putting it in the Review Field is not a great idea.
That review field is set by the first person who reviews the girl, and it stays that way, unless of course, the lady is savvy enough to get it changed by reporting it to TER. So if the first guy who writes her review picks "Don't know", it will stay like that unless she goes and proactively changes. Trust me, very few ladies are savvy.
There are sections of the Profile page that, you and I, the hobbyists, can change too. But that requires solid proof. I have been able to change benign things like hair color, tattoos vs no tattoos etc by reporting it to TER. But this is a little touchy. So unless there is a solid proof, TER may not even consider your request. So, if there is solid evidence that she will only see white guys, go by what's on the website.
I feel your frustration. Being a minority myself, I always take responsibility that she knows that I am not white. I usually get funny responses like "I am not a hater" or "I am very very open minded as I lived in [insert big city name here] area", "I am not a redneck" etc. Then I have to explain my rationale behind telling her beforehand. Its an extra step, but I'd rather take it than have uncomfortable exchange at the door.
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