In preparing for one of my recent encounters with a provider, I tried something special and did the following in the time leading up to my appointment:  

- Got a haircut
- Washed and dried my shirt, undershirt, pants, underwear and socks
- Sprayed fabric freshener on all of them
- Showered, shampooed and cleaned myself thoroughly from head to toe, of course
- Used aftershave and deodorant
- Applied 2 different colognes on my body and all my clothes
- Brushed my teeth 3 times and also brushed my tongue
- Rinsed with mouthwash 3 times
- Popped a couple of mints
- Of course, washed again upon arrival at the appointment

So, what was the result of doing all of this?  During the session she was literally ALL OVER me with her mouth, tongue and and whole body and she couldn't seem to get enough.  At times, I couldn't tell if I was eating her or she was eating me.  LOL.  

It might be that she would do that anyway even if I didn't put in the effort to be so clean and great smelling. So my question to providers is - would you be turned on by a client who went through the kind of effort I did before the appointment.  Would you appreciate it enough to give him a little "extra" attention, if you know what I mean?  Or do you think this is going overboard?

Maybe slightly over board, but..I'm sure no Companion would be un appreciative about it! And, it would drive anyone wild..at least it would me.

Keep doing what you're doing!~

xoxoxo~*Aerial May*~
(AKA: SexyGymnast)

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Not sure if you remember him, but he was one of the worst, ponzone.

Great advice!  Also we provide mouthwash in our incalls for your use. If its laid out there for you in a small Dixie cup doesn't hurt to swish swish

S

If you didn't floss a few hours before your appointment , that piece of food stuck
between your teeth since last week was fermenting well  .
 You were saved by the mints .
For future reference,  only floss the teeth you want to keep .

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Yeah, I did shave down there as well and reached back as far as I could.  I normally do that.  Also, trimmed a couple of nose hairs that were showing just a tad.  I have to remember the bath powder for next time.

I'm not being tongue-in-cheek.  I actually did all of that.  Of course, we're the customer.  But I knew going into it that she's classy and damn beautiful - the perfect combination for me.  So, I wanted to be "perfect" for her.  She seemed to appreciate my efforts, gave me many compliments and an intense session, to say the least.  I never had a provider pin me down before.  LOL.

BTW BeeFEater, I've been away from the hobby for some time.  But I've been lurking here all along and your posts are consistently among the best - a real storehouse of knowledge.

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How much colonge is to much? I don't wear it myself but Some guys go over board. lol

If you expect a lady to be fresh, then the guy should be also. Here are a few more things that I do.  BTW, I only hobby when I travel and prefer to do outcall in the evenings at my hotel, which sets some of my activities.

Shave my manhood for three days running before the appointment to make sure I haven't missed any stragglers and there are no nicks.

Drink  pineapple juice starting at noon, and several times before the appointment.

Floss after every meal that day, with brushing and mouthwash afterward.

An hour before our appointment, shower thoroughly, scrubbing and rinsing the privates three times and everything else twice. Light on the deodorant afterwards, and no cologne, unless she prefers. And shave my face to make sure I don't give her a beard burn on her thighs when she squeezes them against my face. Dress in loose fitting clothes that are easily removed.

Clean my hotel room so it is straight and tidy. Towels and soap laid out by the sink. Soft lighting/candles. Bottle of wine/champagne and chocolate on the table with the appropriate envelope. Soft music on the computer, if I can get pandora to work.

Breath mints when she calls. Prop the door open and watch for her coming down the hallway. Open the door when she approaches and welcome her into my room. Enjoy an evening of mutual delight and pleasure.


I want her to know it is a special time for me, and that she is very special to me. With this approach, I have never been disappointed in any of my experiences with a lady. Its called treating her right.

Honestly, most clients I've seen are exceedingly self-aware and simply like to give a good presentation and take great care of themselves...purely for themselves.  That is great for my purpose- but its also just very sexy.

Then there are clients who are slobs and don't care and they're "entitled" to treating themselves however they wish and that's fine.  But when they ignore the little setup of a fresh towel, men's bodywash & mouthwash I place for them upon arrival...well the service they receive is not what the client who is self-conscious enough to take care of himself before arrival receives.

On manscaping I am soft and smooth- I like a man that feels like a man.
I'm not one of these girls who cries about stubble on my kitten lol.  If you have whiskers or a five 'o' clock shadow, keep it because I think its hot.

Sometimes guys come in ooh so proud and say "look Ally! I shaved all my junk for you" and they're smooth as a baby.  No thanks.  I like my men Brawny Man style, stay hairy up top, trimming is fine, clean underneath is great if you want my tongue to venture there.

Please don't splash on two different kinds of fragrance lol.  I'd rather smell the fresh scent of soap than you drown yourself in cologne - that can be offensive too.

Funny post- you likely make all of your lady friends very, very happy : ).

Mutual satisfaction is the best in kind and value.  Wouldn't you agree?  I think I'll drop the cologne #2 though.  

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then cheap perfume ..  

parfumes should be applied in drops or for men or for women .. two kinds of cheap perfume..O my lord .

I know it is not a dates as  real GF .. it is just GFE ..

But it is  good idea to ask prefferrnces .. as man ask woman NOT to wear perfume or lipstick  which leave marks  same for man  rule - can you imagine her outfits  be in smeel of your cheap perfume after you live?
Do not use it unless I like it '
I use  ONLY If you will ask me .

As to me  in my sessions I love take bath tabs and wash  him myself  as well
as well Running all his private places as well as he wash me  or before or after and it is why Jacuzzi  hotels are the best .. bt which hotel in area of DC have such >?? true upscale  has but is there any adult datign sites by hour as  it is in NYC and  because I form denver know in Denver  Mon Chalet
http://www.mon-chalet.com/
In NYC
Liberty INN
in LI  Hollywood   ..place where such in  DC  are Pls?

So, I'm anal when it comes to hygiene.  My typical routine pre appointment is to go swimming and get a quick steam and hour or so prior.  Both are good for the ultimate in man scapping and getting between all cracks and creavises for the ultimate in clean.  Steam is best for getting a close shave.

- One missed item on the above list/s are feet/toes and fingers/nails.  I make sure the nails on my feet and toes are trimmed and free of any dirt and stain.  I've lost count of how many women, civi and pro, have commented and complimented me on the appearance and hygiene of my feet and hands.  And yes gentlemen they do pay attention.

So when I arrive to the location I'm pool and steam room fresh along with appropriately applied cologne.  NOTE:  One provider told me that she prefers the gentlemen not wear fragrance as it leaves the scent when the guy is gone along with leaving the scent in the linens.  OK.

And while it was noted.  Unless otherwise specifically requested and/or the vibe, passion and hotness takes over upon entering the room.  I ALWAYS take a shower in the presence of the lady so she is assured of good hygiene before I begin to ravage her...LOL.

There is nothing better than nice, clean, crisp 100 dollar bills.  Other than that, women appreciate that you are basically clean and non-threatening.   Save the extra effort for your girlfriend.

Hands

That includes pooping and peeing -- and all other orifices.

Also, trim your nails -- finger and toe.

Trim your nails, fingers and toes please.  Pain and damage has been caused by mens toe claws.

No finger fucking if your nails are longer than mine.

Jessie

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I am glad a hobbyist made that point too.

Jessie

Girlfriend?  LOL, that's funny.

My provider friends and I have discussed this over martinis so many times. It seems that we are all in agreement about certain things clients tend to do that baffle us and is quite disappointing.

1) If I say take a shower, don't argue that you already did that day. Esp. in DC humidity. If your armpits are soaked just from the walk from your car to hotel your junk can't be that much better off.

2)Why oh why is the pre session shower always 20 seconds long??? On the flip side the shower afterwards, when time is up tend to be a leisure 15 minutes min. Now that you're on my time it's no rush eh... thanks.

I take the time and effort to haul gum and extra tooth brushes and mouth wash and shower liquids and extra deodorant. I make sure you have a clean towel at your disposal, and at the risk of annoying my bosses I demand a certain amount of time between clients to make sure I am so sexy and fresh you could literally eat off of me. I never say "well I showered a couple hours ago". My bathroom is always steamy when a client arrives. I do this because I value myself and take pride in the service I provide, but also... I do it for you

When you donate the generous amount you do, but don't bother with hygiene/mouthwash/gum/cologne yes it's a turn off and the attitude becomes "what's the very minimum I can get away with while still pleasing him", Instead of "MMMMMMMM, damn it's been an hour already???". But the person who really suffers...is you.  

It all goes back to a single word. CONSIDERATE. We girls love that. If you are or can fake it for the session anyway, you will find that it will be directly proportionate  to a little word that you guys love APPRECIATIVE.
 I wrap my lips around a c@!$k that is is fresh and clean with love and appreciation. You considered the experience from my perspective and that makes me so appreciative I want...no, I NEED to show you toe curling gratitude.

P.S. Nails are the worst. Esp when someone doesn't even want to wash their hands much less shower. You think I'm letting you put the same finger that opened your car door and pushed the elevator button inside me without washing??? Negative