Ok, this has been on my mind for quite a while. I'm still new to the whole hobby thing, only having had a few experiences, and I'm a pretty young guy in comparison to most other hobbyists I've met/talked to. I'm 25. I know, I shouldn't have a problem meeting girls at my age, but I'm a kind of nervous guy around pretty gals. I usually clam up unless I really feel comfortable, or I'm drunk.  
Anyways, back to the point of this post: do providers feel that young guys (my age) aren't good clientele? I've had a few tell me that they won't/don't usually take under 30 clients. Is that normal or do I just have that kind of luck?  

Also, I'm looking to make a connection with a provider for a monthly, maybe bi-monthly regular situation. I'll be hey to expand on that in PMs if interested.  

Thanks!

I'm just speculating on this as I've never discussed it with a provider and I'm not a long time hobbits. I would suspect that a number of them are hesitant for two primary reasons. 1) under 30 you might be more likely to confuse the fantasy relationship with something real and not have the emotional experience to manage such feeling correctly. 2) For locals, and especially younger providers, there might be an increased risk that social circles might overlap and create both an awkward and risky situation. (Though in thinking about this that logic should apply to other providers too -- do the 30 - 40 providers be more likely to seek 55+ clients? Or maybe the under 30?

Who pay up.  Money is quite important in this business.  

If you're not an egotistical and cheap a hole treating them like second class citizens,  my guess is you'd have no problem

How do I know? Because I used to be one. I started hobbying at the age of 21. So when the ladies say that they don't see young guys, its for a reason. That's the primary reason. There are secondary and tertiary reasons as well. Why are you nervous? Do you really think the girl who is already nervous about meeting someone new, as women are at more risk than us guys, is  not going to  freak out  A little bit of butterflies in the stomach is normal, but if you are nervous to the extent that you can't function as a human being, you probably need some medical attention. I don't know the extent, and I am not a Doctor, and don't play one on TV either

Now to the reasons of seeing someone over a certain age. If you ask me, maturity is a function of age, experience and of course there is a certain level of innateness - as there is with everything.  Most of the the times experience comes with age, so choosing business out of a pool where they will get the best results is something they would rather do.  

Trust me. There are exceptions to every rule. There are plenty of 50 yr old goofballs, who will never show an iota of maturity, and lot of younger guys who would. I was a goofball when I started at 21, but I learned quick. And in the old days, we didn't have a lot on the Internet. We made use of little bit what we had.  

Also, the older guys have more disposable income. So they can spend more money on the girls.  Another reason is if they are married, and about 60% are (figures given to me by a well known ex-provider herself), they are less likely to seek affair. They already got one at home, why do they need 2nd one right?  

For all these reasons, seeing older guys make more sense than seeing younger guys...

That being said, don't get discouraged. There are plenty of gals who will see you if you have good references.  

Trust me.. Girls don't bite.. The pretty ones definitely don't.    

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One of the reasons a female provider wouldn't see young guys under 30 is because  
they just want to do it for the whole hr and that drain them leaving them tired for other appointments.  
Some providers may not mind that so you can just find the right one.

Now let me ask you, what is a young guy like yourself hobbling when you are young  
and have the change to date young girls? I am not trying to judge you but just to understand why you  
have opted to date providers instead.

Even in dating world, you can't have promiscuous sex with random girls unless you are some rock star or athlete. This world allows us to do the same. Not putting words in OP's mouth, and he can certainly opine, just giving my two cents.

To understand new social behaviors. Things today are not the same as back in the day.
Understanding how society currently behaves is part of keeping oneself updated knowing what's going on.  
I don't really care about his specific situation but just an opinion.  

Here you are actually giving me a reason and that is in the dating world you may not really have the chance to  
have sex with random girls as in the hobbling one.

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True...  
I would also think that because when dating even when not being young one goes straight to the point
with the provider rather than having to spend hours going out then dinner and FINALLY having sex...

Being that I am younger than 25, I was initially hesitant about younger clientele... Our closeness in age troubled me in case of misconceptions on their part. But having met with younger gents I have no problem meeting younger hobbyist now. Many I've noticed are great guys. Many in the military or just exceptionally busy with beginning a career. Reasons aside, my perfernce is a good guy, and that's all.
I like to communicate and get to know each other a bit before we meet, and if there is a good connection and maturity is shown in your emails/phone conversation, then what does age matter?
Of course references from reputable providers help as well.

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First off, thanks everyone for your feedback.  

1) As to why, well I'm kind of shy meeting girls. The whole making the move thing and all. I'll work on that.  

2)I can understand the immaturity and lack of income well enough. I like to think I'm a mature adult, more so than some of my friends my age. I've travelled the world fairly extensively for work and have been forced to grow up rather fast, shouldering far more responsibility than most.  As for money, thankfully I have a pretty decent job which allows me to have some disposable income.  

3) Yes, I can definitely see the whole "my circle overlaps your circle" awkward thing.  

4)The reason I hobby? Honest answer, I enjoy sex. That's it. Spending time with a beautiful woman making love is just fantastic. I think we can all agree on that. As for going the whole hour, as a younger man I probably could, but I'm courteous to know that not everyone has superhuman stamina. And of course I don't have expectations of a full hour of going at it.  

Again, thanks everyone for the feedback. It's appreciated! I'm a lot less discouraged now than before I initially posted.

Cause in places with strip clubs it's a lot if young guys throwing ones at girls and buying lap dances and consequently getting extras.  

Hell, these strippers are actually running in the same circles and got twitter accounts and dudes tricking on em. When I was 19 strippers gave out contact info for hanging out/come to my party and that was 8-12yrs ago for me.  

You got young dudes in every other rap song talking about strippers and spending money on them which is the same difference. You see these athletes always getting strippers prego and being in relationships.  

And young celeb dudes that you think could have any woman are buying girls like Jenna Shea and hollering at her on twitter. I don't know how well she would do financially w/o her young clientele.  

#reality

Actually athletes and celebs make up the clientele of high end/priced escorts more than you can imagine. Trust me that for NBA all star weekend providers will be scheming with the regular women in New Orleans so to speak. In 2014 it ain't tricking when ya got it...it's a new day.  

"all my exes live in texas like i'm george strait
or they go to georgia state where-
tuition is handled by some random ***** that live in atlanta
that she only see when she feels obligated" --- Drake ---

Drunk girls off the beer pong table don't require dinner. The thing is you can't keep making booty calls without the relationship if you enjoy the sex. In the hobby you can see the same girl over and over for sex without the relationship.

I doubt if any one will believe anything you have to say.

Hi smittykane. I am 25 years old and I entered the hobby recently. I am also shy and introverted by nature so its more difficult for me to communicate with people than the average person. If I want sex, I do not want to waste my time going through the charade getting to know a girl. I find most girls my age to be utterly boring and unintelligible. They are often bad at sex (I'm not saying I'm good either lol) as well and I prefer someone with experience. All the providers I have been with have no problems with me and the older ones respected my age and my experience with them (the oldest I look for is probably 30ish). It shouldn't be a problem if you are a nice person and act nice. You sound very mature from your post.