I've been away from the community for a few years and am having difficulties in the screening process  because: 1) I can't get any references - the providers I used to see are no longer around and 2) I no longer work and, therefore, am unable to use employment as a means of verification.

I completely understand the need for screening, but what can I do to become a productive member of the community again?

Thanks, TriSli

Here are a couple:

http://www.date-check.com/
https://www.preferred411.com/

That would be your easiest method rather then having to keep calling up girls and being turned down because of your situation.