First of all, I m just here to share my exp. I m not trying to start a war with anyone. I understand that other people may not agree to what I did or find that offenive. so please, if you don't like what I wrote, just ignore me.
I saw 2 providers in March. A very well reviewed indy, and a well reviewed girl in a very well reviewed agency later in the month. It was my first time using that agency and also my first time with the indy.
In both meeting the providers were rubbing me "private to private", while they were rubbing I put my private into her private. They didn't stop me. same for the second round for both providers, I was laying on my back both time and they got on top of me, grab my private and put it into her private.
Did thing like this happened to anyone out there???

ps, please do not ask me the providers name.

I know some providers like to do the P-to-P rub, but BBFS? Ummm... HELLOOOOOO!!! McFly!!!

I am sure eveyone is grateful you used your real handle so that providers can avoid you and client can avoid your providers.

Like the previous poster stated, I have experienced what is known as a slide & Glide once in the hobby (private to private on the outside). I was nervous the whole time that it might have a mind of its own and slip in, but it didn't. That is very dangerous play. Later I read how that could cause a transmission of STD's, so now I avoid that play. Get tested immediately for your own safety sake.

The reasoning goes like this. If she did it with you, a complete new stranger, then she has done it with others. Someone in her chain of sexual partners statistically will have a STD. I have even heard of a civie girl back in the 70's who knew she was infected, getting revenge by picking up guys in bars to pass the infection on. This is Pre-AIDS. Two of my shipmates did her on different nites and had to get penicillin shots.  

I am not a doctor, but have had enough co-workers in the offshore industry catch things around the world to know, that you should always wrap that rascel.

and a post about how risky it could be.

Kisses Haley

"In both meeting the providers were rubbing me "private to private", while they were rubbing I put my private into her private. They didn't stop me. same for the second round for both providers"

I saw her for the first time last month and when I went to DATY I detected a strong fragrance of a dirty snowball in August..I stopped and she asked me if I wanted a BBBJ..Normally I would, but I felt the need to ask her to put two condoms on me...I would rather kiss latex breath..I Won't go back .
I also won't play Russian Roulette .

If you enjoy DATY with a flyer of BBFS you will also enjoy kissing a Camel..
I never kissed a Camel but I have ventured close enough, to stop my nose from further advances.

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Disgusting! So basically you could have AIDS or any other STD right now. If she offered her bare pussy to you then NEWS FLASH: She offers it to any one. How do you feel knowing that right before she was with you she had another client BBFS?
Her last client could see TS for all you know
TIME FOR A CHECK UP! Both mental and physical

Because otherwise it would mean you stuck your bareback dick in their bare pussy and expose them to life-threatening risks non-consensually. That's messed up.

Barring a self serving soul cleansing outting of your own bizarre WILLINGNESS to go bareback more than a few times with more than one lady....what is the purpose of this post? Unless you just wanted to raw dog, which is what I am discerning here.  (go get tested)

I would NEVER condone nor participate in unprotected intercourse while playing, but how do you accidently go bareback several times with two different providers? How does a normal sized woman force you to put your penis in her? My ATF of 20+ years...hello 20+ years still has NEVER PUT HIS PENIS IN MY VAGINA OR ASS UNCOVERED. So how do you manage that in one session? As close as I am with my AFT I cannot force him to do shit...esp physically. It would be a losing battle. (go get tested)

Can someone please help an old lady out? PLEASE! I may not have a clue as to what I am talking about bc I am in a whole other market of 40 years old+ providers. Am I that out of touch? Are the younger ladies on some sort of vitamin that gives them super human strength?  Have the rules changed and those of us with ANY COMMON SENSE were not on the mailing list for the new rules? (go get tested)

The entire ACT of camel sliding almost negates the use of a condom. IE if either party has a skin on skin std......someone will be leaving that appointment spreading much more than love. (go get tested)

I am not saying you are lying or calling bullshit. I fully believe you. I know there are providers and hobbyist alike who go bareback and think nothing of it. I am just curious as to the purpose of this post. (go get tested)

I earned my degree...but when I was born God BLESSED ME WITH WISDOM AND COMMON SENSE! (go get tested)

This almost happened to me.  As the provider approached for the slide I stopped and said it was time for the hat. She seemed puzzled, but not annoyed.  Gotta mitigate risks.

she didn't tell me NO when I raped her! I'm guessing they were in shock from the violation.

You knew you shouldn't do it-YOU did it anyway.

You are vile  AND an idiot!

How many stds could you have right now? herpes, genital warts (HPV) are the two most likely.

Amen!!!!!!

I've been hobbying a long time now and when I first started that was a non-negotiable.  Actually, when I think about it, this is one area of discipline I've had.  No matter how passionate or intense the session, if the hint or threat of BBFS is noticed I shut it down and say "where is the condom?"  No matter what.

So it was interesting reading this in that I have not had uncovered sex in so long.....what does that feel like?  LOL....wow interesting.

kill her is right ... it would totally fit if your handle was killer-u or killer-u2

kill her and you too

I know this isn't funny but I couldn't resist

Forgive me

I've been hobbying a lot longer than killer-b, and I've experienced that "private to private" glide and slide several times, from providers I've seen often and from those I've seen the first time.  I recognize the STD potential - usually the skin contact time is brief, before you could stop it, it's already done.
I think a bunch of people are being dishonest about BBFS. I've had 4 separate providers agree to BBFS in my lifetime.  Two are still very active in the DC area, with 100s of reviews from TER members. Scary shit, eh?  And you put your tongue down there, dontcha?
I know I'm not the only one to be offered (and accept) BBFS.  Come on, throw up an alias and 'fess up too.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criminal_transmission_of_HIV

well, think twice before you go off doing BBFS

He said he stuck his dick in her privates and was surprised that she didn't try to stop him. Shouldn't you fucking ask first?

Yelp. Is very true this activity goes on every month. I had to make a quick move one time to keep a provider from jumping on my dick without a rubber. She played it off like she forgot, lol.

I hear about providers doing this all time in the back channel.

I second that. Has happened to me with a very well reviewed local indy. I was completely surprised when she wanted to hop on, and actually had to ask for the rubber. It seemed that that was an unusual request, but she covered me up and it was fine after that. I did not go back again.

Yuck. If I was a man and a female (no matter who see is) tried to put me inside her. Unprotected or even let it touch her hole without a condom. I would think she’s burning and she’s trying to give me what she has. If a man tryed to go in ME unprotected. Or even rubs it on there without a condom. I would think the same thing. That he must be trying to give me something! I think some people think. That they have ''nine lives'' like cats.


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funny thread at the outrage of the initial post. How many providers give and how many hobbyists want BBBJ. Those of you that are MDs or have access to google should look up the facts that uncovered BJ can also be a risky activity, either the giver or receiver can get all of the fun buggies that can be had via BBFS. So unless everything is covered at all times, let's drop the BS.

BBBJ does NOT pose the same exact rish of BBFS. You're just assuming...you haven't gotten any medical proof to back up your claim. In fact, there is alot of medical evidence to prove that my post is correct and yours is incorrect.

Of course, BBBJ isn't completely safe but it is alot safer than BBFS. So, stop spreading false info...hatemonger.

Thank you for your kind words. Yet there is risk, that was my point and the outrage over bbfs when bbbj can pose a risk is ridiculous. See, for example, This link