Is it a turn off when a lady badmouths another lady when with you? Do you actually take the things she says as truth(even though they have prob never even met)? Or, if a lady has pages of great reviews & a provider badmouths her, do you not look at the actual reviews anymore?

When does gossip over run the reviews?

I'd think that generally the conversaton takes this turn if a hobbyist asks about another provider. Perhaps that's a bad thing unless it's known the two ladies have worked together. Otherwise you're asking about a competitor and probably should not expect anything less than a slanted opinion.

If the lady is voluntarily smashing someone it's probably due to some @$#%! contest going on.

Regardless, it's "in one ear and out the other for me". And I most likely would not repeat.

The hour or two is supposed to be our theraputic escape and not to take on additional stress from dueling providers.

I find it really disappointing that there are girls out there who would do that in the first place. What gentleman wants to hear a bunch of girly gossip and drama, when chances are that's precisely what he's paying to get away from?! I would never bring up another lady's business during a date, and if a gentleman did I would steer the conversation elsewhere.

If I were the client, I would avoid repeating with a lady who badmouthed other ladies. If she'll badmouth them to you, she easily well be badmouthing you to them.

I have one primary.  What she says trumps all.  In the past 4 or so years, she's only spoken ill of one other star/provider.  And I trust her enough to not ever wanna bother with this person as a provider or watch her movies.  Loyalty.

I like to make my own assessments...but I also am loyal.  We've seen one another way too much for me to take an unnecessary flier on an unknown.

Oh , I've heard some stories through the years. I think my worst experience was with a lady who started bitching about her stupid husband the moment I walked through the door. Not a real turn on....lol

Nor is a turn on to hear a rant about the ladies former doubles partner etc...  I get enough BS in the real world.  Just spend your time waxing on as to what a great guy I am.

Nothing is going to trump the reviews, ever, except first hand experience.  Anything else would just be noise, and I think most of us are old enough to just "know better".

I wouldn't like it.  It shows a lack of breeding and class.

I think it is pretty unprofessional. I wouldn't appreciate her speaking about someone else that way.  There are a few exceptions, if one of my two ATFs were to tell me something I would most likely take it under more consideration.

If we have fun and we have chemistry, then why would I care about what one provider says about another provider.

Be straight with me and I'm straight with you.

But sadly some of the guys do it too.

not a lot of talking going on.

Usually somethng in her mouth!

If you have nothing good to say about someone:  you better stay quite!  

Laura

I have been around many providers who love talking about other fellow providers and clients that are guilty of it too. Not smart, pointless and immature.

and they undermine the quality of this hobby. I think it's fine to talk about people we know.  I'm in this hobby to have fun.  Can't we all just get along?

I find it annoying when one provider complains about another or makes disparaging remarks... However, I find it also compels me to see the person the lady is complaining about to see if she is being truthful...

Kinda weird I know!! but whatever!

Fog

Plenty of times I don't talk about other providers in a negative manner it's just tacky and the clients who allow it. Need to realize how un professional & tacky it truly is.

Now let's talk about sex baby!!!!

Kyla

Gossip, innuendo and facts - everything said about a provider or john can't be believed or written off as gossip.

Only by listening, observing and interacting will you have a chance to figure it out.  

An example is a provider who has gained 25lbs but still uses pictures that are old and don't represent the actual person who answers the door.  Their old reviews are correct for that time period, but don't pertain to present day.  A john who has fallen on hard economic times might not be the tipper, gift giver he was in the past.    

My only conversations have centered around the lady present.  Never discuss others.

It's true- you should never listen to providers talking trash. That is not what your session is about. While, technically it is a girlfriend-ly experience to hear some b***ing, I am SURE that's not the part of the girlfriend you wanted at the moment. There is a lot of talk out there and sometimes I think you have to not only read the reviews, but, perhaps call her and see what you think. You might be able to tell by just a chat. Reviews can be fake, too- remember that. I firmly believe girls (or guys, if a girl is their girls' competition) very well may sneak by with writing a semi-believable review on another girl and then it isn't removed because where is the proof? It's terrible.