Hiya Everyone!

I'm curious whether any TER VIP member ever sang to a provider?  I think singing is a way of expressing how privileged a man feels to be in the presence of a beautiful and kind woman.  I always sing in the shower and belt out SINGING IN THE RAIN often.  LOL

As a provider, how does this make you feel when a man sings to you while holding you in his arms so you can FEEL his voice undulating through your torso?  Or, in the shower while washing your hair he sings SINGING IN THE RAIN.

you have not written any reviews?

You must be their dream date because you book multi-hours, you use part of those hours to sing for them, but tell you what, they would love you even more if you are a one shot man and also if you take some of the time you have and write them a review

Yes, Solo, I will write glowing reviews, but I have yet to meet my first provider in October for 3 hours.  I'm a new TER VIP after being burned one too many times by fakes.  As a middle-aged man, it's not the quantity that matters, but the quality of orgasms that are based in tantric sensuality.

My goal here is to build referrals on the WHITE LIST as well as write reviews that will allow any provider to proudly mount it on her wall as evidence of what a great sensual and caring human being she is.  I have no doubt that my time with the ladies I meet through TER will be memorable and they will appreciate me for the caring attention I give them.

It's not all about the physical for me as I'm taking my first provider to see the Declaration of Independence that she hasn't seen either.  What fun it will be to have a bubbly and busty gal by my side as we go visit our founding documents that gave us the freedoms we all cherish!

You sound like one of the good guys too Solo, keep up the good work and keep the ladies smiling!

I've had Security in different hotels come knocking on my hotel door asking me to lower the frequency of the headboard banging, the volume of grunting and the "Oh My Gods" coming from the room because the rooms next door were complaining.  I can't see that my off-key singing will be tolerated.  But hey if you can get the singing by your neighbors and the lady is enjoying your off-key singing the more power to you.

Uhm, no.  Never.  That's not why I'm there.  And, I wouldn't want to subject anyone to that.

I understand you are new to the board and you have this wonderful, romantic vision of hobbying. Most of us don't share that. We are mature enough to understand that the women do this as a job. We pay them. If we're lucky, we get rocked.

No doubt you will be able to find providers who will be in to your singing, but, really, who gives a shit? Your job is to be clean, timely and respectful. Providers will tolerate your head-trips. They do that all the time. But for them, it's a job. Try not to forget that.

"I have yet to meet my first provider in October for 3 hours.  I'm a new TER VIP after being burned one too many times by fakes."

This story doesn't add up at all.  

"As a middle-aged man, it's not the quantity that matters, but the quality of orgasms that are based in tantric sensuality.  My goal here is to build referrals on the WHITE LIST as well as write reviews that will allow any provider to proudly mount it on her wall as evidence of what a great sensual and caring human being she is."

I treasure women as much as any guy, but no one could seriously write this nonsense.  

Hilarious!  I truly laughed out loud.

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I would say he is a member of a group that likes to sweet talk himself out of being verified by posting such romantic content!

what the hell am I talking about, I am always on the side of the guys .. sorry .. never mind, carry on!

it's just the way of things lol

But I learned that one should never sing or tell jokes when getting a BJ. It would hurt.

Well, bbbmmm22, maturity in a man is realizing that all women, whether it's a job to them or not, are treated like princesses.  My attitude towards women is the same whether they are being paid or not.  As men, it's not about the money, but how we treat women.  It's not a head trip, but a way of dealing with women as men.  Sing to a woman or do something for her regardless that you are paying for her time.  Some women, especially really gorgeous ones, have never had a man hold them in their arms and sing to them.  We as men need to be white nights to all women, regardless of their profession.

Singing isn't about me getting off on it,  but whether or not the woman I'm with enjoys being sang to.  So, you see, being mature men, we should realize that our efforts to be kind to women are not based in our own selfish urges to get off, but in a genuine desire to please the woman first before ourselves.  All women appreciate us good men who don't just treat them like they are only doing their job.

I'm sure you will find providers who are only in it for the money, but I carefully screen all reviews on providers, talk to providers via E-mail and phone before meeting them to get a feel for their personalities, and select only those women who have a genuine desire to be social with men where it's not just about the money to them.  Yourself flaming me here is really an immature act, and as a mature man, I would never attack another man's desire to make a woman happy.

So you ask, "who gives a shit?"  Yeah, if you are thinking from the man's perspective, nobody who thinks like you do.  But, if you are thinking from the woman's perspective, ahhh, now you are understanding how women view the world so much more deeper than men, how women long for men who interact with them to be the white nights that we are so capable of being, if only we put a little thought and time into pleasing a woman the way she wants to be pleased.

One last thing, anything I do with a woman is not because I'm paying her, but because it is her choice to share her beauty with me.  Any man who thinks he can do anything he wants to a woman just because he is paying her is sorely mistaken.  Sure, she may submit, but she will feel negative thoughts about it towards you.  Singing is not a "dumbass" thing to a woman, but a way of showing her how much you appreciate the time she has decided to spend with you.

back then, there were a lot of options too, only if I knew what it meant when they said ......

he will find out as well

You want to pay a hooker so you can sing to her? I thought I heard it all.
Surely you will become a favorite for a few providers around here who also share your loneliness and would also like to share your wallet.

You are clearly on some kind of high, because you write like a teenage 'emo' girl.

While I agree that all women all need to be treated with respect I DO NOT agree with your sentiment that we must all be white knights as they all deserve to be treated like princesses.  No, you sir are part of the problem.

You are the one paying for the experience and it is her treatment of you that most matters.  I too enjoy making a personal connection with the lady which is why I prefer to book two-hour appointments so that nothing is rushed and we have time to converse and also 'cuddle' afterward.  Perhaps a very good, considerate and sweet provider will earn being treated like a princess after a few consistent sessions that have me on cloud nine long after.  Someone who selfishly lies, over-promises, under-performs or has a sense of diva entitlement on the other hand will not get such treatment from me.

You are part of the problem perpetuating the cycle of drama, poor service, and sense of entitlement that some providers exhibit.  You enable it by allowing them to profit despite their bad behavior and actually take from you as you stand there with an open wallet singing them a soliloquy.  You're old enough now to finally grow up and get over whatever desperate psychological need you have make these women like and accept you at all costs; it is very unmanly and unbecoming.

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Are you going to dress up in a dinasaur suit and sing helter skelter?!

My sides hurt from laughing so much. Right now I'm watching a middle aged man with his face pressed against the net on a moon bounce watching two twelve year old girls in daisy dukes frolic in there and your post is still more disturbing. Congratultions!

I love to sing.  I sang so much Karaoke last night that I can barely speak today.  LOL  I wouldn't mind a bit if you sang to me.  As a matter of fact, I think it is a sweet gesture.  Ignore the haters!  I have sung to a few of my clients.  Not a whole song.  But sung a verse along with what we were listening to.  I have had a few guys sing to me too.  I love it.  

Muah!  Betty xoxoxo

I'm singin' and dancin' in the rain!

Your encounters sound cold and distant.   Good for you if that's what you're looking for.  Every provider is different.  Just like all of you guys are different.  I'll take the warm, cuddly, singing, teddy bear type any day of the week over a cold-hearted, distant person.

And by the way, you cannot do any dumbass thing you want.  Wrong again dear.

Peace, Betty

actually agreed on something!  LOL  Too funny!  ha ha

Peace, Betty xoxo

No sweet talk would ever get him or anyone else out of being screened.    Thanks for caring though.  lol

Betty xoxo