One of the easiest ways for me to dislike a session is to feel rushed.  All else equal, I'd take an unrushed session with an 8 (looks) over a rushed session with a 10 any day.  I'd almost rather take my chances on BP than go agency where rush seems likely.   Maybe some of you agree with me.   I'd say about 1/3 - 1/2 of the agency providers I've seen end up rushing me to get out either right on time or prior to the end of my paid time.  The worst is where the agency calls her about ten minutes prior to the end of the 1 hr meeting to make sure we are finishing up.  This usually happens when I'm trying to coax a second round our of my weary soldier.  I've even had this happen when the session started late (due to no fault of my own), meaning the call came more like 20 minutes early.  But in the time it takes for her to even look at her flashing phone, I lose my concentration and there's often not enough time left to start over.    This problem has been consistent with a number of agencies including Prime, Classy, and PureGirlfriends (RIP).   I guess this simply boils down to the volume being so much higher for most of these agency women.   That plus, as compared to indies, they seem to be less in control of how many clients they see and how much time in between clients.

In contrast, I'd estimate no more than 10% of indies rush me.  If the conversation etc is good and she seems interested then I see no reason why going over 10 minutes or whatever for a 1 hr session is a bad thing for anyone.  In the end, I'd say I average an extra 10 minutes with indies, which is usually just enough to get off a second nut without being rushed getting the first off.   I suppose if a second nut were out of the question (which will happen naturally as I age I'm sure), then I'd be more indifferent.   But for now, clearly the indies are a better value for me on a dollar/nut basis.

I dunno, maybe TGND (RIP) figured out this problem with their "bakers dozen" of providing with the 70 minute session....GENIUS!!!

Anyway, I'm curious to hear reactions about my musings from fellow hobbiests.

#1 - The "agencies suck, indies rule" horse is a dead one that's been beaten to death here multiple times.  For every guy who's had nothing but bad agency experiences there is another guy who's had nothing but good agency experiences.  And most have had some combination of good and bad experiences.  It's true that agency gals are likely to have a fuller dance card than indies - in many cases because the gals want to be as busy as possible during the limited time that they are visiting.  And it's not surprising that a gal who has a pretty full slate of appointments on a given day may not be jazzed at the prospect of every single one of them wanting to go for multiple rounds.  But according to your own observations, as they relate to the problem of being "rushed" through a session, 1/2 to 2/3 of the agency gals you see do not in fact rush you.  In other words, most of your experiences have been positive in that regard.  

#2 - Whether it's an indy or agency gal, I don't see how you can reasonably complain about being "rushed" to finish within the amount of time that you paid for.  I suspect that many indies would disagree with your observation that "going over 10 minutes for a 1 hour session" is not a bad thing for anyone.  If you get a vibe from the lady that it's cool to stay for some extra time, that's one thing.  But you shouldn't expect that paying for 60 minutes should get you 70 minutes.  If you want to ensure enough time for multiple trips to the well, sign up for more than an hour.

I agree with you 100%. Naturally I have had great agency experiences, but I have also been rushed quite a few times and I feel this is unacceptable. Agencies should allow for at least half an hour inbetween appointments. I have talked with a number of agency girls about this (hence my alias), and they all say that they have no choice---several girls from Classy have told me they have to do what the agency tells them to do. It's shameful. And yes, I really miss TGND and Cindy.

In my experience, I've always had positive experiences with the agencies. But then again, I've only seen two indys. It's hard with my schedule to book time with an indy and I always fear I'll have to postpone or cancel entirely and that's not fair to her or to all of you who might have that time available.

The agency that I favor has always been great at accommodating me on fairly short notice. I have used the big three and none of them have ever rushed or called. On the other hand, the one indy I saw I was not allowed MSOG and she was not entirely GFE, which was disappointing.

Not to change the subject, but another reason I don't use indys is because I don't have alot of established references. There are some indys I'd love to see, but that holds me back. If anyone has ideas or any indys are willing to work with me, PM with suggestions.

Cheers all!

Tilt my head to the side and say "really?" "really?"

The basic's is that we are only "Paying" for time.  

For me I can't say there is a difference between Agency and Indy. I have never felt rushed. However, I have never spent a minute more than I paid. The logic? With my day job, even my most favored clients, I really don't want to spend more time with them than I absolutely have to.  So even though they may seem like its cool to hang out, and I may be wrong in you case with those Indy's you see, but it really isn't. They want their work day over too just like anyone who works to pay bills. They don't want to work overtime without pay (Do you? I don't and I won't). They want to get home to oh maybe a boyfriend, or a husband, or even a cute dog.


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You pay for one hour, you should get one hour.  I don't expect overtime for free but I don't like girls getting ready for the next client with 10 minutes to go.  Sometimes agencies book the girls tight and the 1 pm appt is followed by the 2 pm appt and so on.  First, when you have to wait 5-10 minutes to see the girl, often the agency still calls on the hour to let the girl know that the next client is ready.  Second, toward the end of the hour when you're trying to finish up sometimes or just chilling, the girl is already thinking about getting ready for the next guy.  But if you pace yourself for a 45 minute session, things work out for you and the girl.

I figure if you get what you came for (that is "off") and it was fun and the woman was fun, who the hell cares if it was 60 minutes, 50 minutes or even 40 minutes?

I don't feel the need to eat every bite of food on my plate in a restaurant either. If I enjoyed the meal and I'm not hungry any more what the hell difference does it make?

Understand, I'm not talking about getting hustled out in 15 minutes. I'm responding the the 10 minutes here and 10 minutes there concern.