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Stevie - your earlier post is correct; the anonymity the internet provides does encourage a lack of civility or discourse, often under the rationalization of "that's just the way I am" or "I'm just telling the truth"....
.....but, this is a community discussion board, so post what ever you want, just know you will have to sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to replies....having said that, even some of the harsher replies have a lot of truth in them, so be careful to strip the message from the vitriol, there's something there!
I'd propose you ask yourself these two questions:
1) What is it you are looking for? A good time, an escape for an hour or two or companionship/relationship? If it's the latter, you will be in for some tough times. To me, it's analogous to a job - unless your job is a passion or a calling, then you go to work to earn a $, not to make friends. Any job is better if you do make friends (and you can make them here), but it's not why you go to work
2) Does it matter? Does it matter if your ATF truly cares for you? I mean, she clearly makes you feel good. So why not leave it at that? I have seen a massage provider on and off for years; we really don't chit chat, and during the session she could be making a mental grocery list for all I know. But she never let's me feel that way, and always delivers.
I'm not suggesting ignorance is bliss, just think about what it is you want; that might help keep things in perspective.
Peace
Posted By: stevieisme
So providers just think the men who hobby are scumbags and not deserving of respect? Is that where we are now? I knew this is a fucked-up hobby but very disheartening week for me.
No PM available. If you want to chat about the subject outside the boards, email me at steviemetoo at gmail.
If they fuck and suck our brains out, and make us feel special during our time together... that's really all they're required to do.
Having feelings or reciprocating your feelings that's not apart of their job.
If you ever become one of the lucky fuckers to score off the clock, then and only then will you know her true feelings for you, until then enjoy the hobby..... and accept it for what it is PAY 4 PLAY!!
Posted By: stevieisme
So providers just think the men who hobby are scumbags and not deserving of respect? Is that where we are now? I knew this is a fucked-up hobby but very disheartening week for me.
No PM available. If you want to chat about the subject outside the boards, email me at steviemetoo at gmail.
