What women want is to be in charge (at those times when they want to be in charge) and to feel feminine at the same time.

Too many men think this is impossible.  But it's not.  
 

Everyone: When I say "in charge", I'm not talking about in bed, although it could include that too.  I'm talking mostly about the non-sexual aspects of a relationship

We are very contrary creatures. We want a man to be a 'real' man and take charge when we want him to get all masculine but we also want to be in control of things. In my relationships if the man defers to me and my needs and demands too often I start losing interest and respect, but if I went out with a really dominant man it would annoy me being told what to do and controlled - lads can't win

That relationships are 75% between both people, and 25% separate lives.

A huge thing for me is compromise, consideration, and consent.
Ive never found anyone I want to really be in a relationship with, though, so I have no formal experience lol

XDOG!!!