Let's see...are you really considered a "nervous nelly" if, especially with everything that's been going on lately, a gent sends a emails (from two different accounts, neither of which look familiar) saying he's seen you before at a hotel you've never even heard of and mentions things about you that aren't at all accurate...like "I brought t-shirts and things for your daughter" when I don't even have a daughter??? What about if he says he's written a review but the email account he's using doesn't match the one from the TER screen name he gives and can't be found in a White List search?
I respect and protect my clients' need for discretion just as much as I do my own and do not keep "records" since I've seen it can cause too many problems. And so, when established friends reconnect with me I rely on my memory, which they are usually very good at refreshing with non-incriminating and ACCURATE details about our time together.
I don't mean to bash Mr. Rocket as now I can see that we actually have met. Just wanted to tell my side and also maybe drop a few hints about how to properly reconnect with a lady so that she doesn't blow you off as a time waster or someone trying to duck screening.
saw she was back after taking a break.I have seen her alot and have reviews on her on 2 boards.Called her to schedule apt. and told her a few things about last time I saw her/location, then all of sudden she says I am sorry but I think you have the wrong person.and I don't know you ,very rude and hung up on me.
At a time like this one can never be too careful. Talking about anything in detail is cause for concern and I would have done the same in her shoes. I know you and know you're a nice guy but you must be careful what you say on the phone and in person.
is a bit of a nervous nelly in this regard, or should I say, she is very cautious about her screening protocols.
Regardless, it would be bad form to mention anything that would be considered illicit or taboo in any initial conversation, even if you have history. She has been gone a while, and as far as she is concerned, your just another face. In this case you let her know you have seen her before. If she doesn't specifically remember you, you then let her take the lead in asking questions.
Personally, to me, this is reassuring. This tells me that maybe she doesn't keep the name and number of everyone who ever called her for 50 years...
Let's see...are you really considered a "nervous nelly" if, especially with everything that's been going on lately, a gent sends a emails (from two different accounts, neither of which look familiar) saying he's seen you before at a hotel you've never even heard of and mentions things about you that aren't at all accurate...like "I brought t-shirts and things for your daughter" when I don't even have a daughter??? What about if he says he's written a review but the email account he's using doesn't match the one from the TER screen name he gives and can't be found in a White List search?
I respect and protect my clients' need for discretion just as much as I do my own and do not keep "records" since I've seen it can cause too many problems. And so, when established friends reconnect with me I rely on my memory, which they are usually very good at refreshing with non-incriminating and ACCURATE details about our time together.
I don't mean to bash Mr. Rocket as now I can see that we actually have met. Just wanted to tell my side and also maybe drop a few hints about how to properly reconnect with a lady so that she doesn't blow you off as a time waster or someone trying to duck screening.
use discretion with trying to reconnect with any past providor. Your professional and non attacking response shows me that you are a true professional. This is a great reminder for all the guys out there that we must be extra careful in the way we try to reconnect.
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