Newbie, trying for months to complete a date. Both ladies well reviewed. Sadly my window of time is narrow and rigid. And worse, mid-day. To complicate things I can't have any records on my cards or phone. So email is more than preferred. I ALWAYS make this known up front.  

Sorry you are having such a hard time. The first thing I would ask is where are you finding these potential dates? If you are solely using BP, in my opinion that is the majority of your problem. I know there are some gems in the rough there but I think you are better off trying to book with a well reviewed lady. If you don't have a VIP membership here, get one. You may also want to check out verification sites such as P411.

Thanks. Thought even with prepaid your info is needed.  

I find this hard to believe that both ladies are well regarded. I doubt very much they are on P411, they would get their acct suspended for that type of behavior on P411

I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you.  

Tori I understand that you're skeptical. I also share your disbelief and I was there LOL. I just rechecked. Yes both ladies are P411.  

Again much is my limitations. Sat/Sun early. Makes it tough to find someone that interests me and is available.

Thank you. Me too. I understand it's difficult to comment, if you have suggestions I would appreciate them

You are saying that you paid $600 for a 90 minute session and no services were provided ?

What are you interested in...maybe someone could point you in the right direction.  

Correct. Paid her at the bar up front. She then went to get room

Hi Vixen. At the moment someone who can show up for a date or complete one LOL.  

You got ripped off $600 and you're not going to say by whom ?

Yes. In many aspects. I have my phone records and emails. I could name her, then I run the risk of her making my home life rather more unpleasant. Part of the screening is real name, work number and such...

If this provider is on TER and has reviews, gave you the cash and dash to the tune of $600.00 and you have not heard anything from her since she has gone silent, you need to put up a review about that so others can avoid her. I have never had that happen, but if it did you can be damn sure I would post a review to inform others.

Thanks for the advice. Again I'm a total newbie. I ask you, is $600 worth being shot?

It is unlikely she would do that..

Sorry for not being specific. I wasn't referring to the lady in question. ....

She said it was included.  

Well regarded ladies wouldn't stand him up or rip him off.  

Only one has 54 reviews and 3 have 16 reviews (that is based in Milwaukee and not Chicago). Did a review search with the number of reviews in Milwaukee.

I think tori matches your description of what your interested in....
and you Damn sure wouldn't deal with no rip off bs from her... tori is a good good friend of mine and I vouche for her 1000%....

Thank you Vixen, appreciate the direction. I'm sure you're not biased at all.

Thank you for the suggestion. Considered a phone for exactly those reasons.

W O W. quite detective. Kudos. Didn't know you could search that.

Sorry. Not a VIP member, I guess I can't read the messages

Judging based on your statement,  I'm guessing you are the young lady in question?  

Kyla, seemingly so. But that advice doesn't help my question what I may have done wrong.

So you're willing to share your personal info with a provider you've never met, but not use that same personal info to obtain a prepaid credit card so you can get a room? (Do they actually require legit info to activate? I didn't know that and find it hard to believe.)

Thank you. Very much.  

Why do you think you did anything wrong? You didn't. They are responsible for their own bad behavior.  

Hope you find what you are looking ago.
 

Thank you Alexandrea

Me too. Thanks

Wow this was incredibly interesting reading. Feel for you man, however, the decent women in this hobby are never intense with you concerning the $$$. I would fully expect that anyone I would set up with, would ask for the amount to pay for the room at first - to build trust and a comfort zone. And I think the fact that you can't or won't out her is something on your part. Tough lesson learned. Very tough. Glad I haven't been there.

Kyla Lavi.  She's the only one that meets all the descriptions given.  She had 54 reviews until I recently gave her #55.  She's on P411.   Her 90 minute rate is $600.  She was in Milwaukee on the that day.  When I meet her it was very similar.  She wouldn't get a room until after we meet.  She needed the cash to get the room so I gave her the envelope.  She asked me if I wanted to wait until she was ready.  I said no and went to the room with her.  Otherwise I may have been dealing with the same crap.  

Best to get a throwaway phone that you will use excessively for this. It does not have to be connected to your real info, and as long as you use that phone for this exclusively, you can use that for checking references. E-mail is many times appreciated at first, but a phone is essential, especially on the day of for confirmation reasons, etc. I do not believe you personally did anything wrong....just met with ladies that for whatever reason, we not being professional, which is more rare when there are plenty go reviews. It is frustrating that many are timid about posting bad reviews when things go south, as this allows the lady to continue her bad behavior....but also understand one being nervous about retribution, which in itself should not be a factor. You don't provide good service or rip someone off, expect consequences. Hopefully you'll have better luck in the future, as this is not the norm in the hobby, especially when the ladies have reviews and P411 accounts.

Seems like you are P411. Get RS2K too.

Never in my life have I or would I email a damn room number. You need to get a throw away phone at walmart and make a phone call the day of for the hotel and room number where I am from, so if you are constantly being blown off it is probably because only a certain caliber of provider is going to be willing to do all you need done for a meeting. Just sayin.