A. We understand you were disappointed by an NCNS. Boo hoo. Remember when your parents told you things would be easier as a grown-up? They lied.

B. Booking with 2 ladies is a poor idea. Having a couple of extra phone #s is not. Do you carry a spare tire or a second credit card, in case your primary sources of transportation or finances are unavailable? Same concept.

C. There are COUNTLESS lovely ladies out there. If you're worried about the possibility of an NCNS from someone, BOOK SOMEONE ELSE! How hard is this?

I would never set up another appt with you if you intentionally set me up that way. Plan B, and another provider suggested this? well isn't she conciderate of my schedule. If she is that unreliable that she suggests you have a back up plan I think you should skip the chance at a gamble and go for the more sure thing. Everyone is replacable, that tells me shes not worth the risk, no matter who it is.
Now, I don't know where you saw that, I read her thread and didn't see that anywhere, I might have missed it but I don't think so. Sounds like you are reading into the thread what you want to.
Besides you are suggesting or asking if its ok for you to ncns a provider because your first risky choice didn't ncns you?? its ok if you do it? Thats rediculous.

Who would do that? Are you talking about a agency? Because as an independent personally I've never heard of such a practice.

Below I WOULD charge you my full fee just as if you willingly NCNS me. There is NO excuse for that kind of cancellation. IF she shows up you'll cancel with me a "mere" hour or two before our appointment. Not sure what planet that reasoning comes from as an acceptable time frame to "fill" the time slot with someone else. I rarely schedule same day appointments unless someone has exceptional references and rarely are people available to fill a sudden cancellation like that. If it was an outcall that's even more of my time I've reserved for you and if an incall I'd have the incurred cost of the hotel as well. Believe me, I'm there preparing well ahead of "an hour or two" ahead of time. Why? That's what a professional does. It's courtesy. Treating people like they matter.

Make me plan B? Oh HELL NO.

Raynah responded as diplomatically as possible to an unecessary baiting question on her ad.

Did it make sense? No- her responses literally never do.

Neither does the decision-making process of some clients (usually hobby veterans who knowingly book appointments with providers who are notorious for certain behaviors and then complain about it or insist on the correction of it).

Raynah is an excellent provider - I would rank her as literally the best I have ever worked with in this business in terms of performance.  I feel a little twitch in my vagina typing just typing the girl's name right now.

There is enough information about the difficulties of scheduling an appointment with her though that anyone can make an educated decision about whether or not she's worth an attempt.

My friend's quote "You can't embarrass a whore on a message board" rings true for this one too-
You can't shame her into changing her practices.
Redundant questions and peripheral threads about her responses serve absolutely no purpose.

Stop asking questions you already know the answer to for the purpose of baiting Raynah and people with experiences with Raynah.  

No, no provider likes the practice of double-booking.  Does the fact that she suggested that after provoked (by someone who already reviewed her) make me want to give some overblown bitchy answer about double booking?  
Come on providers- don't fall for it, address what is REALLY being said/provoked here.

Can TER Boston members come up with some topics more interesting than the endless drama re-runs?

Q: How do I make sure this (NCNS) does not happen if I set up an appointment with you?

A: I do NOT, NOR HAVE I EVER intentionally NCNS'd people for the jollies of it- which is what those ridiculous slander posts imply. All I can think to do, if you want sureity and peace of mind, is perhaps book a "Ms. Plan B". If you book with Ms. Plan B an hour or 2 after my scheduled arrival time, letting her know you are not 100% sure you'll be able to make it in the 1st place , you will be able to cancel with her upon my arrival, giving her a reasonable amount of time to fill the spot. She loses no time or cash, You get me and my mojo, (and perhaps my sexyfine friend also??). And Everyone wins  Problem solved.

Seriously folks

For the better part of the month now members of this board have been trashing Raynah.   Initially certain hobbyists stated justifiable issues with Raynah’s scheduling issues and her poor communication skills.

But as Ally points out:
“"You can't embarrass a whore on a message board" rings true for this one too-   You can't shame her into changing her practices.  Redundant questions and peripheral threads about her responses serve absolutely no purpose.”

Raynah is what she is.  Her reviews are available to all who look.  It’s hard to argue with the numbers, she consistently ranks in the top 25 in Boston, (currently 13) and her performance, documented by clients and even as stated by other providers (see Ms Moore’s above) are nearly mythic.

What it boils down to is this.  If you can’t take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.  

Hobbyist who operate on a tight schedule who can’t endure delays or cancellations or who feel their time is to valuable that being stood up by anyone, a client, a friend, a provider, you name it, then what you should do is book elsewhere.   Pure and Simple!   I’m not suggesting ones time isn’t valuable.  But if you can’t endure the disappointment, don’t take the risk.

Stop bitching on the Boards about how you’ve been wronged and continuing to attack and bait a provider who clear puts out there what her modus operandi is.  (Business Practices for non Latin scholars)

If you’re a hobbyist who can be flexible and can roll with the scheduling delays and don’t mind when someone is less than polite, honest or professional then there are literally 100’s of other options out there for you.   Including all the ladies who have posted on this thread.  I can personally attest to that fact.

Build a bridge and get over it.

Ah, that feels better now.


Dingo: You must spank her well, and after you are done with her, you may deal with her as you like... and then... spank me.
All: And me. And me too. And me.
Dingo: Yes. Yes, you must give us all a good spanking.
Dingo: And after the spanking, the oral sex.
Galahad: Well, I could stay a bit longer...

But for me it would be a call to a trusted agency to book a last minute appointment.  It's happened to me once or twice...

Now, in all honesty, the last thing I would do is tell a lady that she was my "plan B" girl and there is really no need to.  A few years ago my fav had to cancel on short notice and I decided to try and contact a local gal that I have been curious about for a while.  I apologized for the short notice and was pleasantly surprised to find her available as she had also had a cancellation.
We met, had a great time for a couple of hours and that was that.  She's no dummy, she new why I was calling but, trust me, I was not treated like a plan B guy anymore than I treated her like a plan B date!  

There is really no need to get hung-up on this sort of thing. Booking with the likely intent of canceling is not a good idea.  Having a back-up plan is.

Holy shit!!! Really?!?

Wow. I try to take a little time off to get laid and look at what the kids do when no one's watching!!
I guess that'll teach me. NOT!

I'm glad you all had your fun.
I've decided to merely continue to bask in the afterglow....and let all this stand as is. It's your trainwreck....do with it what you will.

Oh....and FWIW.....my gal was my "plan A, B, C", and she rocked my D!

Party on!

DD