Why is it that some guys get offended or upset that they are being asked to take a quick shower upon arrival? Why wouldnt you want to be shower-fresh when dealing with your lady friend? Please shed some light on this issue for me...

I always take a shower when I get to an appt. whether I had just showered before I left or not.

If they are dirty, you should ask them to clean up. I, personally, head to the shower first even before touching the girl.

Don't worry about offending them, when their dick starts talking, they will come back to you

Be good now !!!

i.e., you require a quick shower at your location (no exceptions) before the appointment starts.

If someone is offended by that...

in the summer/hot months yes.Otherwise  I ask her.

....I generally make my appointments with you beautiful ladies for early or mid mornings, meaning I was just coming out of the shower within the past hour or two.  As such, I would be quick to make that point to you in the kindest way, and if you still expressed a preference then  (a) I certainly would not argue, I mean YMMV applies to every date even with established provider-hobbyist relationships and the last thing I want is you pissed off at me and (2) won't you please join me and help me get clean?

I mean, win-win doesn't get any more winningly that that!



If he doesn't want to follow your rules send him home, you don't "owe" any of us anything sweetie.  Of course this ain't your 1st rodeo Angelina and you already knew that!

Now let me turn the spotlight back toward you, beautiful lady.  Given that my appointments tend to be early, I have dropped my hesitation to ask you ladies to not shower until after I leave.  Of course I want your lady parts fresh, but I enjoy the natural scent of a lady tremendously.  So far, 3 for 3, and all three have also agreed to not put on any perfume for the same reason.  Heaven on Earth  discovered!     How would you react?

After decades of having women tell me "why don't you just communicate with me", I have finally figured it out.   I communicate my needs, recognize yours. and they get met.  Unless you are the wife .

 

I usually shower before leaving to see a lady.  When I get there I usually use the bathroom to freshen up.  I feel much cleaner using my own soap, and shampoo than what is provided most of the time.

If I've been working and haven't had a chance to shower before coming over - I use the facilities provided.

Now if you wanted to join me in the shower, that's a whole other story.

I didn't see that you requested that gentlemen shower after entering on your site before I originally responded.  I'd respect your request to shower in your presence.  



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and maybe they are!  But some guys are a bit too sensitive on this point.    

It is possible you are saying it the wrong way but I doubt it.  it is more likely that  the problem is on their end.

....that's what you should tell them.
"I'll lick them with as much gusto as they're clean". They'll come back with the cleanest balls you've ever sucked, massaged and/or licked on.

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I always take a shower right before leaving for my date and when I arrive if the she ask me to take a quickie, I have no problem with showering again.  The way I see it, the more comfortable she is................it is a WIN WIN for both.

I've moved to only scheduling morning appointments, so I typically see a girl about an hour or two after my morning shower. But I probably spent most of that time siting in traffic or on the metro, and some crotch sweat is bound to build up. It wouldn't hurt to make sure that area is fresh and clean before playtime starts.

Plus it gives the girl a chance to check the donation, if they feel so inclined, or check in with a handler or whatever. Maybe these guys are concerned about losing part of their time to re-clean? It's maybe 8-10 minutes, a negligible amount of time for an hour long session, and most girls don't mind if we run over by a few which makes up for it.

I dated a girl a few years back that insisted I wash my hands before I play with her, saying she was highly prone to getting UTI's if she wasn't obsessive about keeping herself clean. One time I didn't, and it proved her right.

AS others have noted, if I see you in the am after I just showered I don't seek to shower again, but if you ask me I will gladly do so.  All I ask is that there be a clean dry towel available - I hate it when you shower before/after the session and there is no towel or just a damp, clearly used towel available.  I think if your going to be high enough volume that the supply that comes with the room is not enough, you should eithr bring extra or tip the cleaning staff for extras.

The guys don't want to waste any moment of time... they think the shower is some sort of rip off factor and that the provider just wants to minimize exposure to the client... even though this has been hashed out over and over again the guys just wont even understand that

a) the provider wants to freely go where you want them too without being grossed out
b) it does give the provider a small window to make sure a new client isn't a problem (i.e. has the donation right or other factors)
c) it gives the provider a chance to change (this is good for security reasons, providers should answer the door in street clothes and only change into "Costume" when you are showering)

I do get the odd reaction when I mention I am taking a shower "Really?", "or wow thanks" so it is no surprise that this problem still exists...

2 pennies

most of the time men dont smell too fresh down there, even if they claim to have showered there's always a sweaty scent.

i can understand just coming from work or running errands - but if a girl request you to shower, dont be offended be understanding & follow through with request bc us girls always follow through with requests from the men.

i find that mostly the guys that DO NOT man scape smell stronger to me - i assume all the hair retains smells and dirt and such. tips for gents: shave, shave shave! it's healthier too bc hairs down there will give you a higher risk of catching an STD or spreading an STD. just saying..

plus i know every girl loves a scented cock! LOL i love when im surprised with a great smelling cock - it's so damn sexy to have a clean, shaved and well scented cock in your face! :P


just my two scents!

what about after they shower at your place?

Then yes you should smell better lol

Well there is an old saying that says: "...not everyone was raised by your mother!"

Maybe its just me but I shower before I leave my home headed to meet a provider and I shower to rinse off upon arrival. Not to many women I known want to smell or lick sweaty balls. And since I love my providers to be GFE, I dont want to smell sweaty balls on her face when we kiss.

There is no excuse for not showering as my father always told me: "...you are the last one to know you smell"!

I ask because I cant take as good of a shower like I can at home.