I will try to keep this short, but I don't think I can. Lately, I have wanted to see a few ladies but am becoming aggravated by the amount of info needed: Full name, employer, employer #, etc. Now, I am no senator, but I also don't work construction for a living, and therefore am reluctant to give any employer info out.

  That said, why do so many providers and agencies seek out so much info? I think my frustration has more to do with having seen a bunch of providers already, and being a VIP on here for instance, that I am still asked to fill out forms. WHY??!! I have already done my time in seeing girls, filling out honest reviews, etc.

  One problem I see is that agencies do not want to white-list you nor act as a reference. Why would they? They want you to see only their girls. However, I'd like to think there should be some etiquette (I scratch your back, you scratch mine) that would help out the guys.

  I have passed on a lot of girls (agency as well as indy) that insisted on their forms vice a membership here, and it's simply getting furstrating lately!!!

  Your thoughts?

and if it's not good enough for them, move on.

There are plenty of delightful and very high end providers who will see you if you have an established review history, perhaps a few white listings, and can add date-check or preferred411, without intrusive screening.

Also - why not use date-check and preferred411 as "escort malls" and shop there? The ladies who advertise there are *supposed* to accept these sits as verification (not all do) but at least it give you the option of contacting them *from* those sites and bypassing their contact forms.

While I agree with some of your frustration I think some of it you should re-evaluate. For instance, I do not know about all agencies but the agency you used in your most recent review has always been great about giving references to other agencies and indys. Incidentally maybe you should re-evaluate your own screening, 2 reviews back I did chuckle when you stated you called one lady and found her to be 'totally illegit' because some guy answered the phone? Many reputable providers use male screener/bookers.

The fact that you have a VIP here does not mean squat with most ladies - every undersirable known also has a VIP here, and maybe the handle you give is not really yours...happens alot. Most ladies have contact forms to cover all the bases to verify you with even if you have no references. I dare say with most ladies if you fill out the form to include your real name and great references most will not be concerned about where you work. Also as GTM pointed out joining DateCheck or P-411 would solve all such problems, again once you have references on there.

Last, I must say, if a lady agreed to see me without knowing my real name and took it for granted that my handle is in fact WT-101 I would be very worried.

I recently went through screening with a well known local indy lady.

She asked for references. I expected it, but all I could give her were several of the agencies I have used.

When she checked, two responded with the "do not know him". Both are suggested through this board to be linked in some way. Luckily for me, the third cleared me.

Not sure all parties "referenced" above get it that screening safety benefits the community...

Hey...

I'll take care of you again!    

You mean Wild Turkey 101 isn't your real name?  To think...I was gonna change my name to Smurfette 101 just to make you feel special!

Of course, that's what I tell all the guys...

Oh, and what is this safety thing?  I just put up a form to slow down the traffic a little...I don't expect it to be real info!  This little three apples of happiness will take care of all comers!

LOL...

With that said...I think it's extremely important to respect a ladies requirements for screening.  Realize that making an appointment anywhere requires some sort of validation and reassurance.  It's even more important in this facet of life as who knows what might happen if they don't screen.  

If a guy doesn't want to be screened, more often than not it's because he has qualities that are undesirable to a lady (to put it lightly)...so why should she risk her safety?