Just having turned 41, guess I qualify to answer!!!  If you are afraid of being put off by someones age, don't do it!!!!  If you are judging someone by their age, don't bother! Not doing anyone a favor!!!  Wait until you are old enough to appreciate a woman regardless of her age!!  Just my 2 cents worth

Hey all,

I have seen a few younger providers (20-30), and a couple of more mature providers (30s), but I'm thinking of booking with my first true mature provider (40-45). I'm 33 so this is new to me.

Any tips? I'm a horny bastard and this lovely woman is apparently very attractive and has great reviews (local gal), but I'm worried I might be too hung up on the age. Any tips on how to get over this hang up? I'd really like to make my time with this woman special and not ruin it for her either. I'd also appreciate any thoughts you may have on your experiences with older providers.

Thanks for the feedback!

Men seek certain characteristics that turn them on, such as physical attributes and race.  Age is just another attribute that happens to appeal to you.  I would think that it wouldn't be a turn-off for her; would she be turned off if you had a thing for attractive Asians or large breasts?  Enjoy and don't worry about it!

I like to spend time with women who are in their 30s and 40s because they are close to my age.  My time with a woman usually includes something in public and I don't want the world to think that I'm robbing a cradle, dating a gold digger, etc.  Plus, think of the experience she has picked up over her years!  Definitely pays off.

Angelina,

It's not that I don't appreciate the beauty of older women. I absolutely love them! In fact there's a sexy-looking 48 year old at work whose ass I...ok, never mind.

But seriously, I've never been intimate with an  older woman, so I guess I'm just nervous about it. What are some of the things that a more mature provider excels at? Perhaps I should focus on those qualities?