Okay as a provider I guess I prefer to play it safe. I do extensive screening to make sure that I am never in danger and that the gentlemen I see are always enjoyable as well as safe. I have seen my fair share of gentlemen over the last 3 1/2 years I've been touring DC/NOVA. Not too long ago I was contacted by someone's wife pretty much saying they were caught and not to see him again, that she "was taking care of his needs as his best friend and wife". He contacts me again trying to see my friend and I several months after he is initially caught. Now, am I wrong to say no because he's already been in trouble once and I don't want to take the chance on the same thing happening? He's tried changing emails on me 2-3 times to try and get through but I keep saying the same thing! I want to know other providers and mens take on this...

and if was me, I would pass because I don't need wife's drama. Obviously he doesn't take the necessary precautions regarding discretion and privacy.  


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The wife has clearly expressed how she feels so I wouldn't contact her again. Being the dumb ass that he is, it's only a matter of time before he's caught again, hopefully the next time it will be a different lady. If the wife feels you don't give a damn about what she said to you she's gonna take that as a lack of disrespect for her and may decide to take this to another level. If she does that,believe me, you don't want that heat, it's not worth it. Cut off all communication with him and hopefully he'll find someone else and move on. Good luck babe.

I thought another lady (provider) was asking for a ok on him 😂
Thats why I said "tell the lady" (provider)

if you remain involved. Avoid this and move on, and ignore any contact you find out is from him.

I just wanted to make sure I wasn't over reacting to this kind of thing. Glad to see other ladies have my opinions! He tried to skip me and see my friend as well. Needless to say, as soon as she found out who he was, she cut that off quick too!

Pls pm the info if possible... I would not want to encounter an issue like that 👌🏼

It can do very wrong and very quickly for you!

If you told him in no uncertain terms you would not see him, then he should respect and honor your wishes

I can guess why he's so attached to ya LOL. . . but seriously Id tell him thanks for the mutual patronage but it's time to move on.  His mistake caused him a loss but not the pleasant memories that he shouldn't wanna sully.  If he was a reliable respectful client worthy of any customer service id even be willing to refer him in another direction but you certainly dont wanna hang like a bird on a wire in his wifes crosshairs when youve got plenty of less troublesome venues.  

If your intuition is telling you not to see him, then it seems like a wise choice to avoid him.

I have one client that I still see and refer post this experience.  He upped his game.  

would stop providing him service, if its causing any negative feed back, like a curious wife..
after all ' HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMEN SCORNED " ! So your Def, justified !