one of her (or another lady's) calamities precludes her making her appointment.

My question for the ladies is this: Would you be happy being Ms. Plan B, and end up on the wrong end of a cancellation just because Ms. Plan A did, in fact, make it?

Corollary question: If you were Ms. Plan B, and you got stood up, what measures would you take against the gent that treated you thusly?

It seems to me that a better way to assure a gent that he'll have a steamy good time would be to establish and follow a pattern of showing it to him yourself, rather than dragging in another lady and potentially upsetting her schedule.

A. We understand you were disappointed by an NCNS. Boo hoo. Remember when your parents told you things would be easier as a grown-up? They lied.

B. Booking with 2 ladies is a poor idea. Having a couple of extra phone #s is not. Do you carry a spare tire or a second credit card, in case your primary sources of transportation or finances are unavailable? Same concept.

C. There are COUNTLESS lovely ladies out there. If you're worried about the possibility of an NCNS from someone, BOOK SOMEONE ELSE! How hard is this?

Who would do that? Are you talking about a agency? Because as an independent personally I've never heard of such a practice.

Below I WOULD charge you my full fee just as if you willingly NCNS me. There is NO excuse for that kind of cancellation. IF she shows up you'll cancel with me a "mere" hour or two before our appointment. Not sure what planet that reasoning comes from as an acceptable time frame to "fill" the time slot with someone else. I rarely schedule same day appointments unless someone has exceptional references and rarely are people available to fill a sudden cancellation like that. If it was an outcall that's even more of my time I've reserved for you and if an incall I'd have the incurred cost of the hotel as well. Believe me, I'm there preparing well ahead of "an hour or two" ahead of time. Why? That's what a professional does. It's courtesy. Treating people like they matter.

Make me plan B? Oh HELL NO.

Sorry, I couldn't resist, Ally's subject line brought back vivid memories of the Holy Grail.


Now what were we talking about?

Q: How do I make sure this (NCNS) does not happen if I set up an appointment with you?

A: I do NOT, NOR HAVE I EVER intentionally NCNS'd people for the jollies of it- which is what those ridiculous slander posts imply. All I can think to do, if you want sureity and peace of mind, is perhaps book a "Ms. Plan B". If you book with Ms. Plan B an hour or 2 after my scheduled arrival time, letting her know you are not 100% sure you'll be able to make it in the 1st place , you will be able to cancel with her upon my arrival, giving her a reasonable amount of time to fill the spot. She loses no time or cash, You get me and my mojo, (and perhaps my sexyfine friend also??). And Everyone wins  Problem solved.

For the better part of the month now members of this board have been trashing Raynah.   Initially certain hobbyists stated justifiable issues with Raynah’s scheduling issues and her poor communication skills.

But as Ally points out:
“"You can't embarrass a whore on a message board" rings true for this one too-   You can't shame her into changing her practices.  Redundant questions and peripheral threads about her responses serve absolutely no purpose.”

Raynah is what she is.  Her reviews are available to all who look.  It’s hard to argue with the numbers, she consistently ranks in the top 25 in Boston, (currently 13) and her performance, documented by clients and even as stated by other providers (see Ms Moore’s above) are nearly mythic.

What it boils down to is this.  If you can’t take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.  

Hobbyist who operate on a tight schedule who can’t endure delays or cancellations or who feel their time is to valuable that being stood up by anyone, a client, a friend, a provider, you name it, then what you should do is book elsewhere.   Pure and Simple!   I’m not suggesting ones time isn’t valuable.  But if you can’t endure the disappointment, don’t take the risk.

Stop bitching on the Boards about how you’ve been wronged and continuing to attack and bait a provider who clear puts out there what her modus operandi is.  (Business Practices for non Latin scholars)

If you’re a hobbyist who can be flexible and can roll with the scheduling delays and don’t mind when someone is less than polite, honest or professional then there are literally 100’s of other options out there for you.   Including all the ladies who have posted on this thread.  I can personally attest to that fact.

Build a bridge and get over it.

Ah, that feels better now.


Dingo: You must spank her well, and after you are done with her, you may deal with her as you like... and then... spank me.
All: And me. And me too. And me.
Dingo: Yes. Yes, you must give us all a good spanking.
Dingo: And after the spanking, the oral sex.
Galahad: Well, I could stay a bit longer...

"If your a hobbyist how CAN'T be flexible...."  

Eeek, that could have gotten me on trouble.

"If you're a Hobbyist WHO CAN'T be flexible...."


Sorry, its my hands, I just washed them and I can't do anything with them.

Nicole
I couldn't agree with you more.  My post was aimed more to the hobbyist than to the providers.  You have the right to comment upon how the suggested Plan B would impact you and other providers and I don't question that.

This entire notion of a Plan B is abhorrent and disrespectful and I would hope no self respecting gentlemen would ever consider it.  This would become a sad business if it became the practice.

I'm just saying,
Gentlemen shouldn't even try booking, let alone become involved in some convoluted Machiavellian scheme to involve other providers, if they aren't prepared to deal with the disappointment of a NCNS.

The facts are out there, Buyer Beware.   It pretty clear if the lady shows you're going to have a wild ride, if she doesn't show, stop coming here to bitch about it.   We all know, it is what it is.  Again, as Ally has inferred, "You can't shame her into changing her business practices."

But it would be a shame if clients adopted her suggestion and I get your point entirely.

I can't speak for other guys... my "plan B" is simply a list of ladys that are in the same general area. If a problem occurs I work the list.
Last time I got canceled on, I had an excellent time with a past friend who graciously worked me into her schedule.
I simply said I was in the area and was thinking of her.... In true GFE spirit she was complimented by this and gave me a thrill-ride.

The question of whether I would want to be plan B answered. Any provider is free to run her business exactly how she sees fit to run it. If I were to be plan B in any case it wouldn't be at the fault of the other girl if I got stiffed regardless of whether it is Raynah or the queen of England. The choice/decision/fault would always always lie with the man with the little white envelope. Plan B is a bad decision all the way around.

Rae

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I want to see this fine lady now.she sounds hot and she looks really hot.I chatted with her at a m&g and she  had a charming personality and did I say hot she looked.

Wow. I try to take a little time off to get laid and look at what the kids do when no one's watching!!
I guess that'll teach me. NOT!

I'm glad you all had your fun.
I've decided to merely continue to bask in the afterglow....and let all this stand as is. It's your trainwreck....do with it what you will.

Oh....and FWIW.....my gal was my "plan A, B, C", and she rocked my D!

Party on!

DD

Anyone else feel the irony that the  top 1 & 2 posters who post the best pictures are Nicole K. and Raynah?
Anyone else feel they post the best pictures?  It appears the type of pictures relfects, somewhat, some personal aspects of the photographer.    Even the choice of clothes, if any.

more pictures please.

Hey Sparky
When she pulls a NCNS on you hopefully you won't be one of those who complains and plays the victim card:
" Oh, I had no idea, how could she do this to me?"

Any hobbiest with more than a couple encounters has NO excuse for posting about her NCNS. Shame on anyone for booking her in the first place.

It was brought up that Raynah will not change her ways. I disagree. If the hobbiests here grow a set and stop booking her you can bet you ass she will change her ways.

is I was just a bit stoned on pot and bullshitting the last few paragraphs of that post. Wow social upheaval! Great stuff...Ally makes my pussy twitch, too by the waySeriously though, I don't see the problem with having a backup plan.  The man basically asked "How can I ensure that I will not be left standing with my cock in my hand and a wad of cash?" Well, lets see- I wasn't really thinking of "our" situation in particular, it was more of a generalized concept.And I was serious- hey, in the event that I for whatever reason couldn't make it(I know, none of you have EVER missed an appointment because you ran late, or there was traffic, or your dog died, or whatever)Why leave the guy unsatisfied? I was thinking selflessly. See how you twist things into this whole negative Bash-the-pretty-bitch nonsense? Unnecessary. But fun to read. For the record, again, I do not make a regular practice of missing appointments, Yes, I will most likely be 15 minutes late. If you cant deal with that for a mind numbing blowjob and and the company of a goddess like me well perhaps its not kismet for you and I. It didn't even cross my mind that anyone wouldn't realize I was being facetious.
Ray

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both look great.they obviously take good care of themselves as pics would indicate they are in very good shape.Nicole looks hot in purple.