Washington DC

workplace information
ttcttc 138 Reviews 1038 reads
posted
1 / 20

Was just rejected by a provider because I would not provide workplace information.  

I totally respect her right to be comfortable with me as a client, but I was surprised, as I am on p411, have several confirmations there, have a bunch of reviews up here, and can and did give her several other well-known references she could call or contact.  

Anyway, that's water under the bridge.  But it made me curious -- do other people provide workplace information to providers?  I figured I did that once on p411 and won't ever do so again.  Seems way too risky to me.

JoeMc 78 Reviews 472 reads
posted
2 / 20

I have- never heard anything about it- they probably just call to see if you actually work there- or look up the directory on the internet-  generally the less information you give the better-  but I understand on their end also that they need to do some screening to protect themselves

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 528 reads
posted
3 / 20

I have been hobbying over 11 yrs, and never gave out my work place info once..

IP_Tracing 514 reads
posted
4 / 20

I never give anything directly tied to me, other than maybe a digital trail based on the devices I log into my e-mail with, but that is just part of the game.

Make up the first name, no last names ever, secondary e-mail address, burner phone, nothing else, period.  Once one gets the foot in the door, a few references should be all that is required. If that isn't enough, I'm moving on.  Not worth providing information that can be used maliciously, unnecessarily.  These gals do not provide any of their personal info.  Equal Equal. It's a masquerade game.

Peppermint 516 reads
posted
5 / 20

and I didn't like doing it...but sometimes a certain lady will require it and if you really want to see her...well then you have to make that choice.  Obviously use your brain and only give it to someone who is highly and well reviewed.  

Haven't had to do it in years though, as most of my references are well known

Peppermint 467 reads
posted
6 / 20

A provider has a bit more to worry about when it comes to safety, hence why they may require more info from you when screening.  Not too many stories of hobbyists getting killed, beaten, or raped during an appointment.  

 

 

 
Posted By: IP_Tracing
I never give anything directly tied to me, other than maybe a digital trail based on the devices I log into my e-mail with, but that is just part of the game.  
   
 Make up the first name, no last names ever, secondary e-mail address, burner phone, nothing else, period.  Once one gets the foot in the door, a few references should be all that is required. If that isn't enough, I'm moving on.  Not worth providing information that can be used maliciously, unnecessarily.  These gals do not provide any of their personal info.  Equal Equal. It's a masquerade game.

Deen 605 reads
posted
7 / 20

appointment book on a coffee table in front of me while she went to the bathroom.  I did not touch it, but it did impress on me that "confidential" might not mean what I thought it means.  I assume that once you give screening info to a provider, she keeps it forever, but how safe is it? Apparently all providers do not follow an Official Industry Code of Confidential Information Custodianship.....

godsgift 431 reads
posted
8 / 20

Relative newbie.  Seems to be that the risk associated with sharing information is too great. Pick a few trusty ladies that don't ask for much in terms of screening and make the ride.  Helpful stuff everyone. Thank

yon 53 Reviews 440 reads
posted
9 / 20

Client may not get killed, beaten, or raped (or perhaps they can as that poor sap in Philly), but their entire life can be ruined by carelessness or malicious act by a provider.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 381 reads
posted
10 / 20

....naturally every individual ladies' perogative but recent reviews+recent p411 okay I could double-check with+additional provider references I could also check with sounds like plenty to me though lol.

earthshined 363 reads
posted
11 / 20

why take a chance she'll "lose" the info or worse, use it against you.  

Posted By: ttcttc
Was just rejected by a provider because I would not provide workplace information.  
   
 I totally respect her right to be comfortable with me as a client, but I was surprised, as I am on p411, have several confirmations there, have a bunch of reviews up here, and can and did give her several other well-known references she could call or contact.    
   
 Anyway, that's water under the bridge.  But it made me curious -- do other people provide workplace information to providers?  I figured I did that once on p411 and won't ever do so again.  Seems way too risky to me.

polexx 25 Reviews 419 reads
posted
12 / 20

I agree xnyong, a provider I saw once accidentally emailed me one of her potential client's info, it included his name, address and employment information.

bestadviceever 430 reads
posted
13 / 20

I understand there have been issues with P411 and DC in the past.

I'm not at all concerned about an established provider being malicious with info I may give. However, once that info is out I don't have control over it; and I'm very uncomfortable with that. Therefore, I won't give personal info out to a provider.

If a lady wants me to provide that information I will respectfully decline. Just as it is up to the provider to decide what screening information she needs to verify a client, it's up to me to decide what information I'm comfortable providing.  

Now if someone wants to quickly glance at my ID when I arrive I wouldn't have a problem with that. But sending someone that information over the internet is another story-I will not do that.

Just my two cents....

vanco 10 Reviews 386 reads
posted
14 / 20

I think a hobbyist could very easily end up getting beaten or killed. If you are going into an intimate situation, the potential for danger is on both sides.  
I think it's funny that many providers want your personal info, but won't give theirs. I suppose it's their way of maintaining some degree of control of the situation, but when you think about it, if both people have equal info, it's a mutually assured destruction sort of thing and would likely not cause problems.

Posted By: Phooka
A provider has a bit more to worry about when it comes to safety, hence why they may require more info from you when screening.  Not too many stories of hobbyists getting killed, beaten, or raped during an appointment.  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
Posted By: IP_Tracing
I never give anything directly tied to me, other than maybe a digital trail based on the devices I log into my e-mail with, but that is just part of the game.  
     
  Make up the first name, no last names ever, secondary e-mail address, burner phone, nothing else, period.  Once one gets the foot in the door, a few references should be all that is required. If that isn't enough, I'm moving on.  Not worth providing information that can be used maliciously, unnecessarily.  These gals do not provide any of their personal info.  Equal Equal. It's a masquerade game.

yon 53 Reviews 375 reads
posted
15 / 20

Philadelphia Police say a pimp and two prostitutes killed a Northeast Philadelphia man, chopped up his body and tossed it into the Schuylkill River after a botched robbery

earthshined 332 reads
posted
16 / 20

this doesnt stop that from happening does it? isnt it too late?

gotta be a better way. references?
Have you ever heard of a whitelisted hobbyist robbing,raping or killing a provider?

 
Posted By: Phooka
A provider has a bit more to worry about when it comes to safety, hence why they may require more info from you when screening.  Not too many stories of hobbyists getting killed, beaten, or raped during an appointment.  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
Posted By: IP_Tracing
I never give anything directly tied to me, other than maybe a digital trail based on the devices I log into my e-mail with, but that is just part of the game.  
     
  Make up the first name, no last names ever, secondary e-mail address, burner phone, nothing else, period.  Once one gets the foot in the door, a few references should be all that is required. If that isn't enough, I'm moving on.  Not worth providing information that can be used maliciously, unnecessarily.  These gals do not provide any of their personal info.  Equal Equal. It's a masquerade game.
-- Modified on 11/27/2013 10:18:12 AM

leamadisson See my TER Reviews 416 reads
posted
17 / 20

I usually only do workplace info as part of the screening for a newbie!  Bottom line is that any time information is exchanged there is always a risk.

But a provider who has a stellar reputation and wants to keep that reputation is very careful with the information she gets. If she isn't careful and discreet then she won't last long!

If I do get personal info such as work info, once I am done with it, I delete it. No need to keep it!

The one thing consistent about the hobby is that no one does anything consistently the same as the other! LOL

Smooch!

Lea

MatureCompanion See my TER Reviews 347 reads
posted
18 / 20

Providing your work and RW personal info to p411 was once TOO many! GLWT

I don't accept work info/no work email either. (no exceptions).
Nor do I understand how garnering ones workplace information, can tell a lady HOW that guy *behaves with a lady when behind LOCKED doors??????* No amount of work info can ever tell a lady that.
ONLY provider references/feedback from ladies he's seen. Can tell another lady, how the guys behaves and or if he's kind and respectful BCD.

Everyone should have HOBBY related info. (email/phone and references). Never give out your work/personal information. sorry...but no amount of sex/companionship with a woman is worth handing over such personal info.   (think with the big head, guys)!!
Posted By: ttcttc
Was just rejected by a provider because I would not provide workplace information.  
   
 I totally respect her right to be comfortable with me as a client, but I was surprised, as I am on p411, have several confirmations there, have a bunch of reviews up here, and can and did give her several other well-known references she could call or contact.    
   
 Anyway, that's water under the bridge.  But it made me curious -- do other people provide workplace information to providers?  I figured I did that once on p411 and won't ever do so again.  Seems way too risky to me.

junglegym25 19 Reviews 277 reads
posted
19 / 20

EVER give my work info if I already had legit references and belonged to a verification service with Okays. No chance. On to the next one.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 277 reads
posted
20 / 20

Google Palfrey and also Frederick, MD Potts under the term escorts/prostitution/ escorts.

I doubt many throw out your information even though they say they do - why would you do that as a provider in case something goes wrong?  You want evidence to protect yourself.  Not saying right or wrong, just some perspective.

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