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qualsi49889 886 reads

posted 3 months ago

I'm not a newbie but I've encountered a situation I'm not sure how to handle.

There's a provider in my area who is 100% someone I've met in a professional context a few years ago. Is it a bad idea to book her, and if not, should I give her a heads up that we already know each other? We're not friends or anything, and we haven't been in touch outside of the work stuff. For what it's worth, she's someone who seems super friendly and good-natured, and also someone I've fantasized about before learning that she did any sex work.

impposter3 months ago51 reads

Someone I know IRL (general board)

This type of "someone I know in real life" Q comes up every now and then on the General Board. Here's one:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/any-ideas-or-advice-1016094
You can search for more.
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In general, the answers tend towards, "Stay away! Stay away!" and sometimes with added: (a) too many possible downsides (b) even in the BEST case, there are probably equivalent but less risky alternatives.
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You might want to ask this Q on General or ask TER to move it from Newbie to General.
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Good luck! Have fun!

Posted By: qualsi49889

I'm not a newbie but I've encountered a situation I'm not sure how to handle.

There's a provider in my area who is 100% someone I've met in a professional context a few years ago. Is it a bad idea to book her, and if not, should I give her a heads up that we already know each other? We're not friends or anything, and we haven't been in touch outside of the work stuff. For what it's worth, she's someone who seems super friendly and good-natured, and also someone I've fantasized about before learning that she did any sex work.