I finally had a Civie date and I must say, it went well and I was amazingly charming.

no.  

Are you feeling guilty because you banged quite a few escorts?
But it's only a first date. Did u have sex with her and at least was as good as half of one of your atfs?
I'm afraid you grew up in a guilt-friendly religion

you were going to marry your 18th review

that you've come out of your shell!  Now how do we get you back in?

We pay them to leave....du

Are you going to post a review of your date?????????/

heck, whip out your ipad, log in, and show her your reviews, so she fully understands you.  Then spark up the Boston board and show her your posts.  She'll appreciate your honesty and likely fall in love with you.

I dont care to know what is going on in everyones lives and nor do I think that what I do on daily or hourly basis is anyones business,or interesting. Then I come to the TER board and continually find escapade 1946 jumping up and down saying " look at me! look at me,! Mommy I did poopies! Arent I special?"

Everyone is entitled to a secret life.  Leave it a secret.

And you are soo right!!

I do agreed with Claire, my biggest mistake was when my ex-husband and I agreed for me to do this business, he was fine with it until 10 years later (which I was already retired from it), he used that against me stating I was doing the business to make me look bad after being married for almost 19 years.  He did this to cover his ass and lied to everyone about it, which we all found out that he was living in a double life.  He did divorced me and then 1 week after the divorce was finalized, he married her and then divorced her, because she was a gold digger.  So, no matter how much you think you are in love or falling in love, it is best not to say anything.  I never though ex would turn on me like that.  So think about this very carefully.

it is right thing to do and you start off on the right foot; go for it...

Tread carefully Esc.  Second date might be a little early for such revelations.  While I do advocate honesty in any relationship, you have to handle this particular situation delicately.

you should keep your mouth shut.  I would be willing to bet it wouldnt go over well.  There are very few woman that are open minded enough to be ok with it.

On Date #2????....That's a Shit Show WAITING to happen. The list of good things that would come of that conversation couldn't be shorter.  

When you tell a civi about the hobby:
her reaction will be to immediatly stop seeing you.
Then, when you persist, she will tell all friends about what a creep you are.
When you continue to explain your position she will get a restraining order.
When you break the R/O by continuing to justify your position, you will be arrested....
When you get arrested your PC access in jail is not going to include TER you will get deadly sperm backup.
When you get DSB your balls explode!
Don't tell civi's about your hobby.