It's great that TER is back. It's been my experience that this a great forum for like minded people. I've met many great ladies here and thoroughly enjoy the interaction.
Before I state anything, let me say that NSNC can be for many legitimate reasons and I've rarely reported any. Most of the time, the lady had an emergency and was in touch as soon as they could. Most of the time, they offered something special, like an extra half hour or lunch before hand to make up or maybe even something "off menu". After all, we are human and we need to treat each other as well as possible in the hobby.
Every once in a great while, though, there is a clunker. Jessie-Jay/Viva (346120). Even though her reviews showed a disturbing trend, I thought I would try while taking appropriate precautions. Long story short, first try, texts, then dark. She contacted me with an apology three days later and set up for another night. Day of appointment, crickets, despite several attempts to contact her. Next day, "I'm so sorry, I wasn't feeling well, when can we reschedule?". Sorry, a pattern was established. I'm not going to try a third time.
So please take it for what it's worth. I hope to hear something more positive about her at some point, but I won't be trying to meet her.