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I have talked to several providers who claim that if they see 25 hobbyists, three of them will be jerks. Extrapolating that figure to the review process means that twelve percent of a providers reviews will be bogus.

It is so disturbing to see some of the garbage some men put in a review... I can completely understand posting important info about a session if the lady did something wrong as in using fake pics or scammed you or didn't provide the services.. but for a man to stoop so low as to start saying such mean and nasty things about these women it is just terrible...Nobody has a right to cut down another human being like that...No not all women are in this hobby for the right reasons but neither are some of these men. Some nerve some of these guys have writing these reviews...If you don't like the woman who opens the door don't continue with the apt...It's that simple...Nobody is making you stay and see the lady... I love this hobby and treat each and every lady and gentleman I see with love, kindness and respect... Anybody that has ever seen me can vouch for that... I love women and men of all shapes colors and sizes... Nobody is perfect and we all deserve to be respected.. Obviously I'm not every man's type of woman but that's why we have such a wide variety of providers because there is a market for EVERYTHING!!! My rates are based off of the types of services I provide and the quality of those services as should all providers rates in my opinion. Providers have the right to price their services as they see fit. No man has the right to tell a provider what she should charge and your just wasting your time doing so because what you won't pay somebody else will...

Vixen you are a class act.  All of us who have seen you know that.  Even many of those who haven't seen you know how special you are because they have heard it from those of us who have had the pleasure of your company.  Please try not to let one person's opinion affect you.

I agree, Vixen is a CLASS ACT.. One of the best !!!

Thank you for the loving notes my sweets...You are all very special to me...and in no way shape or form will I let these lies effect me... I love this hobby too much to let one jokers falsified statements affect my Outlook of this hobby...  

Vixen, I have never met you or seen you, but know you're a classy gem of a woman just by your ads and posts!  And you're not my type, but I'd agree with everything you said, with the following add:
There's a fine line on whether honest details about any girl/session could be harmful to her business.  However, any "flaws", real or perceived, can and should be pointed out as nicely as possible.  There's no reason to be mean or hurtful in the way a reviewer states it.

Well thanks smurf that's very sweet of you...Happy first of the month everyone!!! I hope everyone has a great weekend and be safe my loves...

The review system has been grossly abused for a long time now, the abuse just makes it harder for us to stay safe.  I have been contacted by gentlemen offering to give me a good review if I drop my rate, some will offer to write the review and wait for my approval.  Of course, I deny this ridiculous offer.  Others will use reviews to threaten us saying things like "If you don't lower your rate, I'll write a bad review and ruin your business" or " If you don't do whatever act with me (something not on my menu), I will write a bad review".  To this I remind them that I have good reviews going back to 2007 on TER alone and tell them to go ahead. I'm not going to be bullied.  In any case, I report them to the site they would put the review.  There was a bad guy in my area who wrote a great review and contacted me to tell ne and asked me to give him a reference.  I refused because I've never seen him. Although the review was stellar, I contacted the website it was on and let them know it was fake.  They removed it.

Very well put becca...I have had such things happen to me as well...and i know of a couple ladies who have given fake references in exchange for fake reviews...its really sad that these women that have done that kinda thing don't really give a hoot or maybe just don't realize the danger there putting the women of the hobby in when they do such a thing...about 9 months ago I had a gentleman contact me from another site and he had 2 great references, very well known ladies in the milwaukee area..i checked out his info on this site and he had given them young ladies very good reviews so I made contact with these ladies and they both also gave him a good reference...So I proceeded to set things up with this gentleman and day and time of meeting came and everything was fine...he showed up looking very nice with a nice bottle of wine and we started to share some chit chat...at some point I asked him how long he had been hobbying for and to my surprise he said and I quote " To be honest your the first lady I have ever met". WTF!!!! I immediately told him that I wouldn't continue on with the session and he had to leave... and he was puzzled as to why and I simply told him that he falsified verification screening and I no longer felt comfortable being in his presence... After he left I contacted these ladies and they both said "well he gave me a review so I assumed I must have met him", but both of these women knew this guy's name and phone number so I still don't know what the heck was going on with that... I did contact sites and made them aware of the situation but nothing was done about it...he did not post a review of me and I haven't heard anything from him after... That was a very scary situation and luckily I wasn't at my normal incall location when I met that guy, otherwise I'd probably be paranoid now... Ladies check references, ask questions, and although there are some really great people in this hobby, there are some pretty sketchy characters as well..There are people who post both good and bad reviews so be aware...

Well stated, Becca.  Thank you (and Vixen) for sharing your experiences.  Some of the new guys may not yet know how dangerous this is to you ladies, and this should be educational as "what NOT to do".  
Dec 17 is coming.  What can hobbyists do to help?  
-smurf  

What's on Dec 17th smurf?  

International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers
Becca, is there anything going on with this?  

Much respect to you for being REAL and unafraid of these bullies!  I look forward to having the opportunity to meet you someday and offer a gentlemanly review that truly reflects what a class act you seem to be!