I have always enjoyed using toys for vaginal and/or anal play during DATY.  Two part question....

1. Anyone provide as part of "regular" activities or is that and "add-on"?
2. What is the best way to request such activity prior to session....is there a code word that is considered safe to use (instruments, props, etc)

Thanks ladies!

(1) I keep a few toys within reach.  Sometimes it feels spur of the moment and I'll grab one when I'm in the right mood.  Sometimes, I do so at the request of my friend.  Sometimes my friends will bring me a new toy still wrapped in it's original box.  It's never an add on.

(2) Sometimes, it's best to ask such questions after you've visited with a lady.  No safe word needed there.  At the very least, ask after you've been verified.

I like to keep a few for myself and others...like it when a friend has their own as well especially if they have cleanliness concerns.  I know that I maintain mine hospital clean, but nothing wrong with surprising me with a new one as a gift or to use in a personal time with one if that is a concern for the gent.

Some say it looks like I brought the whole toy store with me...LOL