Recently, a cyber-friend, challenged me.  You see, I had not seen this provider, Tonie, yet Tonie’s pictures had looked just great!  The reason--Tonie has some very bad reviews-I have been monitoring them from the very start.  One after the other, each review reviled a bad provider, nothing personal, just not the Claudia Draper type.

In her message, my friend used words like--skewed points--and--taking one on for the team.  Wait, you take one on for the team before anyone has written a review.  It was too late to take one on for the team with regards to Tonie.  

But I found myself thinking (not a good sign).  My friend referenced her own experience-I made an inference!  She challenged me to dig deeper while using my personal experience.  I reflected.  And I was moved.  One reason I volunteered to moderate this board was due in part to a bad experience I had on another board.  The board that got me started in the hobby.  But not just that, other threads I’ve read on some of the other boards.  Threads that made suggestions and hints to the idea that some providers are singled out—misrepresented for their ethnic background—something that I’m appalled by.

MY PERSONAL TASTE
I’m not all that unique of a person, but my stature, cardio strength and my background make my taste specific and to the point.  And within the range of women that turn me on, are big booty girls.  They have to be a certain type too!  Size, shape, proportion to waist, all are factors.  

TAKING ONE ON FOR THE TEAM:
I don’t do this any more, but if you read my reviews, Cassie was one that I took on for the team.  Catch me in the chat room and I’ll tell you about it.  

SKEWED POINTS
For whatever reason, is it the provider or our taste in women?  Of course not in ever case, most skewing takes place at the high end of the scale.  I’ve found it to be anywhere from 1 to 3 points.  What that means, to the experienced hobbyist, it means one reviewer could score a provider with a 5 or 6 and then the next hobbyist could take that score and know he could have a 8 or a 9 and in some cases even a 10 experience.  But in most cases, skewing doesn’t come into play.

EXPERIENCE
I’d like to think that most guys in this membership are straightforward with their reviews, you know, shoot from the hip.  You give them some pussy; pat them on the head and you’ll probably get a 5 or 6 for performance.  I also know that if a provider doesn’t pat you on the head (and more importantly) give you the pussy—you can get pissed off.  Man, that girl didn’t deliver.  Her hair was dirty!  Her breath Stinks!  And she didn’t give me the pussy.   SKEWING.

TONIE
She has 3 reviews: appearance:  she scored 4, 8, 7 performance 2,3,2.  There are also very bad descriptions about her weight, looks, personality and hygiene.  If I were to go into a session with Tonie, my expectation would be one where I’d see a girl that would be pretty good looking—her 4 in appearance hopefully being the result of skewing, but probably a pretty bad fuck (if such a creature is possible).

-- Modified on 9/11/2002 5:24:31 PM

Good points all around Joey. Now just sit back and wait for the backlash! Hope they don't nail you as bad as they tried to nail me the other night! LOL. Wonder what kind of photo they'll dig up and claim is you?

Ok, you did a review.  Cheetah or whoever, did the review.  Soooo why keep rehashing it??!  I mean was the service so bad you need counseling now or what!?  Read the reviews, your smart guys....then carry on with the rest of your life!  Everytime her name is mentioned I don't think you have to keep bad mouthing her.  Alot of you post more negative then positive on the message boards lately.  Tonie, if you are reading this I hope it serves as a learning tool for you to better your service or leave the biz if you don't enjoy it.

For the record...the pic on TBD was not Cheetah...if you would like a review of him you can email me  

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I agree with you .. they are beating a dead horse in the mouth lol

this subject has been going on forever and never ends. seem to me that law of supply and demand should apply,however it is obvious that the demand by hobbiest far exceeds supply of providers otherwise hobbiest would not continue to visit ladies with poor ratings. i can't imagine a hobbiest who spot a photo of a lady,checks her reviews and finds that all reviewers say that they should have stayed home,but the little brain convinces him otherwise. he arranges a date and discovers he should have stayed home.do we not believe what is written in the reviews? if you don't visit providers with bad reviews they will eventually be driven out of business.

A woman is complaining about men constantly rehashing the past? Is the foot in the other shoe here?

Was she a money groping-out the door type provider?  No!  This girl was gorgeous; I mean she was a piece of cake!  She had her make-up rolling; she was well dressed (she had on this clinging skirt that went down to her knees, it would have given that tennis player with her teddy some competition).  Was she a 2,3,2 in performance????? No!  Skewing!!!!!

The idea that I like big booty girls is only exceeded by the fact that big booty girls like me.  I'm not saying that I'm this great likeable guy--just that it's hard for me to have a bad experience with this type of provider.  Just lay as we're having sex--not when you're with JoeytheBoy!  Not when you're a big booty girl!  Yeah Babe!

Did she make me cum and give me a gfe experience?  No!  But since 9 out 10 providers don't make me cum either--no big loss.  I'd rate Tonie at 5-6 just under Claudia, whose experience reminds me a little of Tonie.  Except that Claudia is much older and much more experienced.

Would I have gone out with Tonie if not challenged? That's the thing.  If I were still in my 20(s) or 30(s), I'd probably not only have seen Tonie (because I knew there would be skewing) but from my experience, I would have gone back to see her again.  But whom am I kidding; I would not have spent the money--or even have the money--when I was in my 20(s).  These days, I like to be good to myself.  If you look at my reviews, I've been seeing providers who score 7(s), 8(s) and 9(s).

Did I learn anything, sure!  Not that there is skewing, I knew that anyway!  I think I learned that you can never take things to sure/to serious!  Tonie has potential and she reminds me of Claudia.  Claudia is very smart, owns property and drives a fancy car—Claudia allows her pussy to get her the things she wants in life.  Just like Tonie, except Tonie is much younger and has a lot more decisions to make.  And just like Nicole said, one day she may make the decision (maybe even get a mentor like other star providers) to be an 8, 9 or 10.  And when that happens, some guy like me will have the experience and write the review so that other hobbyist, like myself, can enjoy the pleasure of her company.  

As always, this community is what we make it!

Joey

-- Modified on 9/12/2002 6:53:38 PM

Then there are those that don't like truth spoken!
Then there are those that write their own reviews!
Then there are women who write reviews for each other!
Experience.....and write the truth and let it be read!

and then there are those (men) that write reviews to keep memberships..
and those that write reviews to be spiteful...
Go figure!!!

at first i felt guilty as all get out, cos it was on our discussion that you went to see her...
but with this post, i am So Confused!

she was beautiful, well dressed but stinky with dirty hair?
was she not into it at all and no one else needs to bother or does she just need some mentoring?

please be as clear as you can in your review, no waffle-ing.
and if you really had a shittay time cos i got you thinking, i owe you a discount, at least

Nicole