Four weeks ago, I made an appointment with this provider through P411. Since then she had cancelled on me four times, and rescheduled thrice (she initiated the rescheduling each time). On top of that, she always cancelled on the night before our appointment so I couldn't even find a decent backup. I was going to move on after the third cancellation, but she swore it will not happen again. Last night, she did it again. She told me she has some family problem that she has to take care of right away and won't be back until Friday (she told me she was sick twice before). Each time, she would tell me she will make it up to me (famous last words). I finally concluded that she is either unreliable or has some real issues. Either way, it is no good so I told her to forget the whole thing. The funny thing is she was online on P411 around 11 am today and read my PM while she was suppose to be taking care of family problem (our cancelled appointment was originally scheduled at 12:30 pm).

I believe that, in a court of her peers, she would be found guilty of grossly misleading you, willful deceit and inexcusable provider etiquite as well as just plain jerking your chain
I'm glad you will provide her name privately to those interested, me included
Cudos for not outing her but we will soon learn her identity through PM
Seems to me you should take her up on her offer to 'make it up'
If she accepts you can set terms.  
If I were you, that would be a two hour session. I would insist first hour at 50 percent and second hour gratis to assure you understand she means business.  
You are a gentleman to persist with her and not out her  
You are also prolific reviewer.  
It seems she is in a perfect position to assure there are no further misunderstandings

Seriously. Guys make the BL for less.

but you seem to be a sucker for pain.  Why did you ask to see her again after the second time she cancelled on you?  Just move on dude.

No excuse for rescheduling, even if she gave you a 75% discount. She obviously has no respect for your time and may have previously done the same to other hobbyist. You need to name her so she does not do this to other hobbyist. It should goes both ways for hobbyist and providers, this is what TER is for.

The provider in question has excellent reviews.  I have seen her myself and she is an absolute charm.  I am sorry that this situation has occurred with the OP, but I do not believe it is representative of who she is and the service she offers.

If you want to be with her very much, then be patient.

We can sugarcoat all we want but this is essentially a cash for sexual service business. There is a cliche: I will beg for sex, I will pay for sex, but I will not beg to pay for sex. I think this applies in my situation.

You said she canceled the night before her appointments with you so at least it's not an hour before the appointment. And maybe she was sick twice. Since Christmas night I have been sick three times with a cold, chest congestion and a sore throat. It's that lovely time of year and this year many colds and viruses are going around.  

Of their schedules. Or some take care of their kids and when the kid gets sick they have to deal with it. I know it sucks and I for one will Stick to my schedule unless I am sick or say I have a trip planned and all but one canceled. It has happened. We just never know what really is going on and when it's Pay 4 Play it doesn't guarantee anything.    

With your chest a chest cold can be a significant event.