Don't know why that happened, but it did.

with so little time, this crazy weather, work needs to be tended to before the busy season hits, new projects take away money from hobbying, partying takes away from hobbying, going out takes away from hobbying... what to do.. when do the yummy ladies come back to tempt me to play?
just rambling. what do you folks do in your spare time for fun (other than ya know ya know)

ladies and gents alike feel free to answer.

me?= new toy for summer. meaning i need to run it ragged until it gets cold.

1. Safety:

Most of MD hotels are off limits.
Many Tysons Hotels may also be risky.

2.Agencies are risky, +high volume companions

3.Indies have become overpriced IMO @ 300-500/hour, with many on the high end of that scale for appearance/value.

4.Traffic, parking etc. etc.

Price increases suggest a better economic recovery than is really happening.  Escorts need to get to the $300 or lower range.

I save my money and go overseas now.  I take long weekends in South America and the Caribbean.  One or two longer trips a year will be to Thailand, Germany (occasionally Netherlands for the day while I'm in northern Germany), or Poland.  In tend to have better sessions since these areas are more liberal and I get the added benefit of a vacation!

Caribbean is my current go-to short term get away.  It's not a hard flight, the beaches are nice, and I can spend 2 to 4 hours with a lady in her mid to late twenties for under ~$40-$60 U.S.; I can get her for the entire day for around ~$120 if I like her.  What you get for that depends on your charisma, how well you establish expectations BEFORE you commit and how well you picked your lady.

BTW, ANYTHING you want to do; you can do it in Germany at a reasonable price.  Hell, there is a place that hold Gang Bangs every damn day if you are into that.  All you need to do is be respectful and behave yourself or some REALLY big guys will throw your ass out.  I got thrown out after about 30 minutes because it became clear I was not going to participate.  I did not argue and did NOT ask for a refund.  The ladies were nice but older, most were German, spoke passable English, and did not appear to be coerced.  FKKs are also a nice way to wile away an afternoon.   It's all readily available and legal.

I don't find DC to be that compelling the last few years.  For a two hour session, I can buy airfare to the Caribbean.  Contrary to popular belief, most people in foreign countries admire Americans; especially if you act like a gentleman and are courteous.  They do not care much for the policies of our Government...which is something I tend to have in common with them; this makes for interesting conversations in Europe.

Finally, in countries where prostitution is legal, reputable sources are readily available.  I have had some poor sessions because I did not communicate my expectations very well but I have NEVER felt cheated.  I generally travel alone and have never felt threatened or unsafe.  Even those big bruisers how threw me out of the gang bang were professional and never laid a hand on me; of course, I did not give them a reason too either.

To kick a dead horse; for $1200 - $1500, I can have a 4 hour session with a lovely lady in DC that most of the time will result in two pops.  The session will be very nice in a (sometimes) nice hotel.  For $2200, I can go to the Caribbean for 6 days, have sex with 10-12 woman that are 10 years younger, have very nice sessions in most every case, drink lots of rum, hang out at the beach and come home completely relaxed and refeshed.  For ~4000, I can go you Europe for 5 days, have sex with lovely ladies 10 years younger, generally healthier in appearance and I don't have to sneak around or worry about getting cheated since it is all readily available and legal.  I use to spend $9K on vacations and $7K on the hobby.  Now I spend about $14K a year on the two combined and have an average of %25 more sessions.  Globalization is a wonderful thing.

Before I get flamed, I realize I am generalizing and I have seen plenty of really nice women in the States that I feel delivered and I would see again.  My first session was with Samantha (Native American) in Rockville and I have YET to have a session that comes even close to hers in the States.  It was the best $250 (it was 2003) I have EVER spent in my life.  I don't want to see her again for fear of being disappointed and tainting my memory of that experience; talk about setting a high bar your first time out.  I have had sessions that rival hers in Thailand, Germany, and Poland for about or less than I paid in 2003.

I don't have a VIP account so PMs will go unanswered for a while.

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Really interesting post tw1st. May I ask, which Carribean countries are you talking about specificlly?

Language barrier.  If the girls don't speak good or any English, I find it very hard to enjoy the session.  

Also, hobbying overseas exclusive as a replacement for local hobbying doesn't provide the solution of instant fix that is needed sometimes. If I get horny at 3:00 PM, I can't get laid at 5:00 PM.I can do that locally. I don't mind planning, and in the past have booked appointments a month or so in advance, but sometimes we need instant gratification...

Last but not the least - This is feast of famine kind of situation. Having 10 women in 7 days, and then going without sex for rest of the year doesn't do me any good. I like to pace my appointments so as to derive the most happiness.  Now, if you lived overseas or visited foreign countries often, its a different story...

I wouldn't mind overseas hobbying as an experience, but not as a replacement. Actually, I did go to FKK club last year, and had a blast

I spend a lot of time in the Dominican Republic now; I am the most comfortable there.  I also go to Colombia and Costa Rica.  I went to Brazil and Peru but did not like the women.

This is true; your mileage will very depending on your needs.  I hobby to supplement my civilian relationships and have a somewhat reliable source for regular sex.  For me, civilian relationships generally beat hobby relationships any day of the week.  I have more satisfying orgasms when I am emotionally invested.  If you are too busy to have civilian relationships, this does not work.  

The "problem" is I am in my early forties and the ladies I date are my age plus or minus 4 years.  The hobby for me in a word is about youth (NOT UNDER AGED) and energetic sex.  If I need a quick fix, I have a Fleshlight (google it) that meets that need.  THAT THING IS GREAT and only costs a one time fee.  The quick fixes with providers you are talking about are usually disappointing to me; my little head has bad judgement and cannot be trusted.  I wasted more money than I would have liked on those scenarios and when I found a reliable provider that met that need, she would leave the profession.

As to language, in the Caribbean and South America, this is true.  I go there for sex, cheap food and drink, and a relaxed environment (read BEACH).  Best to work on your spanish before you go.  I am now passable and get along fine.  In Europe, I never have a problem finding a woman who speaks English that I find attractive.  Some of the time at FKKs, they come to me to practice their English.

in maryland been too spooked to hobby...plus all the young providers out there have all dissapeared....I have resorted to hobbying only when out of town.....some of the providers I miss-alice ayares, kiley....maryland been kind of dead.

Traffic is horrible!!
I've had to cancel, and have been canceled on, because of how bad the traffic gets around here.
Pretty much have to head out 2hrs early just to make it in time these days.

I do not mind sharing my schedule with you, and you can use my schedule as a template. Of course work and other personal things get in the way, but here is what you can do to make it work for all of your hobbying needs. This has work for me, and this will work for you.

Okay, I go to work at around 6:00AM, I then go in my office and sleep for several hours, which makes it about 10:00AM (make sure you lock your office door. Sometimes putting a sign that your out for lunch works well). Spend a few minutes to check your emails and work related content, which makes the time 10:04AM. I then spend at least two hours searching the Eros, BackPage, and TER ads, which makes it 12:04PM. By this time, I already have an appointment booked. Spend 30 minutes to commute to her place, which makes it 12:34PM. Get freaky and nasty with her, and that usually last for about 2 minutes, which makes the time 12:36PM. Find the nearest restaurant to eat, and that last for about one hour, which makes it 1:36PM. Quietly go back to your office, and make sure no one sees you, then lock your office door again, and take a good nap, which usually last about 3 to 4 hours, which makes it 5:36PM. By that time, you have already satisfied your time at your work place, and are free to go.

I do this everyday at my work, and this is the perfect method to fit your hobbying lifestyle into your busy schedule. As for funds, well, I find that under my couch. Sometimes people drop money in there, and I always pick it up after they leave and claim that for myself. Its extra money, and that is what I use to supplement my hobbying expenses. Your welcome my friend, and please, feel free to share my schedule with anyone that needs it.

Hope you can pick up this message.
What specific destinations/hotels can you suggest for DR or Costa Rica?