is it much easier to "perform" with a more mature provider , even if she has a few extra pounds, than it is with the hard body 20-something year old hotties ? I'm tired of wasting money on these beautiful young things that I can't get a decent erection with (not blaming them). It's my problem, not theirs. They sure are fun to look at.
I just wonder if the more mature MILF's or even GILF's know how to turn a man on better. Or maybe it's that I'm intimidated by the younger ones. I'm not sure....but I do know that I've had much better experiences with the mature ones. By the way, at what age do they become mature ? Maybe I just choke with the 10/10 providers.
Anybody else agree ?
I think it's easy to get intimidated by some of the women that we are so fortunate to get to spend time with. I have found it hard to get going as well. One of them told me, and I quote "I'm gonna f..k you up" ! And boy did she, I couldn't keep it up to save my life! She was very hot and had an intimidating attitude. Maybe a few years ago I woulda "f.....d her up". Theres a few girls at the top of my list that I would soooooo love to see, but Im afraid I would be wasting her time and mine!
If anything the opposite is true for me. Old, fat women just don't turn me on, if I had to see only women my own age I would probably have to start watching porn.
That said, this is about you, not me. If the more mature type are what floats your boat, more power to you, and that's who you should see.
As far as what age women become "mature" I think that is a sliding scale as we get older. Remember once upon a time when you were 13 and a 15 year old was an "older" woman? lol Well things, and opinions definitely change as we get older, but I still like the 20 something hardbodies. Enjoy your MILFs and GILFs
a whore! lol 
and coming from me, you know that is a very high compliment, especially since you know I like them young with hard bodies.
You know maybe we could do a foursome sometime? but only one dick in the bed, MINE.lol
I actually did that a year or two back with a GF of mine, a lesbian friend of both of ours that had always wanted to fuck my GF and a third chica, a provider that we hired for the night and the only one getting paid. It was interesting, not to mention a load of fun. Sort of like a MFMF, but with only one person with a dick, ME. My strictly lesbian friend and I did not interact, just like with a MFMF, but we shared the other two ladies and it was erotic as hell.
sorry about the hijack, but I figured if anyone would understand, it would be you. lol
DAMN that DOES sound fucking hot!! I love group play! Yea you can be the only dick in the room 
From one whore to another, FUCK YEA!! lol
Hugs and kisses
TL
You can fuck older fat women for free.
yea no shit BUT I am not free lol! AND I could probably fuck circles around you BTW why does an older woman just about always have to be fat? I know so many super sexy older ladies that are not fat at all! Infact they are in better shape than most and look amazing They are definitely not free lol quite a few are right here on TER so run on with that there buddy lol
You sound like you need some big hugs and kisses lmao!!
TL
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LIke I said, I am not attracted to old fat women, but to make the leap that old equates fat, was a pretty big leap on my part.
Now that said, I am rarely attracted to older women, and I am never attracted to old fat women, but like I said earlier, this is not about me, this is about the OP and what he likes and if he likes MILF's and/or GILFs that's exactly who he should be seeing.
and if everybody liked the same thing, there would be this one whore getting fucked a thousand times a day with the rest sitting around thinking about how to get a REAL job. now what fun would that be?
Some woman can intimidate you with their beauty.. making it difficult for you to perform
In my few visits to Vegas... I've seen some gals that left me with my tongue hanging out like a dog...
I don't mind old broads with a few extra pounds, but they would still have to be attractive enough for me not to go limp
I am the opposite. Visual stimulation is #1 for me. I have also found that the young hard bodies are more flexible and we can have a vigorous romp without injuries.
Perhaps when I am GaG's age I will change my mind. (NAH!)
I suppose I will just grow up to be an older pig. Not a bad proposition when you think about it, lol.
a slab of bacon and a pork roast are a couple that come to mind.
Yes, growing old sucks, but it sure beats the alternative.
I could not imagine paying for someone I was not attracted to, but if you can't get off with super hot providers, which is worse? I am very nervous whilst in the company of a super hot guy, and I find I can't let go or relax enough to orgasm, but again...I am GETTING paid.
An average looking guy, I get paid and get to cum...gotta love that. You're insecure about yourself, and really have no reason to be. This is not match.com and we are not here to judge you based on the superficial. You can't possibly think all of our clients are Channing Tatum lookalikes? I don't think it is how these providers look, that presents the issue..I think it is how they are NOT making you feel about yourself.
Interesting thread. Here's my take, for what it's worth..... The days of being able to get rock hard at the thought of pussy are over for me, so now I need "connection" as human beings and/or sexually (both is better). I'm not a fan of "athletic" bodies in the sense that on TER, that means extra around the middle and not toned and in great shape. That said, I have had a much better time with those types, with whom there was a connection than with young hardbodies with a pay me, fuck me, and leave attitude.
I guess what I'm saying is that if the best sex organ of all (the brain) is in full swing everything else is secondary except body, and especially ass odor which leads to ILDS (instant limp dick syndrome), regardless of how good looking she is.
I've had the good fortune to meet women with incredible senuality and eye-popping good looks, or even just "average" looks, and believe me everything worked just fine.
Nope, never been a problem.
First, I don't intimidate - so never have had "performance anxiety." That said, I view sex as an interactive sport. There are some knockouts who are reportedly distant in a session and I've generally avoided them. I don't see ladies with a significantly lower performance rating than appearance rating Similarly, I'm always careful with the 20-somethings to make sure when booking that they are OK with old dudes like me. That said, I've had very wonderful experiences with ladies across the age range. Haven't had much experience with heavier ladies, so can't speak to that.
I recommend you test your "them or me" question with one of the top-ranked younger ladies with high performance ratings. I've been fortunate enough to know several top-10 girls, and can guarantee they know how to get your motor running. That's what got them there. If that test doesn't work, then you accept that it IS you and pursue whatever it is that gets your motor running. The wonderful thing is that there really is something out there for everyone!
It's a comfort thing.
Maybe you click with women closer to your own age due to similar interests in pop culture - making small talk much easier. Small talk leads to chemistry. Chemistry can be arousing;
Maybe you're getting so self-conscious about your age, physical health, and body shape that you feel you can no longer perform like you want to with younger women. Negative thoughts have negative results;
Maybe you have a daughter/niece and think subconsciously that "she's daughter's (niece's) age. what if they know each other?" (again, negative thoughts...)
and a myriad of other reasons that amount to the simple fact that It's a mental block kind of thing for sure.
Truth of the matter is that many folks do actually change a bit of the years. You may just be getting to a stage where the younger ones don't arouse you like they should. It happens. Deal with it and have fun while you're at it.
Beauty comes in all shapes, colors, sizes, voices, and so forth. Explore the world and seek out all the Beauty you can while you can.
My 2 cents,
Sentimental ga_kosh
P.S. - not a thing wrong with seeing Ilona, Ginger, TL or any of the other fine ATL MILFs. Just Play Safe, Have Fun.
sweet , intelligent, flirty GFE providers.Old,fat & still having to do this ...well it's sad really .That frustration/anger always shows itself IMHO.
You missed the point to his post. He said he does NOT get off with the 10s, so in his case, the other route might lead him to actually getting his money's worth. BTW, why would you assume that just because someone is old or fat, that they "have to do this?" That makes zero sense. The uglier you are, the less money you are going to make.
How you look does not determine how smart or educated you are in the real world, thus reiterating that smart providers are NOT the ones who have nothing going for them other than looks, or this business. In fact, it is more likely that a woman who is not all that great looking would be MORE inclined to focus on an education because she does not depend on her looks getting her by.
I would think women at truck stop prices and with drug habits are the ones who HAVE TO DO THIS lol. Seems a bit contradictory to say a woman who only sees 2 guys a week, and charges over 500 has to be here. Clearly, she has something else going on or she would be broke with so few clients. You forget that many of the older providers are also married or just plain nymphos lol. They do this shit for the sex, and the money is just a bonus.
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just not the way I'd like to.....LOL. Hand or mouth without a really good boner. What I'd really like to do with those beautiful young women is pound their eyes out. But at my age and shape, that ain't happening, unfortunately.
And I do get better erections with the more mature providers. It may be chemistry, it may be they have more experience in flipping a guy's switch on....I don't know. And I do think when the provider is really a 10, I may be intimidated a little.
I certainly didn't mean to imply that all the more mature providers I see are fat. Most do have a few more curves than the 20 something year old hard bodies, but that's to be expected.
All I'm saying is that it's a "me" problem....I get it. I just wish that I could perform with the younger ones as well as I do the older ones.
then looks to an extent.
I have known women so sexy that I would be turned on just talking
fully clothed in publix. lol
Same here partner I prefer mature models.
