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wondering how this all works? - by Eselle, 5/19/2013 11:05:40 AM (23 reads)

Your first reviewer creates your TER review page - by Businesses, 5/19/2013 1:50:20 PM (11 reads)
Ditto what businesses said, and I would add - by perfectstorm, 5/19/2013 2:11:49 PM (9 reads)

post - by Krystal Ready, 5/18/2013 8:53:51 PM (64 reads)

to find your post - by clarence37, 5/18/2013 11:36:05 PM (33 reads)

How do I get my profile changed/added to? - by LanaLuxe4U, 5/18/2013 7:31:43 PM (38 reads)

Submit a problem report. - by Businesses, 5/18/2013 7:39:55 PM (19 reads)

Re: Submit a problem report. - by LanaLuxe4U, 5/18/2013 7:55:14 PM (17 reads)

Where does a new girl start - by JuliaBanks, 5/18/2013 1:02:51 PM (141 reads)

Welcome Julia. First, you can't make your own profile - by LovetoDaty, 5/18/2013 2:29:19 PM (46 reads)
Hi Julia, here is a link... - by xyz23, 5/18/2013 4:26:17 PM (29 reads)
I will send you a pm! Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:46:10 PM (10 reads)

lol. Good luck with that. What makes you think she has VIP? eom - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 5:05:14 PM (15 reads)
Re: I will send you a pm! Eom - by JuliaBanks, 5/19/2013 2:31:48 PM (4 reads)

Ditto what daty and xyz said. Welcome to the site and good luck. eom - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 5:06:54 PM (15 reads)
Welcome Julia, they all gave good advise...but - by unlucky2, 5/18/2013 8:42:14 PM (42 reads)
There is a self-help link above the lifesaver on each board. Read it . . . - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:34:54 AM (8 reads)

new and seriously confused help! - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 12:49:53 AM (164 reads)

Your posts - by Businesses, 5/18/2013 1:55:41 AM (82 reads)
Welcome - by jaydalee, 5/18/2013 1:58:41 AM (57 reads)
You are moderated, as jaydalee said. - by perfectstorm, 5/18/2013 1:46:14 PM (30 reads)

Re: You are moderated, as jaydalee said. - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 3:55:22 PM (29 reads)

one or two hours - by ygbuck27, 5/17/2013 4:50:50 PM (240 reads)

TWO hours w/o question ! - by guybeingaguy, 5/17/2013 5:16:41 PM (173 reads)
1 or 2 ?????????? - by Sphinxnc, 5/17/2013 5:20:26 PM (115 reads)
I Went 2 Hours For My First - by Mr.Tennis, 5/17/2013 5:49:40 PM (113 reads)
Def 2!! - by Case321, 5/17/2013 6:56:55 PM (75 reads)
Two hours most definitely - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 7:16:08 PM (71 reads)
How much you can afford is another factor. - by HobbyCity, 5/17/2013 11:00:01 PM (67 reads)
Quality and quantity are two different things - by hiddenhills, 5/18/2013 3:52:15 AM (61 reads)
Many providers offer a 90 minute option. - by wow0315, 5/18/2013 11:56:36 AM (34 reads)
I prefer 2 hours. Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:49:46 PM (10 reads)
2hrs but it's not to establish a "connection" - by earthshined, 5/18/2013 6:56:16 PM (44 reads)
Obviously, the longer the session the more fun you will have and better GFE . . . - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:38:07 AM (9 reads)

Newbie Here! - by ElizabethScott, 5/17/2013 12:31:28 PM (157 reads)

Welcome Elizabeth!! (eom) - by riorunner, 5/17/2013 1:39:40 PM (30 reads)
Welcome Elizabeth (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:03:24 PM (23 reads)

Re: Welcome Elizabeth (eom) - by ElizabethScott, 5/17/2013 2:14:30 PM (33 reads)

Hello Elizabeth, glad you came out to play (eom) - by EasyTimes, 5/17/2013 4:57:39 PM (20 reads)
hello fellow newbooooo - by jeri.bliss, 5/18/2013 12:52:16 AM (28 reads)
Hello Elizabeth and good luck to you! - by wow0315, 5/18/2013 11:38:55 AM (10 reads)

Re: Hello Elizabeth and good luck to you! - by ElizabethScott, 5/18/2013 11:59:16 AM (15 reads)

Welcome Elizabeth and good luck to you. eom - by keystonekid, 5/19/2013 10:39:07 AM (2 reads)

Denied Appointment

- by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 10:27:06 AM (286 reads)

onto the next one - by british_ties, 5/17/2013 10:35:33 AM (127 reads)
denials - by macdaddy1944, 5/17/2013 10:41:29 AM (121 reads)
I've never been denied. But... - by xyz23, 5/17/2013 10:43:54 AM (118 reads)

Re: I've never been denied. But... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 11:42:22 AM (88 reads)

I'd say London & Jaydalee would be the best ones to listen to on this topic... - by xyz23, 5/17/2013 3:29:27 PM (55 reads)

As someone who gives more calls away, than takes them... - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 11:55:22 AM (130 reads)

Depends on what the escort says (eom) - by hiddenhills, 5/17/2013 11:05:55 AM (45 reads)

Re: Depends on what the escort says (eom) - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 11:29:35 AM (48 reads)

Was only denied once... - by Phook999, 5/17/2013 11:51:03 AM (82 reads)

Re: Was only denied once... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 1:10:01 PM (57 reads)

Denied appts... - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 1:40:22 PM (93 reads)

Re: Denied appts... - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 2:19:17 PM (42 reads)
I can't see who blacklists a guy - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 2:29:20 PM (81 reads)
Re: Denied appts... - by riorunner, 5/17/2013 2:52:19 PM (45 reads)

Re: Denied appts... - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 3:08:16 PM (50 reads)

Hasn't happened to me. - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:14:52 PM (51 reads)

Re: Hasn't happened to me. - by tarendelon, 5/17/2013 2:22:34 PM (34 reads)

Honestly i've never been denied, but.... - by unlucky2, 5/17/2013 3:31:22 PM (45 reads)
DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/17/2013 7:31:20 PM (86 reads)

Thank you!! - by tarendelon, 5/18/2013 3:52:48 AM (27 reads)
Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by London Rayne, 5/18/2013 9:09:45 AM (57 reads)

It's not naive, it's a good business practice - by MeetEricaStone, 5/18/2013 5:04:57 PM (31 reads)
Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/18/2013 9:44:00 PM (22 reads)

Re: DO NOT EVER EVER TELL THEM THEY ARE BLACKLISTED! - by Zsa_Zsa_TaTas, 5/18/2013 9:49:11 PM (22 reads)

Gosh, you are so funny. - by London Rayne, 5/19/2013 6:38:25 AM (25 reads)

Smile & Be Happy You Saved $! Chemistry is everything. Eom - by Madame Patricia, 5/18/2013 4:53:38 PM (5 reads)
Usually for someone new I would not keep trying - by earthshined, 5/18/2013 7:10:46 PM (14 reads)

Re: Usually for someone new I would not keep trying - by MeetEricaStone, 5/19/2013 9:29:36 AM (6 reads)

Stood up.....now what? - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 9:57:48 AM (149 reads)

Yup, what you said... EOM - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:07:18 AM (42 reads)
It's unfortunate, but yes, shit happens. - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:15:02 AM (69 reads)

Re: It's unfortunate, but yes, shit happens. - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:31:47 PM (32 reads)

As swim said... - by Phook999, 5/17/2013 11:48:10 AM (39 reads)

Re: As swim said... - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:34:20 PM (21 reads)

First off, I commend you for actually calling vs. just showing up. - by London Rayne, 5/17/2013 12:00:12 PM (69 reads)

Re: First off, I commend you for actually calling vs. just showing up. - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:37:31 PM (34 reads)
Amen! - by jaydalee, 5/17/2013 1:47:04 PM (32 reads)
You called & emailed her...did you text her too? - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 2:23:51 PM (36 reads)

Re: You called & emailed her...did you text her too? - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 3:50:00 PM (27 reads)

In addition, was this provider well-reviewed here or did . . . - by keystonekid, 5/17/2013 1:20:27 PM (41 reads)

Re: In addition, was this provider well-reviewed here or did . . . - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 1:44:50 PM (36 reads)

How do I upload pic - by Samantha_A, 5/16/2013 9:25:19 PM (49 reads)

The right way is to learn to do a search on this board... - by BigPapasan, 5/16/2013 10:20:29 PM (41 reads)
Also see EasyTimes reply to Cataleya below on Ad posting guidelines (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 6:40:59 AM (12 reads)
try this link - by LauraSeigal, 5/17/2013 3:09:54 PM (17 reads)

I want to chat then meet - by loaded80, 5/16/2013 7:49:41 PM (96 reads)

Yea, it's called the TER PM system. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:41:59 PM (71 reads)
Welcome to NYC. Yes, you can use the TER PM system. - by LovetoDaty, 5/17/2013 5:56:18 AM (36 reads)
If you are verified, perhaps you could go to a - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:09:57 AM (24 reads)
While you may find one that will meet for drinks, - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:17:49 AM (30 reads)

Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA

- by MsArlottePhoenix, 5/16/2013 11:00:08 AM (157 reads)

Re: Starting rates for newbies in Nj & PA - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 11:58:41 AM (85 reads)
Here's my take. You can also ask on the local boards. - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:45:33 PM (47 reads)
this is the perfect question to ask a fellow provider who is familiar with your area (eom) - by adrianamonet, 5/16/2013 2:11:26 PM (32 reads)
Charge what is comfortable to you, or ask another provider. Do not ask clients what you sould charge - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 2:47:45 PM (52 reads)

Re: Charge what is comfortable to you... - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 8:01:37 PM (51 reads)

So true - by ChinaRose, 5/16/2013 8:17:18 PM (30 reads)

FYI ... - by DerrBl, 5/16/2013 3:51:53 PM (45 reads)
starting rate - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 4:21:05 PM (45 reads)
I Usually See Between 300-400 for Philly - by Mr.Tennis, 5/16/2013 7:40:41 PM (27 reads)
In my area... - by harbor_view, 5/17/2013 10:15:42 AM (19 reads)
IMHO - by Cayden Vaughn, 5/17/2013 1:15:34 PM (18 reads)

It's my first time; how long do you you usually last for the first time?

- by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 10:54:33 AM (229 reads)

Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 11:56:58 AM (110 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:42:05 PM (109 reads)

Shit.... - by SecretMe11, 5/16/2013 4:37:13 PM (94 reads)

Re: Ease into it with lots of foreplay. Massage is always good. eom - by Jr.comeback!, 5/16/2013 12:48:58 PM (83 reads)
Like Mr. Fisher said foreplay: kissing, sucking boobs, Daty, etc. make it last! LOL! (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 1:47:44 PM (62 reads)

I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Businesses, 5/16/2013 2:34:00 PM (119 reads)

Re: I didn't cum til like my 3rd provider date - by Tallman57, 5/16/2013 3:48:26 PM (91 reads)

first time - by macdaddy1944, 5/16/2013 5:04:43 PM (95 reads)
Only once did I come very quickly. - by swimtrekr, 5/17/2013 10:22:28 AM (44 reads)
Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by keystonekid, 5/17/2013 1:23:59 PM (33 reads)

Re: Lots of variables including your age, physical condition, . . . - by Polareb, 5/17/2013 3:59:59 PM (29 reads)

ugh im so new at this!

- by THEECataleya, 5/16/2013 10:18:40 AM (116 reads)

Hi Cataleya, and welcome! - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 11:01:43 AM (56 reads)

Handling an envelope error... - by gracehadley, 5/16/2013 8:44:39 AM (261 reads)

By all means, contact him, but I have a feeling you may not hear back.... - by mrfisher, 5/16/2013 9:15:07 AM (90 reads)
First, see BadCollegeGirl's thread about half page down - by EasyTimes, 5/16/2013 9:31:02 AM (77 reads)
Alrighty, Miss Grace - by tarendelon, 5/16/2013 9:33:04 AM (71 reads)
On the day of (usually when I am giving general area) I always make SURE - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 10:20:11 AM (96 reads)
Always have dialogue - by Duplicitouslust, 5/16/2013 10:34:45 AM (52 reads)
Of course you should talk about it - by clarence37, 5/16/2013 2:47:39 PM (32 reads)
I Hate . . . - by Nolklylu, 5/16/2013 3:34:53 PM (60 reads)
Yeah, sure, I'd like 2 hours at the 1 hour rate!!! - by harbor_view, 5/18/2013 6:20:34 PM (8 reads)

Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by cooleryj, 5/15/2013 7:17:43 PM (358 reads)

Is that a real question? - by louisebellelulu, 5/15/2013 11:16:00 PM (206 reads)
in your dreams dude! - by SerenaVincente, 5/16/2013 12:55:55 AM (196 reads)

Re: in your dreams dude! - by JoeMc, 5/16/2013 2:29:18 AM (151 reads)

?? - by jjj1, 5/16/2013 2:27:09 AM (144 reads)
RE: Wondering what is extra for a PSE? - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 5:23:23 AM (130 reads)

...Adding to that.... - by nycad, 5/16/2013 6:01:34 AM (91 reads)

True PSE - by Serafima, 5/16/2013 6:07:10 AM (117 reads)

No, though you are not alone in thinking that. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:37:58 AM (102 reads)

bring a fkin camera crew for a PSE lol - by KR1000, 5/17/2013 5:55:07 AM (24 reads)

Not getting replys all of the sudden....

- by Traveler0660, 5/15/2013 6:17:11 PM (135 reads)

Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by HeathersLuv4u, 5/15/2013 9:30:53 PM (72 reads)

Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by Traveler0660, 5/16/2013 4:04:21 AM (48 reads)

Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 4:27:17 AM (45 reads)
You have NO reviews/whitelist. The pm was useless and time wasting. Do the math. - by HeathersLuv4u, 5/16/2013 2:26:42 PM (19 reads)
Re: Did you follow the procedure/instructions website? Does they website/advert - by Traveler0660, 5/17/2013 10:15:54 PM (4 reads)

Also, please read the thread on "etiquette" below. that may help.(eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/16/2013 4:22:59 AM (32 reads)
my 2 cents - by tarendelon, 5/16/2013 5:14:28 AM (40 reads)
It's possible the people you are messaging do not have VIP. - by London Rayne, 5/16/2013 7:41:43 AM (28 reads)

Old Reviews

- by samanthasexxxy, 5/15/2013 3:16:31 PM (99 reads)

Report A Problem - by Carrie Hillcrest, 5/15/2013 5:51:27 PM (36 reads)
Contact TER admin. E-mail them... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 5:57:00 PM (25 reads)
I think you need to contact them using the email address that your old account was linked to... - by natashalynne, 5/16/2013 6:40:10 AM (12 reads)

Correctamundo eom - by perfectstorm, 5/16/2013 5:00:30 PM (7 reads)

please help

- by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 12:27:20 PM (179 reads)

Give it some time. It takes a little while the first time you sign up & pay. - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:21:20 PM (54 reads)

Re: Give it some time. It takes a little while the first time you sign up & pay. - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 3:24:42 PM (48 reads)

You're welcome. (eom) - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:51:10 PM (12 reads)

I would suggest checking your email - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 3:37:13 PM (20 reads)

Re: I would suggest checking your email - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/16/2013 5:10:30 AM (18 reads)

Exactly as xyz said, it takes a little time. - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 3:39:42 PM (20 reads)
Log out and log back in. It should work. EOM - by erikabondnyc, 5/15/2013 3:58:12 PM (24 reads)
Try clearing your cookies and cache first. (eom) - by HobbyCity, 5/16/2013 1:29:54 AM (13 reads)

Reviews

- by Krystal Ready, 5/15/2013 1:12:35 PM (126 reads)

We are following the TER review guidelines. Eom - by DerrBl, 5/15/2013 2:51:16 PM (36 reads)
Krystal, check out the review guidelines... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:27:33 PM (58 reads)

Re: Krystal, check out the review guidelines... - by Krystal Ready, 5/15/2013 4:29:01 PM (48 reads)

Yeah, but don't get me started. I vowed the other day not to get into the guidelines again. LoL(eom - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 6:00:09 PM (19 reads)

Ratings are based on 2 things. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:18:57 AM (32 reads)

Re: Ratings are based on 2 things. - by KR1000, 5/17/2013 6:09:27 AM (11 reads)

Which is what I and most guys here recommend. Read the review. Not just numbers. eom - by xyz23, 5/18/2013 8:06:46 PM (5 reads)

Wow you guys... - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 12:35:58 PM (287 reads)

Dear Tobi, glad to read your post. We are all here to help one another. - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:43:19 PM (56 reads)
It's hard to believe someone as genuine as you, is really a hooker bwahahhaa. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 1:43:37 PM (78 reads)

Hahahaha I love you. -e- - by BadCollegeGirl, 5/15/2013 4:19:52 PM (24 reads)
What We Do Doesn't Define Us - by Mr.Tennis, 5/15/2013 6:10:46 PM (32 reads)

Good to hear... - by harbor_view, 5/15/2013 3:38:37 PM (36 reads)

Aww, I am about to break out in song. Breaking Benjamin, no less but still..song. E. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:28:11 PM (15 reads)

You're most welcome, Tobi. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:23:33 AM (16 reads)

new in this site

- by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 10:36:28 AM (118 reads)

Hi Brianna, - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 11:26:32 AM (72 reads)

Re: Hi Brianna, - by hot.sexy.brianna, 5/15/2013 11:51:31 AM (25 reads)

Welcome Brianna, and great advice from xyz (eom) - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:14:26 PM (16 reads)
Hi Brianna, and welcome to the best review site around. You are in good hands. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:29:20 PM (15 reads)
As usual, xyz is spot on with his advice. - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:24:55 AM (10 reads)

Etiquette - by Baroquenoir, 5/15/2013 9:41:13 AM (216 reads)

Yes it is. It is one of the main reasons for PM. If you don't hear back.... - by mrfisher, 5/15/2013 9:49:04 AM (109 reads)
mrfisher is right. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:16:36 AM (58 reads)
You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by hiddenhills, 5/15/2013 10:21:24 AM (64 reads)

Good point HH. Thanks. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:40:21 AM (31 reads)
Re: You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by macdaddy1944, 5/15/2013 10:41:36 AM (35 reads)
Also better chance of response if you use your handle & not an alias - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 12:21:00 PM (31 reads)

Another very good point. Thanks LovetoDaty. eom - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:26:03 AM (9 reads)

Re: You'll get better responses, if you've written reviews - by Baroquenoir, 5/15/2013 1:13:51 PM (29 reads)

Yes, but it might also raise red flags since you have no reviews. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 1:59:09 PM (44 reads)
Hi Baroquenoir... - by xyz23, 5/15/2013 3:46:13 PM (33 reads)

anal sex

- by SP3571, 5/15/2013 7:40:09 AM (267 reads)

She needs to seriously know what she is doing, or she can really hurt you. - by London Rayne, 5/15/2013 8:44:35 AM (189 reads)
Very good London. - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:19:16 AM (98 reads)
anal entry - by macdaddy1944, 5/15/2013 2:06:44 PM (101 reads)
Try the BDSM board. (eom) - by BigPapasan, 5/15/2013 11:19:53 PM (24 reads)

Adding to Provider Reviews - by itsacademic, 5/15/2013 7:22:47 AM (96 reads)

It is a pretty good bet they are the same... - by EasyTimes, 5/15/2013 8:25:48 AM (42 reads)
Ditto esaytimes. Also, here's a tip that may be helpful as you write your review - by LovetoDaty, 5/15/2013 9:44:42 AM (36 reads)

Re: Ditto esaytimes. Also, here's a tip that may be helpful as you write your review - by itsacademic, 5/15/2013 10:02:41 AM (28 reads)

If you submit a problem report on one of the profiles, - by swimtrekr, 5/15/2013 10:26:49 AM (26 reads)

Why are you telling the OP to submit a problem report in... - by BigPapasan, 5/15/2013 11:08:43 PM (23 reads)

Re: Why are you telling the OP to submit a problem report in... - by swimtrekr, 5/16/2013 4:32:28 AM (11 reads)

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