So providers just think the men who hobby are scumbags and not deserving of respect? Is that where we are now? I knew this is a fucked-up hobby but very disheartening week for me.

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the despondent nature of your post, your subject line would be better if it was "Hmph!"

Where and how often he thrust and buries his blade
Preferrable to the hilt over and over. There can be no place
For melencholy or second guessing.  

Well played papi.

Points to Monsieur Fog!

Touché!

I'm still trucking and the only love I've have for fucking strangers is a boat load of cash.  Some hobbyists are actually enjoyable BUT it's the Stevie Wonder types who make it so much fun to play in this arena....Easy money.  He's walking around with a Bulls eye, hobby target mark front and center.
Practically begging to be taken in this post if ya know what I mean.  Send this sap a note, tell him what he needs to hear to alleviate his fears and insecurities.... get that bank roll ladies LMAO.

No one is going to click everyone and you must learn to move on. This P4P so keep at as such.  

 
What the fuck is this respect thing any way?

Things can turn around bro but you gotta stay positive!!!

Stevie - your earlier post is correct; the anonymity the internet provides does encourage a lack of civility or discourse, often under the rationalization of "that's just the way I am" or "I'm just telling the truth"....

.....but, this is a community discussion board, so post what ever you want, just know you will have to sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to replies....having said that, even some of the harsher replies have a lot of truth in them, so be careful to strip the message from the vitriol, there's something there!

I'd propose you ask yourself these two questions:  

1) What is it you are looking for? A good time, an escape for an hour or two or companionship/relationship? If it's the latter, you will be in for some tough times. To me, it's analogous to a job - unless your job is a passion or a calling, then you go to work to earn a $, not to make friends. Any job is better if you do make friends (and you can make them here), but it's not why you go to work

2) Does it matter? Does it matter if your ATF truly cares for you? I mean, she clearly makes you feel good. So why not leave it at that? I have seen a massage provider on and off for years; we really don't chit chat, and during the session she could be making a mental grocery list for all I know.  But she never let's me feel that way, and always delivers.  

I'm not suggesting ignorance is bliss, just think about what it is you want; that might help keep things in perspective.  

Peace

Kill baby seals for thier fur in  a prior life?   Feed Christians to lions?   Slaughter whales in annual hunting orgy of blood?

I think we get it.  Hookers only love money.  Hobbiest are losers you prey upon.  Most of emotional weaklings, but unfortunately some are scary predators.

I think there are a few of us that just like to fuck and enjoy the variety the hobby offers, but this may be self delusional right?

Lol, have a great weekend killing more baby seals

If they fuck and suck our brains out, and make us feel special during our time together... that's really all they're required to do.  

Having feelings or reciprocating your feelings that's not apart of their job.  

If you ever become one of the lucky fuckers to score off the clock, then and only then will you know her true feelings for you, until then enjoy the hobby..... and accept it for what it is PAY 4 PLAY!!

I didn't say hobbyists are losers.  They've served me well, just like every hole I have to offer has served you.  This is a give and take playground.

I enjoy fucking, but I certainly don't wake up daily thrilled at the thought of fucking men I meet in the hobby.  The cash makes it easier for me to stomach that's all.  Not like even 2 out of 10 of the men met through the hobby are even my type so the cash makes it all justifiable.

When the stress of my job was tearing my stomach, nerves, and emotions to ribbons.  Go get a different job.

Money just isn't worth it.  I walked away from several million deferred pension and non vested stock.  Found a role in new industry that let me capitalize on various strengths and skills.  Actually make more income per year now then back then, but I have never replaced the handcuff package I left behind.  However, I am generally happier, more motivated, and better to be around.  

I do agree with one point you consistently make.   This hobby is not for the emotionally needy, ever, regardless of gender.  It is best when approached with a sense of respect, humor, understanding, and occassionally human kindness.   But love, affection, and a sense of long term companionship, is just asking for scars.  When playing roulette-a-fuck expect a few winners, a few real losers, and hopefully break even play most of the time.

Enjoy your cash, but think about the invested cost it has on you.  I say this with sincerity, it may not be worth your paid price.

I have read a few of "her" posts, and I seriously doubt that "she" is even a she. The writing comes across more as a man who thinks this is how a "money grubbing whore" thinks more than how a "bitter man hating hooker" actually would write about the subject.

Remember I had years where I could "look behind the curtain" and guys pretending to be man hating hookers was/is a lot more common than you would think. I really think that is the case here.

Well said KK!  Sweet ladies like you make this hobby a wonderful diversion from the normal grind of life.  Stay sweet and many Big Hugs for you!