is it much easier to "perform" with a more mature provider , even if she has a few extra pounds, than it is with the hard body 20-something year old hotties ? I'm tired of wasting money on these beautiful young things that I can't get a decent erection with (not blaming them). It's my problem, not theirs. They sure are fun to look at.

I think it's easy to get intimidated by some of the women that we are so fortunate to get to spend time with. I have found it hard to get going as well. One of them told me, and I quote "I'm gonna f..k you up" ! And boy did she, I couldn't keep it up to save my life!  She was very hot and had an intimidating attitude. Maybe a few years ago I woulda "f.....d her up". Theres a few girls at the top of my list that I would soooooo love to see, but Im afraid I would be wasting her time and mine!

If anything the opposite is true for me. Old, fat women just don't turn me on, if I had to see only women my own age I would probably have to start watching porn.

That said, this is about you, not me. If the more mature type are what floats your boat, more power to you, and that's who you should see.

As far as what age women become "mature" I think that is a sliding scale as we get older. Remember once upon a time when you were 13 and a 15 year old was an "older" woman? lol Well things, and opinions definitely change as we get older, but I still like the 20 something hardbodies. Enjoy your MILFs and GILFs

and I can tell you that the older I have gotten the more I LOVE sex! I just really didnt enjoy it until I was around 30 but when I turned 40! WHOA!!! It was on! lol and still is! I think we as women AND as men we hit our peaks at much older ages. I know a lot of gents that are older than me and just cant get enough either. I am one for more of a good energy and that smooth sexual flow than just looks alone I do like to fuck beautiful women though and cant argue with that! I just need that connection to make it incredible
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You can fuck older fat women for free.

yea no shit BUT I am not free lol! AND I could probably fuck circles around you BTW why does an older woman just about always have to be fat? I know so many super sexy older ladies that are not fat at all! Infact they are in better shape than most and look amazing They are definitely not free lol quite a few are right here on TER so run on with that there buddy lol
You sound like you need some big hugs and kisses lmao!!
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a whore! lol

LIke I said, I am not attracted to old fat women, but to make the leap that old equates fat, was a pretty big leap on my part.

Now that said, I am  rarely attracted to older women, and I am never attracted to old fat women, but like I said earlier, this is not about me, this is about the OP and what he likes and if he likes MILF's and/or GILFs that's exactly who he should be seeing.

my favorite man whore lol Different strokes for differnt folks is something we all agree on AND most would agree that you are a total man whore! lol
You KNOW I just cant help myself
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Some woman can intimidate you with their beauty.. making it difficult for you to perform

In my few visits to Vegas... I've seen some gals that left me with my tongue hanging out like a dog...

I don't mind old broads with a few extra pounds, but they would still have to be attractive enough for me not to go limp

I am the opposite. Visual stimulation is #1 for me. I have also found that the young hard bodies are more flexible and we can have a vigorous romp without injuries.

Perhaps when I am GaG's age I will change my mind. (NAH!)

and if everybody liked the same thing, there would be this one whore getting fucked a thousand times a day with the rest sitting around thinking about how to get a REAL job. now what fun would that be?

Yea no doubt! lol!! That wouldnt be fun at all for others! I LOVE variety in life and in sex I do like older chick though but every now and then you find a gem that is far wiser beyond her years in bed One thing we ALL agree on... Fucking sex is wonderful!!

I suppose I will just grow up to be an older pig. Not a bad proposition when you think about it, lol.

I could not imagine paying for someone I was not attracted to, but if you can't get off with super hot providers, which is worse? I am very nervous whilst in the company of a super hot guy, and I find I can't let go or relax enough to orgasm, but again...I am GETTING paid.  

Interesting thread. Here's my take, for what it's worth..... The days of being able to get rock hard at the thought of pussy are over for me, so now I need "connection" as human beings and/or sexually (both is better). I'm not a fan of "athletic" bodies in the sense that on TER, that means extra around the middle and not toned and in great shape. That said, I have had a much better time with those types, with whom there was a connection than with young hardbodies with a pay me, fuck me, and leave attitude.
I guess what I'm saying is that if the best sex organ of all (the brain) is in full swing everything else is secondary except body, and especially ass odor which leads to ILDS (instant limp dick syndrome), regardless of how good looking she is.
I've had the good fortune to meet women with incredible senuality and eye-popping good looks, or even just "average" looks, and believe me everything worked just fine.

Nope, never been a problem.

First, I don't intimidate - so never have had "performance anxiety."  That said, I view sex as an interactive sport.  There are some knockouts who are reportedly distant in a session and I've generally avoided them.  I don't see ladies with a significantly lower performance rating than appearance rating  Similarly, I'm always careful with the 20-somethings to make sure when booking that they are OK with old dudes like me.  That said, I've had very wonderful experiences with ladies across the age range.  Haven't had much experience with heavier ladies, so can't speak to that.

It's a comfort thing.  
Maybe you click with women closer to your own age due to similar interests in pop culture - making small talk much easier. Small talk leads to chemistry. Chemistry can be arousing;
Maybe you're getting so self-conscious about your age, physical health, and body shape that you feel you can no longer perform like you want to with younger women. Negative thoughts have negative results;
Maybe you have a daughter/niece and think subconsciously that "she's daughter's (niece's) age. what if they know each other?" (again, negative thoughts...)
and a myriad of other reasons that amount to the simple fact that It's a mental block kind of thing for sure.  

a slab of bacon and a pork roast are a couple that come to mind.

Yes, growing old sucks, but it sure beats the alternative.

sweet , intelligent, flirty GFE providers.Old,fat & still having to do this ...well it's sad really .That frustration/anger always shows itself IMHO.

You missed the point to his post. He said he does NOT get off with the 10s, so in his case, the other route might lead him to actually getting his money's worth. BTW, why would you assume that just because someone is old or fat, that they "have to do this?" That makes zero sense. The uglier you are, the less money you are going to make.  

then looks to an extent.

just not the way I'd like to.....LOL. Hand or mouth without a really good boner. What I'd really like to do with those beautiful young women is pound their eyes out. But at my age and shape, that ain't happening, unfortunately.

and coming from me, you know that is a very high compliment, especially since you know I like them young with hard bodies.

You know maybe we could do a foursome sometime? but only one dick in the bed, MINE.lol

I actually did that a year or two back with a GF of mine, a lesbian friend of both of ours that had always wanted to fuck my GF and a third chica, a provider that we hired for the night and the only one getting paid. It  was interesting, not to mention a load of fun. Sort of like a MFMF, but with only one person with a dick, ME. My strictly lesbian friend and I did not interact, just like with a MFMF, but we shared the other two ladies and it was erotic as hell.

sorry about the hijack, but I figured if anyone would understand, it would be you. lol

Same here partner I prefer mature models.

DAMN that DOES sound fucking hot!! I love group play! Yea you can be the only dick in the room
From one whore to another, FUCK YEA!! lol
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