: Washington DC Discussion : That's just plain racist...Sorry for your experience...

MayaSingh 1291 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 15

You see the BS that we have to deal with from so called "TER members?"

I removed his screename per TER rules*

Ladies you can PM me and i'll share it with you though.

********** (16:25:54):
Hi, Maya--

MayaSingh (16:26:34):
hi

********** (16:26:37):
Hope you are having a relaxing day
********** (16:26:54):
I Am at the ***** in G**********n
********** (16:27:04):
Ever been there/
********** (16:27:18):
Amazing, huge shower...
********** (16:27:34):
Are you available today?
********** (16:28:12):
hello?

MayaSingh (16:28:43):
i don't think i'm a good fit for you
MayaSingh (16:28:47):
hence your name

********** (16:28:53):
because?
********** (16:29:10):
do you BBBJ, CIM?
********** (16:30:02):
???
********** (16:30:31):
OK--bye

MayaSingh (16:30:44):
because you've contacted me without doing anything that my website requests

********** (16:31:17):
You are on "chat with a provider" right now.
********** (16:31:31):
What is it that you require?

MayaSingh (16:32:07):
Please read my website sweetie. www.ExoticIndianLover.com. It will have all of the information you'll need to get started
MayaSingh (16:32:15):
I use chat for my friends only

********** (16:33:05):
OK--you sound like a royal PITA. I will spend my time and money elsewhere. Bye.

MayaSingh (16:33:26):
excuse me?
MayaSingh (16:34:26):
and you sound very rude so thanks for doing me the favor and showing how much of an ass you really are

********** (16:38:33):
I read your two reviews. You sound like a hundred dollar 30 minute pop at best. not very good looking, and fair in the sack at best. Do you really worship cows?--or just look like one.

MayaSingh (16:39:42):
Well I have 19 reviews and best of luck to you jerk

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 624 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 15

That's just plain racist...Sorry for your experience...

It would benefit the guys too from knowing who the guy is.

Such racist taunts have no place in books of most of the hobbyists..

wrps07 709 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 15

Simple solution.

If they don't follow the rules, clearly stated in your ad. Don't waste your time. There are plenty other guys that will give the information you requested.

HarperMcKenna See my TER Reviews 514 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 15

too many little boys like this...

playing around on big boy sites! Seriously over the insulting comments sent by way of my contact forms also!

dreamsescorts See Agency Profile 469 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 15

Strictly operational suggestion

ood day:

I'm going to let everyone else address all the other aspects of this and address just a * single point *.

Your business, ultimately you'll do what you want.

When I mentor, one of the things I teach is "chat is a no, no" period!

Many years ago through it's independents and agency members Fantasys! made a few observations.
One of which is the psych profile of potential clients who engages in the use of chat for pre-contact of a provider as a "TREND" is not the best client. It (Chat) also presents several different security risks most people don't see coming especially if you're having a bad day and in the wrong emotional, spiritual or mindset [head space]( et al ).

If you want to do chat for your "confirmed known quantity friends" then set it up on your website or use a third party program.

What you experienced doesn't come as a surprise to me at all. Oh the stories shared with me over the years I could tell.

Merely a suggestion.

If you want the full blown technical conversation as the hows and whys learned by those who have gone before you, ( as to not reinvent the wheel) I have a website and a e-mail which is not that hard to find. Don't PM me.

Otherwise, vent, live, learn and then get over it. As you know, someone will be along to insult you next week.

Lee Dreams

Edamus, bibamus, gaudeamu

earthshined 416 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 15

I think it's a mistake to respond

to someone who has not followed protocol. It invites more questions than need be. If you respond to a request and set a date/time then maybe you have more reason to not ignore them..

It does suck when I contact a provider and she doesnt respond. I usually assume she is busy or doesn't want to see me and leave it at that. I don't try again in a few weeks/months.

I have noticed that sometimes a provider's site isn't clear as far as what verification they require.It will say they take P411 but then they say references required? Both? I recently saw a site and the lady states in bold that she will NOT accept any other reference but from two reputable providers. Even though she says she accepts P411 for verification the statement about provider references makes it very clear.

NattyBoh68 29 Reviews 530 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 15

I would enjoy seeing you. EOM

END OF MESSAGE

MayaSingh 332 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 15

I agree

I probably allowed the conversation to go on longer than it should've. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Its creeps like this one that makes providers so on-edge about meeting new clients.

isotoes2010 262 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 15

OMG

On behalf of all NORMAL guys, I apologize for the rudeness and lack of basic respect. But... I believe he would have acted that way with any of the ladies on the board. There are always folks you interact with and wish you never had, but on the other hand, some new folks you meet enrich your life in ways you could never have imagined. Or at least manage not to pi$$ you off right away... LOL

Posted By: MayaSingh

I probably allowed the conversation to go on longer than it should've. I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Its creeps like this one that makes providers so on-edge about meeting new clients.

MayaSingh 235 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 15

funny thing is...

This type of stuff happens more often than guys may think. And then they wonder why ladies screen? Its not just about checking for LE, its also to avoid the idiots as well.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 498 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 15

That damn chat/messenger *sighs* ........

9 times out of 10 if they're contacting you from that lol they did not BOTHER to look at your website or reviews or anything else that I promise you.
I dunno what it is that makes so many sensitive if not downright rude to be reminded he should do his homework first.
He sounds like a total ass but aren't you glad to see his true colors way before ever meeting?
I'm sure he felt very proud himself too. Ugh. -_O

Stalkermuch 445 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 15

Welcome

To the industry you'll get about 100 of these a month especially when you advertise on Eros. It's a complete waste of time to even entertain these guys just simply hit the little X in the corner of the window.

Do NOT chat with clients or potentials ever, for many reasons the biggest one being its a waste of time. You are here to run a business, emails are best a few back and forth and then you move on to a solid booking, if they want to chat about anything and everything and start asking for too many details 9 times out of 10 those guys aren't serious about booking. Clients that really want to schedule will have a few questions and then they will Schedule.

I got a text earlier asking if " I would do an hour for $180 dollars" not even close to the hourly rate I, for one didn't even respond and 2 didn't think to post it on here cause that again is a waste of time.

Especially when guys know you're new will try all kinds of bullshit, especially the "Ill write a review and I'm a known board member and can bring you tons of business if you give me a discount bullshit" Ignore, Delete, and move on.

You'll find when you set a certain standard of how you operate, your policies and procedures you will have less of those guys to deal with cause you simply Don't. Have. Time.

XOXO,
Stalkermuch

iconaclassic 42 Reviews 455 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 15

TER

...is an open board, meaning that anyone with a dial up modem can join lol- you're going to come across all types....the Internet emboldens racists, so when you add sexism to the mix, you get results like this...sorry that this asshat offended you, though, beautiful

Posted By: MayaSingh

I removed his screename per TER rules*

Ladies you can PM me and i'll share it with you though.

********** (16:25:54):
Hi, Maya--

MayaSingh (16:26:34):
hi

********** (16:26:37):
Hope you are having a relaxing day
********** (16:26:54):
I Am at the ***** in G**********n
********** (16:27:04):
Ever been there/
********** (16:27:18):
Amazing, huge shower...
********** (16:27:34):
Are you available today?
********** (16:28:12):
hello?

MayaSingh (16:28:43):
i don't think i'm a good fit for you
MayaSingh (16:28:47):
hence your name

********** (16:28:53):
because?
********** (16:29:10):
do you BBBJ, CIM?
********** (16:30:02):
???
********** (16:30:31):
OK--bye

MayaSingh (16:30:44):
because you've contacted me without doing anything that my website requests

********** (16:31:17):
You are on "chat with a provider" right now.
********** (16:31:31):
What is it that you require?

MayaSingh (16:32:07):
Please read my website sweetie. www.ExoticIndianLover.com. It will have all of the information you'll need to get started
MayaSingh (16:32:15):
I use chat for my friends only

********** (16:33:05):
OK--you sound like a royal PITA. I will spend my time and money elsewhere. Bye.

MayaSingh (16:33:26):
excuse me?
MayaSingh (16:34:26):
and you sound very rude so thanks for doing me the favor and showing how much of an ass you really are

********** (16:38:33):
I read your two reviews. You sound like a hundred dollar 30 minute pop at best. not very good looking, and fair in the sack at best. Do you really worship cows?--or just look like one.

MayaSingh (16:39:42):
Well I have 19 reviews and best of luck to you jerk

Sophialo2pl See my TER Reviews 467 reads

posted 13 years ago

14 / 15

Firstly...

Sorry this happened to you, dear, but some people just have no class--it isn't just TER! By now, I am sure you have experienced enough of these jerks to know they will always be in supply. Don't let it get you down too much, take this as a lesson that some people -do not- deserve the "benefit of [your] doubt" and continue to provide the best service possible. : )

LargeHamm 33 Reviews 422 reads

posted 13 years ago

15 / 15

So sorry this happened to you

Often, we forget that bigotry still exists in this world. Please move on and put this idiot behind you. It is his loss, not yours. You have generated fans from true gentlemen on TER, mainly because you are a strong woman that will stand your ground and not put up with bullshit. Very sexy!!