I am a provider and I need to know what makes good reviews exactly?  I am attractive, friendly accomidating, and inteligent. I think I provide a good service. The only thing I don't do is CIM. Last week I was SLAMMED in 2 reviews, it was humilating. Could some one please tell me what to do?  What do you look for exactly?

If you feel like you're doing the best you can, then it's a chemistry thing.  You will not connect with every man you meet.  Just have faith and keep doing a great job and things will come around.  Keep your chin up.... Of course, this is just one provider's opinion.

The review system is a boon for hobbyists. At least to the extent that it enables us to avoid rip offs, B&S, and LE.  Beyond that, some reviews, and some reviewers, prove to be more useful than others.

A savvy consumer learns that not all reviews can be accorded the same level of credence for various reasons, many of them entirely innocent.

After all, every client / provider experience is unique.

If I am interested in a lady, I read many of her reviews. Not paying as much attention to scores as to narrative details, and services offered.

I discount reviews that fall out of her norm unless they are from well established reviewers whose tastes mirror my own. In which case, I might attribute one sub par review as a bad day or simple lack of chemistry.

I also pay attention to the track record of the gents who write the reviews. One guy's 7 might be worth another guy's 8 or 9, as we all "grade" differently in addition to having different tastes.

Some gents are low scorers. Reading their reviews carefully it is not hard to determine if they simply interpret the scoring system differently,  or are overly critical, have a bad attitude, or if it is likely that they present factors that might result in their experiences being subpar.

As a provider, I don't see how you can really influence the reviews you get other than by providing accurate pictures, providing the services you claim and being specific in advance about those you choose not to offer, being outgoing and friendly, genuinely making an effort to show a gentleman a good time.

The rest of it is out of your hands, and that is how it should be for the review system to be useful.

Regaring services - the TER community is primarily oriented around the "GFE Standard". Consistent with what that standard at one time meant before it became so dilluted, I for one am looking for DFK, BBBJ (CIM preferred but not absolutely required), DATY, CFS, MSOG from a provider who seems "in the moment" and seems interested in both of our pleasures.

I can only imagine how frustrating if not humiliating it must be to have reviews written about you that "slam" you or are otherwise unflattering. I for one fully admit that I would not be able to stand that level of scrutiny.

But the bottom line is that many of the gents here are able to read reviews critically.  If you have a few reviews that treat you unfairly, most of us will discount them.

without knowing specifics, i can't comment on your case, that being said, here's what i look for:

friendly during initial communication and easy to make arrangements with, friendly at appointment (especially the beginning which often sets the tone for the rest of the time), services rendered are the same as what other reviewers have mentioned, not feeling rushed out the door at the end  - i also don't like when she begins taking other phone calls as i am getting ready to leave (although this has happened to me a few times)

just my $0.02...FWIW, you may check the other reviews these guys have given to see if they are just negative all over, or if it's just two odd cases of YMMV

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Also...Slammed is subjective...

Someone could receive a 7 or 8 and think they were slammed, but the reviewer didn't mean anything negative.  (I'm sure this isn't specific to your situation - but in general).

Recently I saw a provider and I thought she would do BBBJ and she didn't, it was CBJ that was on the menu. CBJ doesn't do anything for me so I was very disappointed and frustrated as I was going for Russian and then some face fucking, but can't do that with a cover (in my case). I didn't slammed her, but I gave her the 7 for rating, worse than that I won't be going back to see her until she puts the BBBJ on the menu

it must be very hard to read reviews of yourself. Some guys can't seem to be pleased, while others are too easily pleased. If you'd like, PM me as well and I'll try to offer insight.

I just received one from a guy I met over a month ago claiming that I am scripted and mechanical. I am still scratching my head on that. There is nothing further from the truth, but it is what he thinks, so I have to respect his opinion. He is also bashed me for calling my GF and letting her know all is ok. From what I understand most agency ladies do this and some of the indies also, so what is the problem and why make a deal about it. We are look out for each other is this wrong? So sweetheart just take it for what it is an opinion and move on, but if there is any truth to it look at it and fixit.

XXOOXX,
Apple
Your Bangkok Fantasy

The fact that you care at all makes me want to see you.

No matter how sweet you are, there will be some guys who complain because that is what they do best,they wake up every morning looking for something to complain about.. If a ladies reviews are for the most part what I am looking for ,and only  a couple of bad reviews, I ignore the bad, unless they were written by someone I consider extremely reputable with their reviews.
I recently read a review about a provider I have seen a couple times, {sorry haven't reviewed her yet} and she had a terrible review..The guy complained about her photos not accurate and other nonsense.IMO she looks more like her photos than any provider I have ever seen. I checked out his reviews and almost all of them were bad.
If your profile says no CIM that shouldn't be a reason to give a bad review just because some guy thinks you will with him..
I wouldn't worry about it since most hobbyists can tell when douche brains are writing reviews.

My reviews are very subjective. It's pretty simple, if the lady gives me her undivided attention and acts like she enjoys what she is doing I will give good marks. I don't expect a 20yo hottie to give the same BJ that a PSE lady does. You have to have reasonable expectations.
I recently had my worst time with a provider to date. She turned her head away when I tried to kiss her OUCH!
Then between rounds she turned on the tv. She had two stellar reviews prior to my visit.  Luckily my next appointment was one of the best I'd ever had so I'm okay now .
Jd

To me it all starts with the initial greeting. If the girl seems distant and businesslike then we got off on the wrong foot. A smile and a friendly nonsexual hug or lite kiss is perfect for me. Most of us read the reviews and know that anal, cim and s&m ate not options so we know what is on the menu beforehand. What leads to a bad review are the following:

1)Cigarette/bad breath
2)watching the clock
3)making me wait in the lobby more than 15 min
4)answering the phone during the session
5)unrealistic moans and screams
6)No BBJ
7)No spanking
8)No LFK
9)No fingers in the vagina
10)misleading info in ad about age, amount of tattoos, piercings, weight
11) If she has vaginal/ass odor and she turns down a shower with me.
12)rushing me out the door after sex
13)extra charges for some services like anal/cim
14)Having an attitude
15)wearing a wig, hair extensions, excess and improperly applied makeup, dirty/stinky lingerie

On a personal note to the threadstarter. Sometimes people just do not click. They can be attracted to oneanother but the chemistry is just not there and that is something that just can not be forced. If you did your part and these guys still bashed you in the reviews, then the bulk of your  positive reviews will drown out the bad ones. For future reference just avoid saying no to any reasonable request and the reviews should stay positive.

Counting money...

I've never been shortchanged by ATM machine. And on top of that I always count the money. I don't think it needs to be counted the third time - at least not in front of me.

Counting money? You always count the money but would give the provider a bad review if she does the same thing. When don't you, after you leave the envelope, go into the bathroom to wash your hands so that you wouldn't have to watch?

As for the Governor's list, although my list would be very different, I know it's a matter of preference. However, I have to say something about spanking. I didn't know spanking is so integral in the sexual experience that the lack of it warrants a bad review. I must be missing the fun.

By the way, don't you know how often providers got short-changed or not get paid? I would encourage them to count before the session starts.

Perhaps some reviewers are a little unrealistic in their expectations (including the case that Apple mentioned which review I read), I don't think many of them "slam" or "bash" the providers.

I agree, slam and bash are very harsh words. In no way should a provider be either slammed nor bashed unless she was truly egregious. On the other hand it's the obligation of the hobbyist to be as honest as possible when expressing his views of the experience he had, without being mean or spiteful.

I receive evaluations as part of my job, and at least half the time I don't even read them.  Reading reviews of one's own GFE performance must be difficult, especially if the ratings are not great.

However, without a more specific description of the "slamming" all we can offer are platitudes, which would be fairly pointless even if we knew the lady to whom we were offering them.

It really is sad to see confirmation that some guys will not be happy unless they are able to live out their porno movie fantasies.

Guys, not all women do all the things you want them to do.  If a specific thing like CIM, Greek, etc is not listed on their website, TER profile, advertising, or reviews, why do you expect that she will offer it to you?  Do you have to slam her if she says no to anything that you request?

Just because a donation is provided (that does have to be counted by the way) DOES NOT mean that they will do whatever you want however you want.  And throwing extra money their way does not mean you will get extra services.

Too often I think you forget that providers are people...not objects to do with what you will.

If you want X, Y, or Z, go to someone that advertises that...do not try to buy or coerce a lady into do something she does not want to do.

Bad review criteria, you are joking, right? She is getting the money from you, not an ATM machine. I think it extremely foolish or naive for a lady to just assume the money will be there.

Different hobbyists look for different things.  It's pointless to try and come up with some "checklist" that will guarantee a good review.  There is no such thing.
Whether you should pay attention to these bad reviews depends on what you got "slammed" for.  I would completely ignore someone who slams you for not providing a particular service.  Some hobbyists have a narrow definition of the particular acts that constitute a worthwhile experience and they've tried to graft it onto the whole board as a "standard" that any"good" provider has to meet.  As a result, the bar keeps getting raised.  Things that rated extra points a few years ago because they were the exception now rate points being subtracted if they are not provided.  If you are not comfortable doing something, you shouldn't do it.  No "good" review is worth taking risks you are not comfortable taking.
On the other hand, if you were slammed for having a bad attitude, hygiene, lateness, or some other objectively negative factor, that's something you should pay attention to.

...And just provide the service that you provide as who you are.

Every consumer wants what they pay for but some people take this review business of prostitutes way too far.

reasonable requests are expected. I was with a provider who I gave a 9/6 to because every other word out of her mouth was NO. We have our wives to say NO to us, so we expect at least an OK here and there from a girl we are paying $300 per hour.

I asked this girl to shower with me because it was over 95 outside and she was a little stinky. She said No. Then I asked for 69 and she said NO, I asked about spanking her and again NO, I asked her to do some sexual poses on the bed like spreading her labia or sticking her butt up in the air and she said No. All she wanted to do was kiss litely and do mish. While in Mish I asked her if we could do something else like CG or RCG and she said no. I left at around the 40 minute mark because I just could not take her attitude. As I was walking out the door she tried to pull me back in and hug me. I told her i had to go. Then she asked if I was going to come back and see her. Go figure.

To me every one of these requests were reasonable. I know many girls dont enjoy the taste of cum or anal and I never went in expecting that. Notice I said the word reasonable.

Lets face it. A provider is supposed to provide a service. As a person who is in the service industry, I know that sometimes I have to do things I don't want to. Unfortunately, that is my job and if I want to get paid then there is no alternative. This is where TER comes in handy.

With your wants and needs I'm sure that the ladies are lining up to repeat with you.  They may seem minor to you, but not to a lady.

$300/hr is an average rate.  You are expecting ladies to "do things they don't want to" for $300?  Come on.

You are the kind of customer that ladies wish never showed up.